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To be annoyed by this part of the the wording of news reports about the croc incident

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SooPanda · 22/06/2026 17:21

(Not about the incident itself. My heart goes out to the poor child and his family, and I don’t want to discuss the details of the incident itself because there are lots of threads on that already.)

AIBU??! Every news report I’ve read says that “the wife of the zoo owner” jumped in to save the boy.

Is she not also the zoo owner then??

AIBU to be annoyed that this heroic woman is being referred to by her marriage to a man and not her own credentials?

OP posts:
AgentPidge · 23/06/2026 18:12

Livelovelaughfuckoff · 22/06/2026 18:00

I suspect if newspapers lead with "zoo owner" jumps in to save boy most people would assume they were referring to a man. I suppose this instantly highlights that this heroic act was carried out by a woman.

Historically it looks like it has been a family business on the husbands side for several generations so presumably that is where the assumption comes from. Can't find whether she is specifically a legal owner or not so can't really muster the enthusiasm to froth about something that actually be factually correct.

Yes, it's the fact that she's a woman.
It's a relatively recent development that eg. a woman will be referred to as a 'farmer' in her own right.
They could get round it though: one of the owners, "Jane', jumped in... Etc.

TheignT · 24/06/2026 15:22

SooPanda · 22/06/2026 21:44

But the context is that she did something heroic. It’s about Sally the hero saving a child. Even if that child was saved at the husband’s GP surgery, Sally should be given more of a title and identity than just his “wife”. It’s so patronising!

In the aftermath of an incident various reporters will have gathered information about the farm, the zoo etc. one local whose known her husband all his life will describe her ax the zoo owners wife,another friend might describe her as the owner of the zoo and someone else sees her as a colleague. I doubt any reporter rushing to meet a deadline started enquiring with the land registry or local solicitors on the legal position.

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