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To wonder if there’s any point to a cleaner with under 5s?

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summerstarts · 19/06/2026 17:10

I’m trying to think of how to manage workload and a cleaner seems the obvious place to start but with two young children I’m not sure there’s any point. I’d have to tidy up before they came, and the house would be messed up again within a matter of hours.

I’d love to say it’ll be worth it but I’m not convinced the few hours of coming home to a tidy house are worth it!

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TheRealWhacker · 19/06/2026 18:31

summerstarts · 19/06/2026 17:37

The problem is they do roam through the house rather. It isn’t just toys though. The house isn’t necessarily hugely untidy but it takes a lot of effort to keep it that way and I feel like I spend my life cleaning and tidying only to have to do it again in a matter of hours.

I think what I want is just an extended period where it stays clean and tidy but that’s probably just not family life!

The trick is to have a wicker basket in each room to put assorted bits of crap that have made their way into the room in and periodically sort through them.

summerstarts · 19/06/2026 19:08

WeatherOrNothing · 19/06/2026 18:20

Then you should declutter. If tidying is taking too long then you have too much stuff

I don’t know if it is quite that simple but de cluttering does take time.

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40andnotsofabulous · 19/06/2026 19:13

I would get rid of most things before I would get rid of cleaner. She is worth her weight in gold.

It forces me to do a tidy on a Thursday night and then when I arrive back home on a Friday my house is beautifully clean. I start the weekend relaxed, my house ready for entertaining or just enjoying the peace! Life is too short- if you can afford it then I would.

echo the above… even when my house is messy, I know it’s clean. This is a big bonus for me!

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