Parther came home from work. I’d been cleaning all day, he said the kitchen floors sticky, took his socks off & started frantically mopping floors in kitchen. I said I’m about to cook dinner we’ve got young kids no point now if you want to mop again do it after dinner etc when house is quiet. He accused me of being funny?
toddler had food on his face he went to wipe it toddler screaming. I said I’m putting him in the bath now don’t worry about it and he stormed out and slammed doors.
this evening, my daughter went to her friends next door who’s got a bird, they came round with the bird to show us. My partner said to my daughter’s friend “get your fucking bird away from me” and shooed the bird away with his hands. I told him there’s no need to be rude she’s a child and they were just happy.
this al sounds rediculous but he’s like it every single day. Snappy and nasty and blames me. Feel like me & kids always walking on egg shells because of his mood.
the younger kids often get in bed with me for a cuddle and when they do he goes downstairs in a huff on the sofa.
if 1 year old wakes in the night he says “I’ve got a job to go to”
im so fed up sat having a cry