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user1471473917 · 14/06/2026 18:28

Hi. Im new to posting here. Opinions please on the following situation, especially those who work in this industry or how you would have felt if you were the client in this instance. What your expectations would be if this happened to you...

I signed up for group online sessions with a Life coach. Its in the contract that the Coach shares snippets of the Zoom sessions on their social media. The snippets are mainly of powerpoint/coach speaking, but also sharing client's voices if they consent.

Early one morning I saw on her socials..One of the story reels showed a bit from our session, but clients full names and what they had typed in the chat box during Zoom session were visible!!(eg how they felt about a personal isssue)

I immediately text the Life coach and politely made them aware that the names including mine were visible and asked she remove them.

She did not respond, at all. Four days later in the next live session I asked had she received my Message, she apologised that if had been a testing time in her personal life. However in this time she was still very active posting promo material on her socials.
So even after bringing it up she didn't message me to acknowledge my message at all or confirm it had been removed.

The most oncerning thing...she only replied to me 3 weeks later when I escalated it. Then she said it was only visible for a short reel and 'eventually removed'.
Im not sure how daily stories work on Instagram but it was not removed 10 hours later.

Im so shocked, this coach works with vulnerable woman, yet when I politely brought to her attention a human error she made which showed peoples names, she totally ignored my message.

With no professional body for Life Coaches, how can this be reported and to who?

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KnewYearKnewMe · 14/06/2026 19:16

Sorry that this has happened to you, OP - must have been very stressful for you.

it’s alerted to you of her lack of professionalism, so that’s something good to come of it 🤞🤞

stillhiding1990 · 14/06/2026 19:17

You told person information to a stranger online. You should report yourself if anyone

IrisApril · 14/06/2026 19:18

This is why you should go to a BACP-registered counsellor, and not a life coach.

WearingMyTherapistHat · 14/06/2026 19:19

tiramisugelato · 14/06/2026 19:14

This isn't true. If you only collect data for your own business records you don't need to register.

Yes true if you don't offer a service and are just using the data strictly for fulfilling an order for a product for eg.

If you offer a service, you have to register.

GreatOffWhiteFalcon · 14/06/2026 19:20

ScaredAndPanicky · 14/06/2026 18:56

I would report to the Information Commissioners office as a data breach. I'm not sure if self-employed people are required to be registered with them, but it would be the only possible organisation to report them to.

They have to register if they collect and keep data. And they have to get consent from their clients about how it's used.

Winederlust · 14/06/2026 19:24

tiramisugelato · 14/06/2026 19:14

This isn't true. If you only collect data for your own business records you don't need to register.

But in this case the data collected is of customers so it's not internal business use (eh staff payroll), and therefore they should be registered.

I agree with PP that this should be reported to the ICO as a data breach.

Edictfromno10 · 14/06/2026 19:27

Life coaches are a scam, all the ones I know failed at life and couldn't keep a job so started life coaching. It's a load of nonsense.

WearingMyTherapistHat · 14/06/2026 19:28

The type of service she's offering, the type of data she's collecting and the way she's using it 100% means she should be registered with the ICO and have a data use policy that's compliant with data law.

Yes, there are some very limited exemptions to registration, but she is not exempt, so that's irrelevant here.

If you report her to ICO, she'll likely receive a fine of some sort and hopefully that will make her tighten up her operation. She sounds reckless and unprofessional.

tiramisugelato · 14/06/2026 19:29

Winederlust · 14/06/2026 19:24

But in this case the data collected is of customers so it's not internal business use (eh staff payroll), and therefore they should be registered.

I agree with PP that this should be reported to the ICO as a data breach.

Only if you collect your data online or on a computer. If you only keep paper records for business use, you don't need to register.

Larrythecatforpm · 14/06/2026 19:29

Ask for a refund on the rest of the sessions, and leave a bad review.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 14/06/2026 19:29

There no nobody to ‘report’ this too. I agree with writing an honest review online and not using her again.

WearingMyTherapistHat · 14/06/2026 19:32

tiramisugelato · 14/06/2026 19:29

Only if you collect your data online or on a computer. If you only keep paper records for business use, you don't need to register.

That's as may be. But her whole business is online and she's sharing session material online, so she should be registered.

tttigress · 14/06/2026 19:32

I'm my experience a lot of people in life coaching type professions got into because they had and continue to have problems.

I went on an NLP type course once (fortunately via a local college so not great expense). The instructor seemed to have a lot more problems than me!

Life coaching can also make people delusional. I once worked with a guy who quite a fairly solid job at the insurance company we were working for to be a life coach, in was right in the middle of the 2008 GFQ, 7 or 8 months later he was working in a warehouse because he couldn't get any clients or another professional job.

GlosGirl82 · 14/06/2026 19:37

Jez was a ‘certified life coach’

countrylife00 · 14/06/2026 20:08

Well straight away that reeks of a data protection breach. Do not continue with this person. If she can do this on social media, imagine what she is telling people!

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