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to worry about my friend's obsession with Herbalife?

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Heatherland77 · 15/06/2026 18:53

A friend of mine has been using Herbalife teas and protein powders for about a year now through a local distributor. I thought nothing of it other than they were expensive and maybe it was a fad she'd get over.
But oh no. In the last month, she's gone all in, going to a local club three times a week and then announced she's becoming a wellness coach. I asked her what qualification she was taking to call herself a coach and didn't get a response. Then she left me a very odd voice message soft selling Herbalife, saying she wishes she'd known about it years ago, how it's transformed her life, how it can cure diabetes and relieve the menopause etc. Basically a full sales pitch trying to hook me in. She asked me if I'd like to come along to a session to be her guinea pig and find out my metabolic age on their scales etc. I declined politely on the basis that I've already quietly done some reading up on Herbalife, watched the documentary Betting on Zero, and am horrified that it's an aggressive MLM scheme.
This friend's Instagram is now photo after photo of her in little black dresses bragging about losing 13lbs and being back down to her pre baby weight etc. It's all positive delusional speak and Americanisms which is 100% not her at all. I'm worried she's been indoctrinated.
The worst thing however is that for the last three weeks she's read my messages but not replied. This is completely unlike her as she has always responded within a day, even when a parent passed away or her children have been unwell etc. I've now found out that one of Herbalife's tactics is to distance new distributors from friends who are skeptical, or who didn't sign up to a taster session because they could be a negative influence.
I've known this friend for twelve years, I consider her as close as a sister and I'm extremely worried, as well as confused and upset she'd do this.
Am I being unreasonable to worry about this?

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Heatherland77 · 21/06/2026 12:58

Still not heard anything from her so I'm realising I've been ghosted because I declined to be a Herbalife 'downline'. Actually feel like crying about it because I genuinely don't understand how she could throw away our friendship like that. Don't know if I want to leave the door open for her after this. I made her the executor of my will FFS. Will now have to change that so she's not frittering away my money once I'm gone! Honest to God, Herbalife is brutal.

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ForPinkDuck · 21/06/2026 14:51

So sorry. This really is a cult, i couldnt get away from the person who did the hard sell on me, she freaking hated me for saying no. iwhen she did her sell i was in the midddle of a personal convo about a recent and close berevement ffs.
In a way at least you know her better. You could text her and ask her to contact you and once shes done with herbalife or not.

WhatASmashingBlouseYouHaveOn · 21/06/2026 17:51

Agree totally with the above poster. I was suckered in myself years ago when I was about 18. They really do sell you the dream.

I'd advise not totally writing off her and your friendship just yet. She's in peak happy herbalife mode. I'm not saying that her ignoring you is acceptable at all. But just wait, she will eventually see the light when her and her family's money runs out.

I promise you it won't last, just be the bigger person and when the realisation hits her, be the great friend that you are for her then. I know it's painful, but people going in at the bottom rarely make any real financial success. It becomes sunk cost after sunk cost on the bought stock.

Is there any way at all you can get in touch with her husband and give him the heads up about what's going on?

Larrythecatforpm · 21/06/2026 17:58

Heatherland77 · 21/06/2026 12:58

Still not heard anything from her so I'm realising I've been ghosted because I declined to be a Herbalife 'downline'. Actually feel like crying about it because I genuinely don't understand how she could throw away our friendship like that. Don't know if I want to leave the door open for her after this. I made her the executor of my will FFS. Will now have to change that so she's not frittering away my money once I'm gone! Honest to God, Herbalife is brutal.

She will come crawling back one day, when she reliezes she can’t sell it to people. I hope you tell her to jog on. MLM sellers are nutcases.

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