my partner (child’s father) I find controlling sometimes.
he works 9-5 Monday to Friday. I work from home part time and do all the mum duties and school runs etc cooking every night. I’m also up with our 18 month old in the night still.
my partner helps in the house & he’s a good provider but I feel it’s coming at a cost.
example: last weekend I was just so tired. All house jobs were done, toddler was napping, dinner was slow cooking and I fell asleep on the sofa for an hour.
he said I’m not spending my weekends with you having a nap it’s boring ??? Next day he went for a nap (I don’t care)
yesterday I’d been up all night almost with poorly toddler. In the morning I did school runs, my work, house work and then I put TV on for toddler for a bit so I could do some emails. He text me asking what baby was doing and went absolutely mad because the cartoon wasn’t educational enough. I explained it’s just a bit of entertainment for a short period I’m exhausted.
he messaged shit all day telling me I’m a bad lazy mum & his son deserves better.
this is just 2 examples of the stupid control crap I deal with him every single week.
if our 18 month old gets in our bed for a cuddle he’ll storm off downstairs & sleep on the sofa
if I have a night light on at night he moans. We have to have sleeping conditions his exact way. No compromise.
to ight I’ve finally snapped at him & told him to fuck off. I’ve had enough of the nit picking ok trying my best for everybody I really am.
I don’t have any family. Just very old grandparents no friends really I’m so lonely inside