I've spoken about this a lot on MN over the years and in recent years attitudes to this have been a lot better than they were but this thread is throwing up some of the worst ignorant and sexist tropes.
Women centred care absolutely is about ensuring each individual woman gets the right information for their circumstances.
I've always said an ELCS by maternal choice is not necessarily the right choice for a woman in her 20s who wants a large family but a woman in her late thirties, wanting a single child is a very different prospect.
As a rule middle aged, educated women in their late thirties and counties have significantly better health outcomes across the board in all other areas of medicine because they are well informed and have researched thoroughly and can advocate well for themselves. Yet this knowledge goes out the window when it comes to being pregnant. Suddenly women are infantilised as being somehow unable to get the right information about the subject.
Having a first baby later in life is well known to be a risk factor in birth outcomes. Given that we have clear data that women are giving birth for the first at an older age and with more complex medical histories, we should not be remotely surprised that rates have increased.
What pisses me off is the focus that is given to ELCS over and above concerns over an increase in EMCS rates. This is driven by sexist attitudes. An EMCS carries the highest risk of all and is a lot more expensive and difficult to manage than an ELCS. This means the lives of women and babies are more at risk. If we are serious about improving this we need to have more generalised discussions about women's underlying health and when they decide to have a family rather than wanging on about how money is being 'wasted' by ELCS.
This whole crap about wanting to fit in an ELCS to a schedule is absolutely not reflective of the actual reasons women have for wanting an ELCS. It's frankly insulting to drag that sexist trope back out of the rubbish bin where I thought it has been consigned a decade ago with more education on the subject.
As for birth fear. This is a recognised medical condition. It has been described as distinct and having particular characteristics rather than 'women just being a bit scared' since the mid 1800s. It's not a new phenomenon. Again this pisses me off because these renewed calls for 'a review' never ever acknowledge this. There are NHS specialists for this. There is primary and secondary tokophobia which have different patterns of presentation and concern. The latter is closely linked to a previous birth trauma. And women in this group behave differently to the former. If they are signed off early for an ELCS, thoroughly emotionally supported and are able to build up trust with HCP then if helped to build a robust birth plan they are far more likely to change their minds freely and attempt a VB. Of course enabling this requires sufficient resources that no one wants to talk about and ensure. It's expensive. And yeah we already have dickheads saying we shouldn't spend money on giving birth and we should just do it as cheaply as possible... Which is often a cause of birth trauma in the first fucking place. It's likely a vicious circle in terms of mentality.
As for primary tokophobia. This group are older, having delayed getting pregnant, they are much more likely to want fewer children, they have a massive over representation of having a history of sexual abuse, they are more likely to have histories of mental health issues and clinical anxiety and they are generally well informed. This has shown up in research. Research has also shown that women with high levels of anxiety are far more likely to end up with poorer maternal outcomes - in other words if they are forced to attempt a VB the chances of them ending up with significant intervention and birth injury or an EMCS is almost self fulfilling because of the nature of giving birth being so closely related to women's mental health - this is a psychological link. Yet we are still stuck in this dated mentality that giving birth is purely mechanical and women's health generally is some how disconnected to their mental well-being. It's infuriating.
The concerns here should be about the wider and more general state of maternity care which is fucking shocking. Have we not got enough maternity scandals to illustrate the point yet? Maternity needs funding rather than penny pinching fuckwits bellowing about costs when they haven't the slightest fucking clue and they certainly haven't bothered to look at what NICE say on the matter. That's the same NICE who write guidelines which includes analysis of cost effectiveness; if they say it's cost effective to have ELCS on maternal request (which is often extremely likely to be for mental health related reasons) then it's cost effective.
I struggle with the fact that 15 years after these guidelines were first published we are STILL returning to this ignorance and a lack of recognition of maternal mental health issues and a problem with funding maternity care adequately in the first fucking place.
The costs of childbirth going wrong are the biggest single insurance liability to the NHS both in terms of actual money and the number of cases. You'd think this would make improving maternity the single biggest priority for clinical standards but no. We are still battling dinosaurs who think women should put up, shut up and not advocate for themselves and are too stupid to be informed on the subject despite all evidence to the contrary in just about every area.
When it comes to health every dickhead has to have an opinion on giving birth. No one gives a shit in the same way about any other area of health care. It's politicised and driven by ideology in a way that no other area of health care is. Clinical evidence and research is just chucked in the bin because dickheads seem to think they know better.
I really thought in 2026 we'd moved on since 2009. Clearly we haven't.
Maybe just rebuild trust in maternity services and invest in it rather than spouting off about CS rates. These concerns would largely resolve themselves without having all this judgement placed on women if we just had the political will to enable this.
Instead maternity services just get hot air and no action. Nothing changes despite independent report after independent report.
This isn't as difficult as it's made out. No one wants to take the matter seriously though. There's always something else which is a priority.