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AIBU to question religious exemptions and equal treatment under UK law?

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faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 11:49

I thought carrying a weapon in the UK is illegal - for everyone except a trained police officer or solider?

Why is there a religious exemption for one religion to carry a weapon on our streets "in the name of tolerance"?

Rastafarians are not allowed to smoke cannabis legally, even in their own places of worship and homes. My Rastafarian nephew had to be home schooled. Not only was he not allowed to have dreadlocks, but he not allowed to wear a hair wrap to cover them, as the muslim girls were allowed to cover their hair. Appealing on religious grounds got them no where, they tried for 3 years!

Growing and smoking cannabis only harms yourself (unless you selfishly make others breathe it in), dreadlocks harm no one. Why are these not allowed when some can carry a bladed weapon? In an era when knife crime is disturbingly frequent?!

My view - if it is illegal no one can do it (knives, drugs) if it is legal anyone can (head scarf/dreadlocks)

AIBU to say all religions should be treated equally?

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faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 12:55

@BraverNewWorld 👏👏

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Araminta1003 · Today 12:57

So exactly what is the proposal? A new written constitution? Are you sure? Have you thought this through?
It is not easy to dismantle the entire traditions in our current democracy that easily. Brexit was shit enough.

Brownpuppy · Today 12:57

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 12:54

It is allowed in India on internal flights and it is allowed to go in the hold. My dads mate has a tattoo for this reason.

Thank you. I have been so ignorant and am trying to educate myself on religious exemptions. I wonder if, say, an offshore worker would be able to wear one.

I tend to agree that we should move towards being a secular country.

ByGraptharsHammer · Today 12:58

It is all justifiable until it is not. No, there should not be a religious exemption to carry what is otherwise an offensive weapon. There are probably many other reasoned ways to comply with religious requirements that do not conflict with the law.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 12:58

@Allisnotlost1 yes, this thread has helped me think things thru, which I appreciate. Chefs obviously carry knives for work! In fact last Wednesday I brought a knife to work to a birthday cake. I had a major brain blip with this but am enjoying seeing everyones views, thank you

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JenJenOut · Today 12:59

Allisnotlost1 · Today 12:52

What religion has to cover their arms?

The women in our training group were Muslim. They wore headscarves and needed to have covered arms at all times. Obviously like many religions there are varying degrees of how people follow it. Which is why some Muslim women don’t even wear a headscarf and others wear a full burqa. But in my experience most women I come across at work who wear a headscarf also cover their arms at all times.

Araminta1003 · Today 13:00

@JenJenOut - but in theory covering your head in medicine is more hygienic rather than less and the NHS could provide really long gloves for women who wish to cover their arms. They just don’t.

Allisnotlost1 · Today 13:04

JenJenOut · Today 12:59

The women in our training group were Muslim. They wore headscarves and needed to have covered arms at all times. Obviously like many religions there are varying degrees of how people follow it. Which is why some Muslim women don’t even wear a headscarf and others wear a full burqa. But in my experience most women I come across at work who wear a headscarf also cover their arms at all times.

I haven’t come across that, though have been treated by healthcare workers in hijab. Crazy application of the rules.

Allisnotlost1 · Today 13:06

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 12:58

@Allisnotlost1 yes, this thread has helped me think things thru, which I appreciate. Chefs obviously carry knives for work! In fact last Wednesday I brought a knife to work to a birthday cake. I had a major brain blip with this but am enjoying seeing everyones views, thank you

Glad you’ve found it helpful. Brain blips are a good excuse to ask questions, thanks for being open to others views :)

ServietteUnion · Today 13:08

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 12:52

@ServietteUnion the murderer of Henry Novak was British, born and raised here. Where would he go back to?
And no enlightenment here no - perhaps you live in London? Many of us are in less "enlightened" communities.
Well done for not using the tired old cliche "dog whistle", I was waiting for it 😂

I'm well aware Digwa is British and I'm not saying you said otherwise, but your argument is part of an exclusionist trope and I think you're well aware of that actually. As for me, I'm about as far from London as you can get without falling off the edge of the country, so that's another poor assumption on your part. Your nephew is entitled to wear his dreadlocks at school. It's pointless, weird and divisive to refuse the protections of the law yourself but then complain when others are unembarrassed to do so. YABU. Deal with it.

ServietteUnion · Today 13:11

And it's Nowak, not Novak. Show some respect.

Araminta1003 · Today 13:14

@ShyGirl32 - I agree with you. It has to come from the Sikh community itself given they also lobbied for the wide exemption in the first place. Obviously the murderer here does not represent what they stand for whatsoever, but much like the Catholic Church, they do have to take responsibility for it. Only with honesty and responsibility comes change.

However, calls from the far left for a secular society and no Church of England. That will just end up in fights with the far right over a first amendment style constitution instead. And I really do not think the majority of the country is up for any of that.

Roomonthe3rdfloor · Today 13:21

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 12:58

@Allisnotlost1 yes, this thread has helped me think things thru, which I appreciate. Chefs obviously carry knives for work! In fact last Wednesday I brought a knife to work to a birthday cake. I had a major brain blip with this but am enjoying seeing everyones views, thank you

I’m may be wrong but I’m sure you’re allowed to carry a swiss army knife? Fencers can carry swords to and from training etc

LoveHearts69 · Today 13:25

What I’m finding interesting is how hotly debated this seems to be when the perpetrator is brown and religious, even though there hasn’t ever been a case of this in the U.K. before and his own community are speaking out against this; yet there are half a million people here with shotgun licenses and there have been lots of murders using these over the years.

Yet our gun laws and desperate need for people to go clay pigeon shooting never seems to be in any way as debated?

ByGraptharsHammer · Today 13:29

LoveHearts69 · Today 13:25

What I’m finding interesting is how hotly debated this seems to be when the perpetrator is brown and religious, even though there hasn’t ever been a case of this in the U.K. before and his own community are speaking out against this; yet there are half a million people here with shotgun licenses and there have been lots of murders using these over the years.

Yet our gun laws and desperate need for people to go clay pigeon shooting never seems to be in any way as debated?

The reason is simple because of the leveraging of racism in the complaint and it seems the offender was not approached because of fears of racism.

Shotguns need licenses. They need to be locked away, and they need police approval. You cannot just carry one in public based on a religious status.

Ndd1356387 · Today 13:30

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · Today 12:42

No. Women who choose to cover? Their body, their choice.

Scots are indigenous and we have rights to our heritage.

Except it’s not their choice is it. Really.

Ndd1356387 · Today 13:31

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 12:45

@JustAnUdea I don't necessarily want to ban anything, I just believe in equality.

Ok so let’s let everybody carry a knife then…

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · Today 13:34

Ndd1356387 · Today 13:30

Except it’s not their choice is it. Really.

Yes it is in the UK.

JenJenOut · Today 13:34

Araminta1003 · Today 13:00

@JenJenOut - but in theory covering your head in medicine is more hygienic rather than less and the NHS could provide really long gloves for women who wish to cover their arms. They just don’t.

I wasn’t complaining about them covering their head. That doesn’t affect anything. It was the arms that are apparently classed as a serious cross infection risk but doesn’t apply if you say you can’t due to religious reasons. I’m not sure really long gloves would solve it at all. They would need to be removed straight after treatment and their arms would then be on show. Unless you mean they put the gloves over their long sleeves? That would be very difficult as they would be very tight and I imagine when putting on and taking off the gloves it would move their sleeves and I don’t think that would be acceptable.

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · Today 13:38

Gettingbysomehow · Today 12:48

A ceremonial knife should be completely blunt.
Us wiccans use an athame in ritual and it is never allowed to be sharp - it has to be blunt as it is never used for cutting anything.
Once it has blood on it it must be destroyed. So we go out sometimes into the countryside with knives but mine would not even cut a blade of grass.
If these big old knives are just for ceremonial use then they should also be blunt. There is no need for anyone to be carrying sharp ceremonial knives.

I have a very sharp letter opener, and a Victorian hat pin.

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · Today 13:39

Ndd1356387 · Today 13:31

Ok so let’s let everybody carry a knife then…

Women in my family tend to. It is a fabulous allpurpose tool.

Ndd1356387 · Today 13:42

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · Today 13:34

Yes it is in the UK.

…..not really

Ndd1356387 · Today 13:42

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · Today 13:39

Women in my family tend to. It is a fabulous allpurpose tool.

What? On the street? What do they use it for on the street? Interesting

ThisBirdOnThatRoof · Today 13:49

Ndd1356387 · Today 13:42

What? On the street? What do they use it for on the street? Interesting

Food-related things usually. Peeling fruit, slicing bread, prising off bottle tops. Gardening- and flower-related. Sewing fixes, unpicking stitching or cutting loose ends etc. Small bits of DIY.

Never snip flower stems with scissors, cut with a sharp knife if you want them to last...it crushes them less so they do not rot as quickly.

Knives have a feminine aspect.

wishingonastar101 · Today 13:52

People should not be allowed to cover their faces in public.
People should not be allowed to carry knives.
People should be allowed to do whatever they want with their hair.

Things that are dangerous should be managed by law. Hair should not.