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Why does everything have to be filmed?

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springishereeeee · 29/05/2026 11:42

Everything seems to end up on social media these days.

Driving lessons, car boot sellers, shop worker etc

When i go the gym there is always someone filming. Even the instructors in some of the fitness classes film us to promote their classes.

i hate it. I dont want to be put online looking all sweaty.

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goodnightssleepbenice · 29/05/2026 11:58

I agree , must be annoying for a band or whatever to look out and see a mass of phones

Canoodler · 29/05/2026 12:01

I don't like it either.
And think of the coal burnt to make the elecricity to run the data centres that store all our pointless little films. Does my head in.

greenmarsupial · 29/05/2026 12:02

I agree too, I was on a park and ride bus the other day and someone was filming the journey - we were going into a nice city but this was the ring road and industrial area!

Watercooler · 29/05/2026 12:04

I agree. There was a busker in our local town last week and a group of girls were walking along and started dancing as they walked past. Lovely! Until a woman decided this was some kind of insta moment and decided to film them and me (I was walking behind them). I was so annoyed! I know it's technically legal but I don't want my image to be all over social media. It just seems so rude.

Also people filming big events that have professional tv coverage. Why? Enjoy the event live and go home and watch the professional footage. You've paid hundreds of pounds to watch something through a 3 inch screen.

minipie · 29/05/2026 12:06

If you didn’t film it and put it on social then it didn’t happen. Apparently.

I agree OP. Why can’t people enjoy watching the performance or fireworks or whatever with their actual eyes rather than through a screen? Nobody really wants to see the video afterwards anyway.

Somethingbland · 29/05/2026 12:07

I wouldn't care if it enhanced life or made us nicer people. But it doesn't. It has exactly opposite effect. Absolutely no manners or time for the people round about them because reality doesnt matter. The only reality is social media.

Monty36 · 29/05/2026 12:39

I agree it is bizarre. I find it a bit sad.

Lahsania · 29/05/2026 12:43

I agree it’s sad. Previously I could live with an illusion that people were sensitive and intelligent, and that is becoming increasingly impossible. Banal sheep seems to be more usual.

Doseofreality · 29/05/2026 12:44

I hear you, it pisses me off! I went for lunch in a lovely restaurant with some friends earlier this week, a woman on a nearby table was loudly shouting “Hi guys, just in restaurant having some lunch” and then proceeds to get up and walk around filming everyone.

wheretoyougonow · 29/05/2026 12:48

I think it should be illegal to film someone having a medical episode in public. Can’t think of much worse than seeing yourself or a loved one in distress on social media. That also applies to news reports that show bodies. So disrespectful to those poor families.

Galaxylights · 29/05/2026 12:52

When I say this about the gym, I get people whining but it's to check the formmmm... isn't that what a mirror does?

What annoys me most is, they never ask anyone around them if they are okay with it.

Put me off going to gyms. I find it narcissistic.

Galaxylights · 29/05/2026 12:53

wheretoyougonow · 29/05/2026 12:48

I think it should be illegal to film someone having a medical episode in public. Can’t think of much worse than seeing yourself or a loved one in distress on social media. That also applies to news reports that show bodies. So disrespectful to those poor families.

There is a disgusting page on Facebook dedicated to this shit, called yapp app. They actively encourage people to do it with their drones. Disgusting.

Lahsania · 29/05/2026 13:34

Galaxylights · 29/05/2026 12:53

There is a disgusting page on Facebook dedicated to this shit, called yapp app. They actively encourage people to do it with their drones. Disgusting.

People are so very weird, the awful thing about the internet is that they all find each other, and get worse. It’s so depressing.

springishereeeee · 30/05/2026 14:26

wheretoyougonow · 29/05/2026 12:48

I think it should be illegal to film someone having a medical episode in public. Can’t think of much worse than seeing yourself or a loved one in distress on social media. That also applies to news reports that show bodies. So disrespectful to those poor families.

Completely agree.
My children were involved in a car accident (they are all fine). The amount of people filming was awful. I told the police i was not comfortable with the filming and they went up to the people and made them wipe the footage.

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JMSA · 30/05/2026 19:13

I know! I feel so sorry for police when you see them being filmed.
I work in a secondary school and yesterday had to step in to break up a physical fight. The first thing I said to my colleague afterwards was, “I wasn’t being filmed, was I?”
Unfortunately it’s par for the course these days.

GripGetter · 30/05/2026 22:20

It's out of hand. My DSis got up out of her seat and filmed part of our DM's funeral service on her phone.

youalright · 30/05/2026 22:24

There are even people live streaming in hospitals its awful

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