I could use perspective on this issue. DD is a student looking to rent a 2nd and 3rd floor flat in a tenement in Edinburgh with her flatmates from halls. For those who know the city, it’s on George IV Bridge (so very central, a 5 minute walk to Princes Street and also very busy with bars and restaurants). There are business on the ground floor—a vape shop, kebab place and restaurant.
I’m concerned about fire, especially the vape shop—the big fire in Glasgow a little while ago started in a vape shop. The only exit is the main door. There’s one window that they could be rescued/escape from. It’s difficult to explain—the flat sits on top of the bridge so on the side of the building it drops down so they would actually be on the 4th floor and 5th floor. The windows from the back can’t be accessed by a fire engine as they back onto another building.
I don’t really want her to take it, but they love the place and they’re late on sorting something out. AIBU to try to put her off? Or just don’t get involved? There’s virtually nothing else right now. Just a tenement flat that’s in a dodgy looking side road and is expensive/doesn’t look particularly safe.
You aren’t being unreasonable = try to put her off
You are being unreasonable = don’t interfere. She’s an adult.