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Concerned about friend & her child?

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costcsooo · Today 17:32

I have a close friend and I am a bit concerned about her and her child.

She is a single parent to her 2 year old but the father has their daughter EOW.

She recently starting dating and from what she has told me I am quite worried.

She introduced her daughter to a guy she was seeing a month into them dating.
He has stayed over with the daughter there.

She regularly has parties with 2/3 guys in her house drinking, playing music etc with her daughter there.
I asked her if the music wakes her daughter up and she replied no.

She had sex with two different guys within 24 hours both unprotected.

Her closest friends (female) apart from me seem to have drifted away from her last year or so and she says she gets lonely which I totally get.

She has began asking me to babysit on weekdays sometimes so she can have guys over but as I have 3 off my own (one is under 1) I have told her this is impossible for me to do but have done so when she has sounded really drunk.

AIBU to be concerned? I don't know how to support her?

She is 30 and I am worried she is having some kind of crisis judging by her behaviour.

OP posts:
kwikfitt · Today 17:33

Yanbu at all

AnneLovesGilbert · Today 17:38

Is the dad a more stable person?

Divebar2021 · Today 17:41

Well sounds like she’s making really poor decisions. What’s her family situation ? Are there grandparents involved in any way ?

quackers7 · Today 18:19

Another one prioritising dick over the wellbeing of their dc and potentially putting them at risk at the same time. Yanbu to be concerned

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