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Kiki19930 · 17/06/2026 23:37

My bf works at Greggs a manager there
is worrying me I’ve told my bf what she doing
and he won’t do nothing
he told me they aren’t alllwed to message them
ouyside of group chat
she did and she was putting loads of laughing faces asking him to come in early cos it was only her and one other
they don’t neee 3 people on
he replied and lied to me about what messages said but showed me in person he told me he put no back
he actually replied to her
saying no sorry I’m at gym lol
now that to me is wrong
he told me next day she asked him what he had her saved on WhatsApp he didn’t say no I haven’t your just a work colleague he said nothing
he then said he was talking to someone at work sayinf I think he a cheat and she then turns round to him and said I’ll call u up next time you with ur gf I’ll call u up he said nothing agin
he told me he reported her for messaging outside group chat told me the shop manager told her off

even her bf said to my bf I think she seeing someone
then he went into there work and spoke to one of managers and told them he think that my bf and her are doing that

she said apparently to my bf when he was picking up Heavy stuff that is hot as fuck he said. Nothing

He soad there is a rumour going round work she said she would sleep with him told him she don’t wanna sleep with her bf
she messaged him again today about work again asking Come in early
so I got upset

now am
i in wrong here

OP posts:
NiftyKoala · 18/06/2026 03:31

hobbydrama · 18/06/2026 03:22

Your bf should have shut this down. As a manager he has responsibilities to make sure staff follow the rules yet he’s ignoring them.

He’s clearly messaging her and not being honest with you. You have to decide if you want to risk building a relationship with this man. Can you trust him?

I would be moving on.

Like trying to cover it up with she's harassing me. Similar to the usual it's a lie she's crazy. The things men say to cover up affairs.

Onlywayisrainham · 18/06/2026 03:45

Being ‘faithful’ to your partner is more than just not sleeping with anyone else, a lot more. He should be making you feel loved and cherished and the same obviously applies to you towards him. No one can really say if your mistrust is reasonable or not but the fact that you feel the way you do means something and should matter to him.

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