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Hairdresser asking me to pay in cash

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Sally3490 · 28/06/2026 05:32

I've been going to my hairdressers for about 10 years. It's quite pricey £160 for full highlights and a cut (London). When I was last in they asked if I would pay in cash in future. The ATM is on route so in theory I could, but it adds some level of inconvenience and I'd rather not be carrying that amount of cash with me. But also, I feel it's damn cheeky. They are charging alot of money and should be paying their taxes. AIBU?

OP posts:
RVectensian · 28/06/2026 06:57

Sally3490 · 28/06/2026 06:09

If it were an issue with card fees they would offer a bank transfer option surely.

Not necessarily, that relies on someone there and then being able to check a bank transfer goes through before you leave. Sometimes there are delays in them going through etc.

Sally3490 · 28/06/2026 07:04

Frumpitydoo · 28/06/2026 06:55

Comply with her wishes, or go elsewhere. It's not bloody complicated.

Or just keep paying by card? They aren't refusing to take cards for all customers. I was specifically taken aside as I left the salon to ask if in future I could pay in cash. To be fair they weren't saying that was the only option. I can only assume I was targeted as I'm a long standing customer.

OP posts:
PersephoneParlormaid · 28/06/2026 07:09

My hairdresser asks for bank transfer into her personal account, presumably that’s no different to cash?
Im surprised they want cash on the premises TBH.

Timespentwithcatsisneverwasted · 28/06/2026 07:13

Card machine fees are probably the reason. My hairdresser used to do bank transfer but some people never paid, so now it's cash or card. But she runs a small business so I always pay her cash. But my cut and colour is fifty quid 😂

OneAmberGoose · 28/06/2026 07:14

There’s absolutely nothing illegal or tax dodging about a business preferring to take cash payments over card payments. Card transaction fees are crippling for small
businesses, on top of rentals for the machines themselves! A lot of businesses, mine included, use the cash we take to pay suppliers, it negates fees on both sides that way! Using cards always has a cost for someone, using cash doesn’t, it should be championed!

Emmasblackboard · 28/06/2026 07:15

Speakeasier · 28/06/2026 06:15

I know of someone who was married to a taxi driver. He was only paying tax on the fares that were on cards. I also know a plumber who asked me to pay for his holiday deposit rather than to him directly. These people are often those who moan about people coming over here and being a drain on our society (yes I know that for a fact too).

The vast majority of people who are paid in cash seem to do it to dodge taxes. It’s very annoying for those people who do PAYE as they’re basically subsidising those people that get paid cash in hand. I don’t see why they shouldn’t pay their way like everyone else but I think they see it as a perk for being self employed (I’m also self employed and I pay all my taxes because I think that’s the ethical thing to do btw, while also recognising that I’m a mug when so many people don’t). I also know people who go out to lunch on a social basis and ask for the receipt presumably to claim it back as a work expense when it definitely isn’t.

These people are not living hand to mouth and have very nice lifestyles. I wouldn’t pay someone in cash any more unless there really wasn’t any other option.

I knew people at two different companies (lorry driver and model agent) who were PAYE but who got extra hours paid in M&S vouchers. When I see people with trolleys of food in M&S I always imagine they get paid like that. It’s really frustrating. The lorry driver’s company also did cash jobs and split the money by way of £1000 M&S vouchers at Christmas.

Needanadultgapyear · 28/06/2026 07:16

If you want to keep going and want to keep paying by card pay by debit card as these usually have a flat transaction fee unlikely credit cards that take a percentage. Amex takes the highest percentage and that is how they fund all the things they offer you.

Meadowfinch · 28/06/2026 07:21

My hair salon has been doing this since the start of the year, when the bank increased cheque processing charges for small business accounts. No alternatives. Prior to that, I'd paid him by cheque for 20 years because card processing fees were too high.

Your salon is probably trying to reduce their bank charges. They are not necessarily avoiding tax.

HelpMeGetThrough · 28/06/2026 07:30

I always pay cash where I go, the majority of customers do. They’ll accept card if you want to.

If they aren’t up front with their tax, that’s a them problem, not for me to even be concerned about.

ToffeeCrabApple · 28/06/2026 07:30

HiZev · 28/06/2026 06:02

Cash handling fees are also huge. It's overwhelmingly likely to be a tax thing.

This. Cash deposit fees are similar to card transaction fees. Refusing card payments Its often a way to either:

  • avoid hitting the VAT registration threshold
  • declare lower profits for tax, child maintenance or benefit purposes
  • pay undocumented workers "off thd books" cash in hand.
JoyousOpalLemur · 28/06/2026 07:35

Support local businesses by paying in cash.

I know someone who works for a financial firm - believe me, they make billions just from taking a tiny cut of all the card transactions.

Twilightstarbright · 28/06/2026 07:35

I vote with my feet as I hugely prefer to pay by card to manage my spending like a PP. also there’s barely any cash machines where I live and I have a 50% rate of the ATM eating my bank card and I would just rather not have the hassle.

tttigress · 28/06/2026 07:40

So is this hairdresser doing a good job? Although the price seems high what would it be at other places in the area?

HoskinsChoice · 28/06/2026 07:56

Amba1998 · 28/06/2026 05:41

Why do people automatically assume that it’s because people want to avoid taxes

Card machine fees are huge for small businesses

As is processing cash if done legally. Your theory has been disproved time and time again, why do people keep trotting this out? If everything is been done properly, officially and legally, there is no cost difference between cash and card to the retailer.

We can't assume that they're fiddling tax but there is no other reason to specifically ask for cash, particularly when transactions are at the £100+ level.

I wouldn't touch them with a bargepole and I would happily explain why. For the reasons already mentioned - security, inconvenience and likelihood of being involved in tax avoidance.

LondonRidge · 28/06/2026 07:58

floralchoices · 28/06/2026 06:50

My hairdresser openly told me she doesn’t put cash through the books.

My sister’s builder did a whole extension for £9 grand and it was paid in cash.

i think it’s very common.

9 grand for an extension, can he do mine??!!

HoskinsChoice · 28/06/2026 07:58

JoyousOpalLemur · 28/06/2026 07:35

Support local businesses by paying in cash.

I know someone who works for a financial firm - believe me, they make billions just from taking a tiny cut of all the card transactions.

Of course they make money from it, do you expect service providers to do it for free? By that logic, the hairdresser in question should also cut hair for free because, 'trust me' they're making money from you too. What a weird argument!

HortiGal · 28/06/2026 07:59

You walk by a cash machine but it’s an inconveniences? Either withdraw cash or find a new hairdresser.
Many many businesses are encouraging cash payments to reduce bank fees, it’s not always a tax dodge.

IkeaMeatballGravy · 28/06/2026 08:00

If I can help it, I avoid 'cash is king' businesses. I pay my taxes, I won't inconvenience myself so other people can avoid paying theirs.

I don't know what your area is like OP, but I wouldn't walk through the street with that much money in my pocket. Especially if thieves catch on to people using that particular machine to withdraw cut and colour sums of money

cramptramp · 28/06/2026 08:03

It costs them for you to pay with a card. Do a small business a favour and pay in cash.

HoskinsChoice · 28/06/2026 08:05

HelpMeGetThrough · 28/06/2026 07:30

I always pay cash where I go, the majority of customers do. They’ll accept card if you want to.

If they aren’t up front with their tax, that’s a them problem, not for me to even be concerned about.

Do you use the NHS? Do you have kids in state school? Do you walk in parks? Are your bins collected? Do you want your house fire to be put out? Do you want criminals to be put in prison? Do you want roads to drive on? Do you want a state pension? Do you want social care services to protect the vulnerable?

If the answer to any of those questions is 'yes' then it absolutely is your concern. You're a fool if you think supporting fraud is nobody else's concern. They are not only greedy, they are literally stealing money from public services.

musicandmen · 28/06/2026 08:06

Sally3490 · 28/06/2026 06:09

If it were an issue with card fees they would offer a bank transfer option surely.

Some business banking accounts charge for lots of their services and smaller businesses often prefer cash because of it. Also it depends on how the staff are paid/employed in my hairdresser he’s quite happy to take card because the staff are employed and on a salary. But some hairdressers the are self employed and renting the space, it means a lot of work if people made paying by card to determine who’s money that is

LoafofSellotape · 28/06/2026 08:06

Amba1998 · 28/06/2026 05:41

Why do people automatically assume that it’s because people want to avoid taxes

Card machine fees are huge for small businesses

This! Using a card is expensive for a business and ultimately the customer as their prices have to cover this. Cash does not mean no taxes .

HiZev · 28/06/2026 08:07

JoyousOpalLemur · 28/06/2026 07:35

Support local businesses by paying in cash.

I know someone who works for a financial firm - believe me, they make billions just from taking a tiny cut of all the card transactions.

I love the idea that we'd need to know someone who works for a "financial firm" to know that banks make a profit.

Ask your special insider contact about cash handling fees. They also charge for them 😮

Stars26 · 28/06/2026 08:09

My hairdresser ( North west) only takes cash and did bank transfer until people forgot to pay. So that stopped. My hair cut is £30 so i don’t mind.

HoskinsChoice · 28/06/2026 08:09

cramptramp · 28/06/2026 08:03

It costs them for you to pay with a card. Do a small business a favour and pay in cash.

It also costs to process cash (if it's done properly and legally). There is no cost differential in cash and card. Please listen read the various posts in this thread that say the same thing. You may be doing 'them a favour' but you are also likely to be supporting fraud and taking away money from the public services you use. You're doing them a favour but where is their favour to you? They are literally stealing money from you.

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