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AIBU to not know the actual rules on parking next to a dropped kerb?

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Kerbie678 · 18/06/2026 05:51

I'm not sure what's allowed and what's not regarding parking over a dropped kerb, as different websites have conflicting advice.

There's a dropped kerb outside my house specifically for my driveway, and there is a wooded area across the road with no footpath, so it's not as if anyone needs to access the dropped kerb in order to cross the road.
I'm unable to use the driveway presently as it's too steep, but I do use the dropped kerb to turn my car around, because otherwise I'd have to drive down the road to turn it as my road isn't the widest.

I tend to park along my dropped kerb, but lately my neighbour has taken to parking his car directly over it if he arrives home before me and there's little car parking space elsewhere for him. When he does this, it means I have to park further down the road and am unable to see my car out the window to check on it. What's more, this leaves me unable to turn my car round easily, as mentioned.

My neighbour has two vehicles for his property, and often parks leaving a large space between them, and even though I've politely asked if he wouldn't mind parking a few metres further along so that I can park outside my own drive, he usually ignores this,

Do I have any rights to park outside my own dropped kerb, as, like I said, some websites say yes, but others say I'm not able to.
Btw, I know I don't own the road, but would just like advice on this, thanks.

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1weekinjuy · Yesterday 05:38

Kerbie678 · 18/06/2026 22:03

What do you mean 'how does that work in reality'?

so to be clear… you approached him and said “excuse me” and he turned to you? And then you asked him not to block your driveway. And he looked through you, didn’t say a word and turned on his heel and walked away?

And that was that. Correct?

Will you perhaps…. Try again? And may also sort the very mild issue stopping you using your own driveway?

Zanatdy · Yesterday 05:53

He is blocking your drive, so yes ask him to stop. You don’t have to say you’re asking him to stop so you can park there yourself, just say do you mind not blocking the driveway. I’d never block someone’s driveway. The reason curbs are dropped is so people can access their own drive, but surely you can block yourself in. No-one is going to tell you off for parking in front of your own dropped kerb. But a neighbour parking in front of your dropped kerb is not on.

Aiming4Optimistic · Yesterday 06:36

Start parking outside his house. Ideally leave one of your cars there for an extended period. Sone people only learn to be considerate, when inconvenienced themselves!

Kerbie678 · Yesterday 13:55

1weekinjuy · Yesterday 05:38

so to be clear… you approached him and said “excuse me” and he turned to you? And then you asked him not to block your driveway. And he looked through you, didn’t say a word and turned on his heel and walked away?

And that was that. Correct?

Will you perhaps…. Try again? And may also sort the very mild issue stopping you using your own driveway?

What does it matter how I approached him?
For what it's worth, he was doing something to his garden and as I walked up to my door I said hello and asked if he wouldn't mind parking his cars a bit further up so that I could park outside my driveway. He just replied hello and then didn't answer me when I asked, and I just walked inside my house.
I don't need to be continuously asked by people when I'm going to sort the tarmac out on here, I just wanted to know the actual rules on parking on dropped kerbs.

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Kerbie678 · Yesterday 13:58

Aiming4Optimistic · Yesterday 06:36

Start parking outside his house. Ideally leave one of your cars there for an extended period. Sone people only learn to be considerate, when inconvenienced themselves!

His house is set back away from the roadside, so I can't park directly outside his. I only have the one car as I live alone, he and his wife have two cars between them.

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BuildbyNumbere · Yesterday 14:44

Kerbie678 · 18/06/2026 07:42

My neighbours just gone to work and taken his other car, leaving one blocking the dropped kerb.

I've got to go to work soon myself, but I'm sure I'll be parking down the road again later as he'll be back before me, and my friend who is visiting tonight (and whose car can easily get on my drive way) will no doubt also have to find parking down the road as I believe the car that's across the kerb will likely be left there until at least tomorrow, and maybe all weekend.

Knock and tell him to move as your friend would like to access and park on your drive. He’ll have to park elsewhere to avoid blocking her in.

BuildbyNumbere · Yesterday 14:48

MadMumOfTwoHorrors · 18/06/2026 13:17

I didn't have a dropped kerb, so I applied to the council for permission to put one in and I paid for all the work to be done to install it and for the driveway. In my mind, I have every right to park across it because if I hadn't paid for it, it wouldn't be there.

Agree. I did the same … it’s purely to access my driveway for my own convenience, nothing else!

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Laura95167 · Yesterday 18:54

I think in Scotland parking on a dropped kerb can carry fines and points because they allow wheelchair users to cross safely.

I do think you could report him.. but I doubt anyone would have time to do anything about him

Id maybe return the favour

seven201 · Yesterday 19:48

We have two vehicles and a small drive so one of us blocks the other in parking in front of the dropped kerb. I’ve only had one parking ticket, and they cancelled it when I said it was my own house. We’re near a school and I think someone had reported my car, not realising it was our house.

I don’t think there are set rules as local authorities decide how they’ll enforce it, or not.

your neighbour is a twat.

Kerbie678 · Today 04:58

I'd like to know what the now deleted comments were. If they were derogatory towards me for wanting to park along the dropped kerb (but not currently using my drive) and expecting my neighbour not to park there, my driveway is still being used on a fairly regular basis by family and friends visiting me. Not that I should really need to justify that.

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pouletvous · Today 08:49

I think your neighbour is doing nothing wrong by parking there because you dont use the drive

so what if you have to park down the road a little. Most people have to do this

NeedyExpert · Today 10:35

You can park there as its your driveway, you can block your own driveway. Neighbour cannot block your driveway

Picklelily99 · Today 11:03

Lairymary · 18/06/2026 06:42

So what is the actual reason you don't park on your driveway? (I can see you said its too steep, but surely it's still usable?) Neighbour is probably annoyed that you have a driveway, yet take spaces from the road parking. I'm not saying he's not wrong for parking across your dropped curb, but if he's not blocking you in and doesn't have any other parking options then 🤷‍♀️

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But she's not taking a road parking space from the neighbour, because if she parked on her own drive, the neighbour wouldn't be allowed to park across her dropped curb, denying her access to the highway anyway! Your neighbour is being a knob. You are not.

Picklelily99 · Today 11:21

pouletvous · Today 08:49

I think your neighbour is doing nothing wrong by parking there because you dont use the drive

so what if you have to park down the road a little. Most people have to do this

How about the NEIGHBOUR parks down the road, leaving op's driveway & dropped kerb
free? Problem solved!

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