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Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 19:10

We’re British, have lived abroad for a few years and due to return next summer-2027
Dc will have just turned 9 at that stage (late summer birthday)
What year will my Dc go into, would there be opportunity to go into the year below, due to being very young for her year and having started school later where we are and therefore behind others?
Also, what is the difference between a normal Primary school and an academy?
When would we need to apply for the school and what are the criteria for hoping to get into the one we hope for-is it due to being in the catchment area?

Any info greatly appreciated!

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RiskyBiz · 01/06/2026 21:31

Find the area you want to live, and contact the local primary schools. I wouldn't focus on whether they are a maintained school or academy, it doesn't actually make an obvious difference to parents it's mostly about how they can use their funding.
If there are schools locally that have a place the process to apply and take the space takes a matter of a week or two.
She will be in Year 5, it's extremely difficult to get deferred at this age unless there's extensive SEN and even then it's usually a no. You'd be amazed how well children actually adapt though.
You could look at more rural village schools that do a mixed year group set up, so she'd have a bigger age cohort to help her settle but it depends where you are looking to live.

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 21:51

LavenderSweetPea · 01/06/2026 21:01

She'll be young for the year group, but she won't be the only one. Unfortunately deferment isn't usually going to be an option unfortunately, and in the long run won't serve her well too be too old for the year.

Most schools won't formally offer a place until you have moved into your new property so you can provide proof of address. If you don't know the exact house you can still call around and find out which schools will have space in their September year 5 class

I’m not sure it will serve her well being very young and behind for the years, i’m sure I’ve read studies that the opposite is true for a child’s confidence and attainment

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Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 21:53

MabelAnderson · 01/06/2026 20:53

Year five is for children turning 10 during that academic year, so she would go into year 5, not year 4. There will be a lot of other July and August children. My friend’s son missed the year below by a few hours ! Born August 31st in the evening.

But will she turn ten that academic year if she’s ten towards the end of July?

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Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 21:54

Needmorelego · 01/06/2026 20:53

@Dontliketheheathelp you need to be more specific about where you will be living.
Scotland has a completely different system.
England and Wales are similar but there are differences (ie Welsh language schools).
Northern Ireland is also slightly different.
You won't get the correct answers otherwise.

England

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Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 21:54

MabelAnderson · 01/06/2026 20:53

OP which Uk country will you be in ? As advice will vary.

Sorry, England

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Franpie · 01/06/2026 21:57

She will most likely be absolutely fine and possibly not even the youngest in her class.

Yes, she started school later but that doesn’t necessarily mean that she knows any less than other children going into year 5.

Starting school very young I.e. just turned 4 can be very hard in that first year, but things have usually evened out quite a lot by year 5.

How is her reading and maths? You could try her out on some BBC bitesize year 4 maths and English and see how she gets on?

If you are dead set against her going into year 5 then you could probably find a small independent school willing to take her into year 4.

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 21:57

CarrieChickpeas · 01/06/2026 21:07

As well as national variations there are also regional ones so we'd need an idea of where you are living.
Some English local authorities have lower, middle and upper school
Some have selective testing for High School admissions at the end of Year 5 which you'd likely have missed the deadline for.
There's no one system even just looking at England

South West

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Needmorelego · 01/06/2026 21:58

@Dontliketheheathelp England does have a few different school systems though.
They are now very rare but some areas have the 3 tier First-Middle-Upper system with the switch to Middle School in Year 4 or 5.
As she will be going into Year 5 this is something to consider.

Archymum · 01/06/2026 21:58

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 21:53

But will she turn ten that academic year if she’s ten towards the end of July?

If her birthday is anytime before September 1, she will be in Year 5. There's no "holding back" for children who are "young for their year group." This practice which is incredibly common in places like America these days, especially for summer born children, is non existent here. There's no point arguing against it or resisting - it won't happen in England.

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 21:59

hahabahbag · 01/06/2026 21:09

You can’t apply until you have either a rental agreement or exchanged on a house purchase, I’ve been there but they are the rules you need an address basically. My dc started on time when we came back from America but they did start in their uk correct years, no allowance for school starting later there

We will sell our home and likely rent initially. Can we use parents address in case we are living there at the start?

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fashionqueen0123 · 01/06/2026 22:00

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 20:55

She’ll be very young for her age though surely as some could potentially turn 10 in September and she won’t until just under a year later. This coupled with only having started school at 6/7 and having learnt in another language and way, could be quite challenging for her

They won’t just put someone in a younger year because of that. It’s all done on age. The only exception is summer borns who defer their reception year at age 4. So all I can think is to say she effectively did that, but in another country. You may be able to argue for it. But there are also disadvantages to doing this. And there will be plenty of kids her age in her year.

Anyway some council websites show the spaces in each school and who has availability. In our area there is a spreadsheet online. Others you may need to phone or email them. I’d start doing that now.

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:02

Tunnocks34 · 01/06/2026 21:15

Yes my son was born on the 30th August - he is the youngest in his year.

But the difference is my daughter started formal learning at 6/7 so is basically doing Year 1 work at present, Year 2 work next year, then she would be expected to jump to Year 5 level, this is very worrying to me

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Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:05

RiskyBiz · 01/06/2026 21:31

Find the area you want to live, and contact the local primary schools. I wouldn't focus on whether they are a maintained school or academy, it doesn't actually make an obvious difference to parents it's mostly about how they can use their funding.
If there are schools locally that have a place the process to apply and take the space takes a matter of a week or two.
She will be in Year 5, it's extremely difficult to get deferred at this age unless there's extensive SEN and even then it's usually a no. You'd be amazed how well children actually adapt though.
You could look at more rural village schools that do a mixed year group set up, so she'd have a bigger age cohort to help her settle but it depends where you are looking to live.

Cornwall, likely Newquay, I was looking at a Primary academy there online today and it looked fantastic

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Summercocktailsgalore · 01/06/2026 22:05

You might wish to look for schools that have mixed age groups in one class, but be wary as some may do year 5 and 6 together.

bingbong8691 · 01/06/2026 22:06

It's up to the headteacher if they will put your child out of cohort. If I were you, I would write to all schools within the area you plan to move to and find a head who has a space in year 4 next year and who is willing to accept your child out of normal age group on the grounds that she has been taught in a country with a different education system. Summer born children can be taught out of cohort, my daughter is, alongside 3 others in her class. It’s quite common in our county as it’s an automatic yes from the LA. However, she started from reception. I suggest you join the group Flexible School admission for summer borns on Facebook, ask for advice on there. You might have to fight for your child to start out of cohort but you seem to think it’s the right approach for your child so don’t be persuaded otherwise!

Summercocktailsgalore · 01/06/2026 22:07

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:02

But the difference is my daughter started formal learning at 6/7 so is basically doing Year 1 work at present, Year 2 work next year, then she would be expected to jump to Year 5 level, this is very worrying to me

She would not be able to go down to year 3 level though.

what you can do is do work with her over the summer to catch up. Lots of good maths work books out, eg the Scholastic range, which shows the content covered in each year.

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:07

Franpie · 01/06/2026 21:57

She will most likely be absolutely fine and possibly not even the youngest in her class.

Yes, she started school later but that doesn’t necessarily mean that she knows any less than other children going into year 5.

Starting school very young I.e. just turned 4 can be very hard in that first year, but things have usually evened out quite a lot by year 5.

How is her reading and maths? You could try her out on some BBC bitesize year 4 maths and English and see how she gets on?

If you are dead set against her going into year 5 then you could probably find a small independent school willing to take her into year 4.

She is bright, but because they start formal learning so much later where we are, they haven’t covered many of the maths concepts etc, Year 4 would be very challenging as they’re currently working at Year 1, almost Year 2 level

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cantkeepawayforever · 01/06/2026 22:07

Typically, a primary class will have children who, though following the same curriculum, will be attaining at levels typical of anything between 2-3 years below and 2-3 years above chronological age. Teachers differentiate work, rather than children being kept down / accelerated.

As a Y5 teacher, I have taught children in the early stages of learning to read and write, and equally those tackling books targeted at teenagers. It’s normal.

YorkshireAndCream · 01/06/2026 22:08

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:02

But the difference is my daughter started formal learning at 6/7 so is basically doing Year 1 work at present, Year 2 work next year, then she would be expected to jump to Year 5 level, this is very worrying to me

Wouldn’t she be learning faster and have some academic base from preschool beforehand though? From countries I’ve lived in which start later, in practice the standard isn’t hugely different at the same age, just the terminology of school years/school vs preschool/kindergarten etc Or has she literally started to learn the alphabet/basic sums at age 6/7?

Solasum · 01/06/2026 22:09

You have the summer holidays in front of you.

If you do an hour of maths every day, read English books constantly and write short stories together, she will make a lot of progress in a very short time

Tunnocks34 · 01/06/2026 22:09

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:02

But the difference is my daughter started formal learning at 6/7 so is basically doing Year 1 work at present, Year 2 work next year, then she would be expected to jump to Year 5 level, this is very worrying to me

They won’t keep her down.

They will scaffold appropriately for her.
you can sometimes apply to stay one year behind (I do think this has to be before starting school but unsure about entering the country) but the when they start secondary school they have to return to their set age group.

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:09

Archymum · 01/06/2026 21:58

If her birthday is anytime before September 1, she will be in Year 5. There's no "holding back" for children who are "young for their year group." This practice which is incredibly common in places like America these days, especially for summer born children, is non existent here. There's no point arguing against it or resisting - it won't happen in England.

It’s common where we are too, they take into account many different factors, it’s not just about age, it’s for the best interests of the child. She will drown being put from Year 2 work to Year 5

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Franpie · 01/06/2026 22:10

YorkshireAndCream · 01/06/2026 22:08

Wouldn’t she be learning faster and have some academic base from preschool beforehand though? From countries I’ve lived in which start later, in practice the standard isn’t hugely different at the same age, just the terminology of school years/school vs preschool/kindergarten etc Or has she literally started to learn the alphabet/basic sums at age 6/7?

Yes, this is what I was getting at in my PP.

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:11

bingbong8691 · 01/06/2026 22:06

It's up to the headteacher if they will put your child out of cohort. If I were you, I would write to all schools within the area you plan to move to and find a head who has a space in year 4 next year and who is willing to accept your child out of normal age group on the grounds that she has been taught in a country with a different education system. Summer born children can be taught out of cohort, my daughter is, alongside 3 others in her class. It’s quite common in our county as it’s an automatic yes from the LA. However, she started from reception. I suggest you join the group Flexible School admission for summer borns on Facebook, ask for advice on there. You might have to fight for your child to start out of cohort but you seem to think it’s the right approach for your child so don’t be persuaded otherwise!

Thank you! I know it will benefit her for sure for many reasons

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Needmorelego · 01/06/2026 22:12

Dontliketheheathelp · 01/06/2026 22:02

But the difference is my daughter started formal learning at 6/7 so is basically doing Year 1 work at present, Year 2 work next year, then she would be expected to jump to Year 5 level, this is very worrying to me

Did she attend a Kindergarten before the age of 6?
Apparently in countries where "formal" education starts at 6 but all children go to kindergarten what is taught in there is a lot similar to Reception and Year 1/2 in England.
A lot of Year 1 is still learning through play and not so formal.