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AIBU to think claiming two state pensions seems unethical?

237 replies

CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:16

I wrote about this on another thread, but thought I'd start my own as it irks me and I'm wondering if IABU.

My parents emigrated from the UK in their early/mid thirties and have never lived in the UK since. They are now late 60's. My Mum told me recently that both her and my Dad are claiming a full UK pension, in addition to a full pension in the country them emigrated to. They don't need this money, but she seemed quite smug about how they can 'double dip' and live the Life of Riley while sitting on a load of money, rental properties etc. I told her it seemed a bit unethical to me, but she didn't understand my viewpoint at all.

How is this possible? She said that they only had to pay their (national insurance?) for a period of time after moving, to then be eligible for the full UK pension on retirement? Can someone explain to me if this is correct, as I half think they've scammed the UK system somehow!

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TheTideIsNigh · 17/06/2026 08:53

Sillyme1 · 17/06/2026 08:50

Why be so bitter and twisted about your own parents. How do their finances affect you personally.

How state benefits are given out affect all of us.

And why should it be different just because it's someones parents?

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 08:54

ShanghaiDiva · 17/06/2026 08:53

Indeed. Which I why I did it- it’s an excellent investment.

And immoral.

2countrypension · 17/06/2026 08:54

ShanghaiDiva · 17/06/2026 08:53

Indeed. Which I why I did it- it’s an excellent investment.

Me too. It was a no brainer. pay £185.50 for each year of pension? I also made sure my husband sorted his out before the deadline. It was a huge topic in expat circles.

ShanghaiDiva · 17/06/2026 08:56

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 08:54

And immoral.

I paid voluntary contributions for 25 years. Moved back to the uk and am a higher rate tax payer. What exactly is immoral about that?

Retro12 · 17/06/2026 08:57

CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:59

Ah, sounds like it's all correct then. Not surprised they've had this all worked out as they've always been shrewd with money.

But given the state of the UK finances atm it does seem like a loophole which needs addressing.

There's plenty more "loopholes" that need addressing than this one I would say!

Namechangeforthisdilemma1 · 17/06/2026 08:58

keepswimming38 · 17/06/2026 07:43

I gather you don’t like your parents much then op?

If you got on with your mother but she did something you don’t agree with are you never allowed to disagree or call it out?

What if she shoplifting every time you went to the shop. Yes slightly different example but can you not see the difference between liking a person and not liking their actions?

Jeez!

echt · 17/06/2026 08:58

Retro12 · 17/06/2026 08:57

There's plenty more "loopholes" that need addressing than this one I would say!

This one has been addressed by the government.

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 09:01

echt · 17/06/2026 08:51

That wasn't the question I asked. I wanted to know which so-called "loophole" you were referring to.

You are well aware that the idea that UK expats who only worked in the UK for 3 years could buy NI credits at a reduced rate while living outside the UK and paying no Uk tax, enabling them to receive full state pension was widely considered a loophole which is why public pressure meant measures were brought in to attempt to close elements of it.

Dollymylove · 17/06/2026 09:04

Assuming its legal, who wouldnt claim it?
Instead why not post about the huge benefit fraud we have in this country?

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 09:04

Sillyme1 · 17/06/2026 08:50

Why be so bitter and twisted about your own parents. How do their finances affect you personally.

What ridiculous hyperbole 🙄 (or maybe its projection?)

I started the thread as I was miffed and curious as to what my Mum was telling me was correct. Apparently it is. I disagree from an ethical point of view.

However I will continue to chat and spend time with my parents and help them when they need it. I can assure no there is no 'bitter and twisted' over here.

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oliviaAustin · 17/06/2026 09:06

VimFuego101 · 16/06/2026 22:33

usually just paying class 3 entitles you to this, so about 185 pounds per year.

Class 3 is £956 a year.

Laurmolonlabe · 17/06/2026 09:09

They may be a bit disappointed, you are only entitled to a full pension if you have paid in for forty ish years,so even if they had jobs from being teenagers they would only have have about half a full pension. if th. Also when you draw a pension from abroad it is frozen at the level of when you left so it will not even be the level of half a pension in 2026.

P00hsticks · 17/06/2026 09:09

VimFuego101 · 16/06/2026 22:33

usually just paying class 3 entitles you to this, so about 185 pounds per year.

class 3 is approaching £1000 a year now - it;s Class 2 that is much cheaper, and as someone else has reported that loophole has now been closed

echt · 17/06/2026 09:10

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 09:01

You are well aware that the idea that UK expats who only worked in the UK for 3 years could buy NI credits at a reduced rate while living outside the UK and paying no Uk tax, enabling them to receive full state pension was widely considered a loophole which is why public pressure meant measures were brought in to attempt to close elements of it.

I understands quite well, thank you.

In your original post I responded asking which NI contributions arrangements you were referring to, I was seeking clarification, some specificity, as quite a few different scenarios had arisen on the thread since then. That is all.

keepswimming38 · 17/06/2026 09:21

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 07:49

Why would you think that?

I may not agree with their financial approach and morality (I think it's grabby), but I actually get on very well with them in general and we have a good laugh together.

Edited

Whilst starting a thread on Mumsnet about how grabby they are! Very respectful! They are merely claiming what they are entitled to. If they weren’t you would probably be starting a thread to say how stupid they are. Blame the politicians not them. They didn’t make the rules.

KaleidoscopeSmile · 17/06/2026 09:23

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 09:04

What ridiculous hyperbole 🙄 (or maybe its projection?)

I started the thread as I was miffed and curious as to what my Mum was telling me was correct. Apparently it is. I disagree from an ethical point of view.

However I will continue to chat and spend time with my parents and help them when they need it. I can assure no there is no 'bitter and twisted' over here.

Well you've made a thread inviting people to slag your parents off.

Did they use the phrase "double dip" or did you add it for effect?

Snoseyoulooze · 17/06/2026 09:32

I started work at 17, had children, went back and now just have two years to go to qualify (early 60s). My sister was in education till 21, went travelling and lived in Asia until 10 years ago. She’d never had a job in this country until she started working about 6 years ago and has now “filled-in” many years - she said about £200 per year. I’m pretty sure when I checked my history recently I’d been paying over £1000 per year in NI early 1990s. I love my sister but it’s hard not to feel I’m boring, slogging away. She’s just more astute than me! I lost one year’s contribution because of 6 weeks not paid when I went on maternity leave (always been PAYE) in 1996 but hadn’t realised. At least I only have 2 years to go (but will of course continue after that). Maybe I’m crazy but I do like to see “NI contribution” on my payslip!

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 17/06/2026 09:34

amraa · 16/06/2026 22:21

Why are h so bitter about ur own parents? Ur mums mistake was telling you, even her own flesh is jealous of her. Owning assets doesn’t necessarily make you rich as your cash is tied up. You don’t really have any idea about their finances and just seem to be jealous.

I hate this argument, if anyone has any issue with taking tax money or avoiding tax in an ethically or morally questionable way (only made possible by loopholes), it's always jealousy. Sorry but no, it should be perfectly acceptable to question questionable ethics.

Some of our services like child protection and the NHS are on their arse, wealthy people (and of course the very rich) skimming the cream off the state or avoiding contributing whilst others struggle is a worthy topic.

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 09:38

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 17/06/2026 09:34

I hate this argument, if anyone has any issue with taking tax money or avoiding tax in an ethically or morally questionable way (only made possible by loopholes), it's always jealousy. Sorry but no, it should be perfectly acceptable to question questionable ethics.

Some of our services like child protection and the NHS are on their arse, wealthy people (and of course the very rich) skimming the cream off the state or avoiding contributing whilst others struggle is a worthy topic.

I was typing out a response to the angry mumsnetters who have (inevitably) come out of the woodwork to have a go at me, but you've explained my thoughts/opinion perfectly so I'll just re-quote your response. Thanks!

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Katiesaidthat · 17/06/2026 09:42

saraclara · 16/06/2026 22:42

You don’t get the triple lock, your pension is locked flat at claiming age, so it’s worth significantly less than the indexed amount a uk pensioner is claiming.

I was about to post that. Most pensioners abroad get a lot less than they would had they remained in the UK. Their pension doesn't rise at all from the moment they claim it.

And also subject to currency fluctuations.

2countrypension · 17/06/2026 09:45

Katiesaidthat · 17/06/2026 09:42

And also subject to currency fluctuations.

I am in the EU, and in a country that means my pension won't be frozen. I am also included in the triple lock agreement. I am very fortunate.

TheNicestFudge · 17/06/2026 09:56

@Whatwerewetalkingabout is absolutely spot on. It should be questioned— these people are exactly skimming the cream off the state.

snowmichael · 17/06/2026 09:59

Dexterrr · 16/06/2026 22:24

It's a loophole. Work in UK for a few years, then pay something like £200 a year to get full state pension from the UK that you left 30+ years earlier. It's an absolute disgrace and I could hardly believe it when I first heard it. But it's all true.

More like £900 for each 'incomplete' year, but yes, you definitely get out more than you pay in

TheTideIsNigh · 17/06/2026 10:00

keepswimming38 · 17/06/2026 09:21

Whilst starting a thread on Mumsnet about how grabby they are! Very respectful! They are merely claiming what they are entitled to. If they weren’t you would probably be starting a thread to say how stupid they are. Blame the politicians not them. They didn’t make the rules.

Always someone else to blame. No-one takes responsibility for their own actions these days.

And people wonder why the world is in the state it's in.

50sandFabulous · 17/06/2026 10:05

SallySall · 17/06/2026 08:52

Well then surely the fact that most people claiming a UK pension are based in the UK and spending it in the UK should be enough? If only “most” people in a demographic need to doing something then it’s the same for pensioners surely?

You also can’t really use the reasoning that if someone has children that’s enough to contribute enough to cover themselves. What if their parents also didn’t work so their children didn’t cover them. And then the children of this generation have may also not work so will you say the same about their children? Just hope that at some point one generation of children will work? But it will never cover the decades of previous generations will it?

I have a friend who had her first child at 20. She hasn’t worked since and is now 44. Her youngest is 4. Her oldest now also has a child and is not working. At what point will this family pay enough to cover themselves? Or are you saying the fact they spend their benefit money here is enough to do that? If so, why do I have to pay tax and NI?? Surely me spending my wages is enough to pay that??

I have a friend who had her first child at 20. She hasn’t worked since and is now 44. Her youngest is 4. Her oldest now also has a child and is not working. At what point will this family pay enough to cover themselves?

They will qualify for Pension Credit, which is only £3 a week less than a full State Pension. Someone who has worked for 35 years + and fully paid all their NI, will only get £3 a week more. I had a thread on this a while ago, at the unfairness of that, and I was told IWBU. 😳

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