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To be completely and utterly fucking fed up of 2026.

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EezyOozy · 07/06/2026 21:38

I apologise in advance for this self pitying rant. I know I’m lucky to be having tests and having things taken seriously, but I’m just fed up. 2026 has been a year of non stop illness and health anxiety hell.

I’ve had:

A lump in my breast and inverted nipple. Two trips to the breast clinic. Thankfully all benign but was a very scary rollercoaster.

weeks of intense abdominal pain and diarrhea. Positive fit test and raised calprotectin. Urgent referall for colonoscopy. Had to wait 4 weeks. Colonoscopy visually all clear but awaiting biopsy results. Still have intermittent abdo pain and have to eat and incredibly limited diet or I get the runs.

Blood tests taken time of GP appt also revealed raised ca125 of 40. They said it was probably due to bowel irritation. But since scope was visually clear I having to repeat ca125 tomorrow and I’m absolutely shitting myself in case it has gone even higher . (I did have a clear pelvic and TV ultrasound in Nov 25 but I don’t think that’s much reassurance any more).

I also have a suspected bulging disc in my back and have intermittent SI joint and buttock pain as well as sharp pain in my hip and around the iliacus. I need to keep chasing physio as they keep not sending out appointments and I sort of feel they’ve given up on me. I am in a lot of sharp / nerve pain all the time. This has been going on a year.

I have an arthritic bunion on my left foot that throbs and aches. I can barely wear any shoes now. Okay this one isn’t strictly 2026 it’s been going on a few years but getting worse.

ive just had a horrendous chest infection requiring two courses of antibiotics biotics to shift. It’s nearly gone now thankfully.

years ago I knocked a front tooth and there’s been a recurring infection at the apex of this tooth . I’ve had two root canals. The infection has come back and it’s damaging my jaw bone. I’m to have it pulled out and will need a partial denture. It’s one of my front teeth.

Dentist appt about pulling my front tooth out is on Thursday. Repeat ca125 blood test is tomorrow, and I really really really don’t want to go. I will go. But I just can’t take any more.

as I lie here typing this I have severe sharp nerve pain down my right side.

Im 40 and have two young kids. I don’t drink or smoke, I eat healthily although on very limited diet at the moment.

i just can’t take any more of the pain, anxiety about having something really seriously wrong and leaving my children, and all the appointments and awaiting results.

this has all been in 2026!!

Has anyone else had a shit year so far and would like to join?

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HalloweenHaribo · 07/06/2026 21:41

Yes, very shit unfortunately.

My DH who appeared normal and healthy in January, got ill in February and diagnosed with cancer.

They said he'd probably only have a few months left to live and he died last week.

I feel like I'm in a weird dream I can't escape from.

ETA: Sorry OP that was self indulgent. I meant to say I really hope things improve for you Flowers

Titsywoo · 07/06/2026 21:45

Yes I am also having a crappy year.

MIL has a life limiting illness and is starting to deteriorate

My parents are trying to retire but having a nightmare selling their business after 2 years trying and are stressed and depressed

My business is struggling financially

DH is unhappy at work and wants to leave which would put us in a difficult financial position

DS has lost all his friends and come out as transgender and we are all very worried about him - he is also like Jekyll and Hyde around the house

My best friend has started being horrible to me out of the blue and I have lost touch with most of my other friends in the last 5 years due to everyone being busy and people moving away

There seems to be a lot of negativity around generally for everyone I know. It has been a stressful year though! DH had a cancer scare 6 months ago which was really upsetting so I feel your pain OP. Sorry you have had such a rough time with your health!

Titsywoo · 07/06/2026 21:47

Ah @HalloweenHaribo that's terrible and makes my problems seem petty in comparison. I'm so sorry for your loss.

EezyOozy · 07/06/2026 21:48

@HalloweenHaribo I’m so sorry to hear that. That’s really really shit. I hope you are okay.

And welcome to the shit 2026 thread.

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Urgentbiscuitrequired · 07/06/2026 21:49

Sorry you are having a shit time OP. You've got every right to have had enough and I hope you get answers soon. I would suggest if you are struggling to eat and have abdominal pain to try and get a CT scan. It was ultimately that which diagnosed my Dad's stomach cancer and the extent of it. They did a colonoscopy after positive FIT which was clear, then the pain in his abdomen got worse as it had metastatised there. This doesn't mean this is what I happening to you, but I think you should push for a CT given the positive FIT and raised CA125 levels. It would at least put your mind at rest. Just checking bowels via colonoscopy and a lower abdominal ultrasound isn't enough if you are still having symptoms.

EezyOozy · 07/06/2026 21:54

So I was told during the scope that I had internal piles and referred back to GP. They are also querying microscopic colitis but I think that’s quite rare and mainly affects people 50+. I’ve just repeated my calprotectin as that was raised, but it takes 2-3 weeks to get that back. 12 weeks for the biopsies to confirm / deny MC. Once I have the blood and stool test results back I will ask for a CT scan, thank you. I’ve a feeling both will still be raised so I’ll be stuck in this long dark tunnel for a long time yet.

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HalloweenHaribo · 07/06/2026 21:55

Titsywoo · 07/06/2026 21:47

Ah @HalloweenHaribo that's terrible and makes my problems seem petty in comparison. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Ahh thank you.

But it really doesn't make yours or anyone's problems seem petty.

They're still your problems and they still make life a bit more shit.

champagnePicnic · 07/06/2026 21:56

HalloweenHaribo · 07/06/2026 21:41

Yes, very shit unfortunately.

My DH who appeared normal and healthy in January, got ill in February and diagnosed with cancer.

They said he'd probably only have a few months left to live and he died last week.

I feel like I'm in a weird dream I can't escape from.

ETA: Sorry OP that was self indulgent. I meant to say I really hope things improve for you Flowers

Edited

Condolences 💖

also OP I hope things get better for you also 💖

Barney16 · 07/06/2026 22:02

Not a great year up to last week and then last week DP became seriously unwell, really poorly. Lucky to get to hospital in time, ( doing well now) I feel like I'm in some sort of delayed shock, just can't process what happened and feel very upset. OP, I hope everything goes well for you. Sending positive thoughts.

EezyOozy · 07/06/2026 22:27

That sounds extremely traumatic @Barney16 . I’m glad your husband is doing well. Fingers crossed he continues to
improve and you can look back on this as a distant albeit horrible memory.

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