Not exactly as title says My DS is 23, he's turning 24 soon and at 16 he was involved in a car accident due to his then Best Friend driving dangerously. We were told on multiple occasions that they didn't know if he'd survive or ever properly recover. Through a lot of his hard work he is doing really well. He's in a powerchair for the most part but has recently began walking with a frame. He's got limited use of one of his hands but he's trying hard. He does struggle a lot with anxiety and he really does prefer being at home He's got a bf (22) and they've been together for 2 years. I was worried at first but he clearly adores DS and despite negative comments from his family (mentioning how he's too young to be a carer, how dating ds will be more stressful as he can't go travelling either etc). His BF has booked a holiday to Disneyland Paris which ds is excited about but also really nervous (as am I tbh), he's told me he's worried about not enjoying himself and ruining the trip for his bf. His bf has told me he's planning to propose when they're away which is great but I worry it being sprung upon DS would cause him more anxiety. I know that it would be unreasonable to spoil the surprise but I don't know what to do for the best