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AIBU to think claiming two state pensions seems unethical?

237 replies

CoffeeAndCats3 · 16/06/2026 22:16

I wrote about this on another thread, but thought I'd start my own as it irks me and I'm wondering if IABU.

My parents emigrated from the UK in their early/mid thirties and have never lived in the UK since. They are now late 60's. My Mum told me recently that both her and my Dad are claiming a full UK pension, in addition to a full pension in the country them emigrated to. They don't need this money, but she seemed quite smug about how they can 'double dip' and live the Life of Riley while sitting on a load of money, rental properties etc. I told her it seemed a bit unethical to me, but she didn't understand my viewpoint at all.

How is this possible? She said that they only had to pay their (national insurance?) for a period of time after moving, to then be eligible for the full UK pension on retirement? Can someone explain to me if this is correct, as I half think they've scammed the UK system somehow!

OP posts:
rwalker · 17/06/2026 06:09

They’ve paid enough to qualify
what’s the difference between then and someone who’s lived in the uk all there life and never worked a day getting there pension ( obviously excluding disabled people who can’t)
there households where 3 generations have never worked

NoisyHiker · 17/06/2026 06:09

Totally unethical and scummy behaviour, legal or not.

Wonder how much could be saved if this was nipped in the bud, I'm betting quite a substantial amount. Someone must have FOI.

echt · 17/06/2026 06:10

NoisyHiker · 17/06/2026 06:09

Totally unethical and scummy behaviour, legal or not.

Wonder how much could be saved if this was nipped in the bud, I'm betting quite a substantial amount. Someone must have FOI.

The bud was nipped April 2026.

NoisyHiker · 17/06/2026 06:13

echt · 17/06/2026 06:10

The bud was nipped April 2026.

Clearly not, or op's parents and many others wouldn't still be claiming.

It needs to be retroactively nipped. It would be completely fair to stop the pensions of those who only worked in the UK for a few years.

SallySall · 17/06/2026 06:16

On benefits threads everyone tells people to claim absolutely everything they are allowed to regardless of “need”. Especially if the person has children. They get told to claim and save it for their children in the future. Maybe all these pensioners are taking that advice…..

LightningTree · 17/06/2026 06:19

Not wrong to claim it. Definitely wrong to smugly flaunt it.

GrottBaggs · 17/06/2026 06:21

tinyspiny · 16/06/2026 22:32

Voluntary class 3 NI contributions are about £240 quarterly , so for both of them that would have been £1600 per year . Class 2 is a lot less £150 ish per year but it depends what they did before they moved as to which they had to pay

Edited

Exactly, to pay class 3 you have to be paying contributions in your current country of residence .
I was only 3 years short of full contributions when we moved abroad so have paid mine.
However the rules changed in April.and I believe you can no longer pay class 3.

echt · 17/06/2026 06:26

GrottBaggs · 17/06/2026 06:21

Exactly, to pay class 3 you have to be paying contributions in your current country of residence .
I was only 3 years short of full contributions when we moved abroad so have paid mine.
However the rules changed in April.and I believe you can no longer pay class 3.

The UK Gove website says you can make Class 3 contributions from overseas if you meet certain criteria.

https://www.gov.uk/voluntary-national-insurance-contributions/if-you-live-or-work-abroad.

Voluntary National Insurance

National Insurance contributions you can choose to pay when you have a gap in your National Insurance record.

https://www.gov.uk/voluntary-national-insurance-contributions/if-you-live-or-work-abroad

echt · 17/06/2026 06:27

Gove?????? Aargh.

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 06:31

To those calling me nasty and horrible, I'm not at all. I actually have very good relationship with my parents, even though I don't agree with their financial approach.

But the reality is the UK cannot afford to be so generous. I mean, by the sounds of it they only paid in a couple of hundred quid a year and are now claiming 12,500 a year. I guess it's good for my family financially, but it's a total rip off for other UK taxpayers, as my family has not paid any UK taxes for 35 years now.

Anyway it sounds like the loophole has been (partially) closed, but definitely not retroactively. Who knows what will happen but I can see my parents living at least another 20-30 years as they are both currently very healthy. If this happens (big if), then thats over 250,000 in money paid out to them.

OP posts:
Retunue · 17/06/2026 06:33

If it’s permitted by the rules, how is it unethical? Good for them. If you object to the rules, you should write to your MP.

SockPlant · 17/06/2026 06:39

"Seems smug" get over yourself.

The pensions office has checks. If there are no issues, people who are entitled to one get a pension.

knightsinwhitesatin · 17/06/2026 06:42

It’s amazing how much benefit bashing we see on other threads here, saying those people are work shy scroungers, the country can’t afford it…. yet in this scenario it’s mainly ‘they’re doing what’s legal and what they’re entitled to’…

SallySall · 17/06/2026 06:42

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 06:31

To those calling me nasty and horrible, I'm not at all. I actually have very good relationship with my parents, even though I don't agree with their financial approach.

But the reality is the UK cannot afford to be so generous. I mean, by the sounds of it they only paid in a couple of hundred quid a year and are now claiming 12,500 a year. I guess it's good for my family financially, but it's a total rip off for other UK taxpayers, as my family has not paid any UK taxes for 35 years now.

Anyway it sounds like the loophole has been (partially) closed, but definitely not retroactively. Who knows what will happen but I can see my parents living at least another 20-30 years as they are both currently very healthy. If this happens (big if), then thats over 250,000 in money paid out to them.

Well in a way it’s countered by my parents who both worked from age 15 and paid in continuously (except my mums short maternity leave) but both died within a couple of years of qualifying for the state pension.

HoppingPavlova · 17/06/2026 06:45

CoffeeAndCats3 · 17/06/2026 06:31

To those calling me nasty and horrible, I'm not at all. I actually have very good relationship with my parents, even though I don't agree with their financial approach.

But the reality is the UK cannot afford to be so generous. I mean, by the sounds of it they only paid in a couple of hundred quid a year and are now claiming 12,500 a year. I guess it's good for my family financially, but it's a total rip off for other UK taxpayers, as my family has not paid any UK taxes for 35 years now.

Anyway it sounds like the loophole has been (partially) closed, but definitely not retroactively. Who knows what will happen but I can see my parents living at least another 20-30 years as they are both currently very healthy. If this happens (big if), then thats over 250,000 in money paid out to them.

Okay. So, why not lobby MP’s with this, what do you think writing in Mumsnet will achieve instead?

Dexterrr · 17/06/2026 06:47

LargeBaboon · 17/06/2026 01:07

There was a scheme that DWP put out a while ago.

It closed in April 2025. If you registered interest with them before the deadline then they allowed temporary special circumstances for people to back pay historical years, right back to 2006.

My friends that still work in this eary and still working through the backlog of voluntary payments as there was a massive uptake.

The usual allowance for voluntary payments is the previous 6 years, so currently people can pay for 2020-2026.

Anyone in the scheme that registered interest, had the ability to pay a lump sum of just under £3200, approx £160-£170 per year at the Class 2 rate (the rates change slightly every year) and this lump sum is enough to give you the full state pension of 12.5k per year.

This is all accurate. I know a number of people who haven't lived in the UK in 20+ years paying a pittance in to get full UK pension when the time comes.

Dexterrr · 17/06/2026 06:50

99bottlesofkombucha · 17/06/2026 01:28

I get all that very well, and my contribution is one your friend is working through. My comments are because you’ve portrayed it as current and it’s not. It’s not an option anymore.

It's happening currently.

Augustus40 · 17/06/2026 06:53

They will receive state pension but no triple lock. Which I believe is fair.

HoppingPavlova · 17/06/2026 06:57

SquirrelGG · 17/06/2026 05:08

I am talking about state paid superannuation, which is what it is called here (I hate the word pension, it's so old fashioned). Super here describes both what you call pension as well as voluntary non government savings.

The OP is talking about state paid pension also.

Thanks for taking the time to clarify, good to know.
Interesting as we seem to have the same terms for completely different things. The term pension is still with us here, agree it’s outdated but alas, and we have different ‘types’. Essentially the term covers anything the government hands out from government money, except unemployment, which is termed ‘benefits’. So, in this scenario it’s the ‘old age pension’ (to make it sound even more old fashioned 😆) as opposed to say veterans pension, widow’s pension. Interestingly, there also used to be a ‘single mothers pension’ but there has been progress and this was disbanded and it’s now rebadged, and open to singles and families, as a ‘benefit’, called family benefit, and is based on income/assets as opposed to purely being a ‘single mother’.

Super here though, while compulsory if working and earning over a certain amount, is not collected by the government nor handed back by the government, it’s completely separate, the only intersection is that it is treated as an ‘asset’ for the purpose of eligibility for pensions. Seems we are a real outlier with terminology, I wonder if this will be globally aligned with everyone else at some point!

TheNicestFudge · 17/06/2026 06:57

knightsinwhitesatin · 17/06/2026 06:42

It’s amazing how much benefit bashing we see on other threads here, saying those people are work shy scroungers, the country can’t afford it…. yet in this scenario it’s mainly ‘they’re doing what’s legal and what they’re entitled to’…

Not from me: it makes me livid. Basically another massive perk for the boomers with the ladder pulled up for everyone else. Why have they kept getting money thrown at them? I don’t understand it.

Honeyhonay · 17/06/2026 06:59

Only private pensions should be able to be drawn outside the UK, not state imo.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 07:01

KatiePricesKnickers · 17/06/2026 06:06

But that is totally incorrect.
You need 10 years to qualify to receive some amount of pension.
If you only have paid in 10 years you get less than a third of a full pension.
You need 35 years NI contributions to receive a full UK pension. Anything in between 10 and 35 years is pro-rata.

Even 35 years at a few hundred pounds minimum contribution is far less than just one year of full pension. So the point remains the same.

SquirrelGG · 17/06/2026 07:08

HoppingPavlova · 17/06/2026 06:57

Thanks for taking the time to clarify, good to know.
Interesting as we seem to have the same terms for completely different things. The term pension is still with us here, agree it’s outdated but alas, and we have different ‘types’. Essentially the term covers anything the government hands out from government money, except unemployment, which is termed ‘benefits’. So, in this scenario it’s the ‘old age pension’ (to make it sound even more old fashioned 😆) as opposed to say veterans pension, widow’s pension. Interestingly, there also used to be a ‘single mothers pension’ but there has been progress and this was disbanded and it’s now rebadged, and open to singles and families, as a ‘benefit’, called family benefit, and is based on income/assets as opposed to purely being a ‘single mother’.

Super here though, while compulsory if working and earning over a certain amount, is not collected by the government nor handed back by the government, it’s completely separate, the only intersection is that it is treated as an ‘asset’ for the purpose of eligibility for pensions. Seems we are a real outlier with terminology, I wonder if this will be globally aligned with everyone else at some point!

Oh don't get me wrong, some people here do still refer to pensions, but the term used by the government is superannuation for the over 65s, although the word pension is still used for veteran's - there is no specific widow's benefit, they would come under another title such as jobseeker, or sole parent and those are referred to as benefits .

Ours isn't means tested, someone who hasn't worked a day in their life gets the same standard rate as a millionaire, although of course they would get extras such as an accommodation supplement.

Private super isn't compulsory here, although many people do have it, and one, Kiwisaver, does have minor contributions from the government, although less than previously. How much a person has saved via this has no bearing on their state paid super.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · 17/06/2026 07:14

LBFseBrom · 17/06/2026 03:44

They will have paid contributions and now they'll be paying tax. At least they can be independent.

Why are you so concerned about it? Be glad for your parents.

Advise them not to tell others, it's private. They made a mistake telling you!

They’re unlikely to be paying tax if they don’t live here and haven’t done for 30ish years.

She’s probably concerned about it because it’s unethical and indicative of other people doing the same.

Why should she be pleased for them that they’re living at UK residents’ expense, especially when it’s money they don’t need?

Nanda66 · 17/06/2026 07:15

It’s a loophole and they’re doing nothing wrong. It does feel unfair though, I’ve been working and paying NI contributions for over 40 years, it’ll be over 50 when I reach state pension age, yet I’ll get the same as those who haven’t worked here and paid tax and only paid a token amount towards their pension. Many others are in the same boat. It’s unbelievable but it’s the way the system works.

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