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Is 51 too old to change career?

40 replies

jmh740 · 25/05/2026 18:54

Ive been a TA since 2014. 18 months ago I applied for a job at my school that was temp for 12 month possibly becoming permanent. After 12 months they extended it 6 more months to 31st August and said they would let me know if it was being made a permanent role by end of May.
Friday I was told it wasn't cost effective and I would go back to being a TA.
It's a 6k wage drop I know I've only been doing it 18 months but I'm used to the extra money.
DH had to medically retire 4 years ago. Only has a really small pension and PIP.

I'm so worried about money I've seen a job as a trainee education mental health practitioner. Its 26k for the first year training and working. It sounds really good but I believe its really competitive no guarantee of a job after the training.

Its 20 years since I did my degree not sure if I can study at that level. I'm a carer for dh and Dad. But youngest leaves school in a few weeks so I definitely dont need to be off school holidays any more.

I feel too old for change but have another 16 years to work. I love being a TA but the pay is shocking.

Need some words of wisdom please mumsnetters.

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jmh740 · 26/05/2026 16:09

BountifulPantry · 25/05/2026 21:25

Ok so teaching then? I’d go for it. It’s only 2 years and you clearly know and like the environment as a TA

Not teaching. Mental health in school role

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LarksAscending · 26/05/2026 18:56

Lots of women in their 50s on my healthcare degree course

coolcahuna · 26/05/2026 19:07

I'm 49 and retraining now and I'm not the oldest on the course by far so absolutely it's not too old

jmh740 · 02/06/2026 20:26

Applied for the role closing date was Sunday feel like I rushed it and wasn't a great application but will have to wait and see.

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solvendie · 02/06/2026 20:34

Absolutely go for it…..it’s not a new career - more like a progression. You have many transferable skills. Good luck

Mischance · 03/06/2026 08:20

Good luck!

jmh740 · 09/06/2026 21:19

Got an email today offering an interview next Wednesday!

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blueshoes · 09/06/2026 21:46

Sounds like a good fit and segue from your previous one with better potential.

Go for it. The change will energise and revitalise you.

blueshoes · 09/06/2026 21:48

And Best of Luck on your interview! It is awesome to secure one. They also spotted your potential.

viking11 · 09/06/2026 22:10

I regurned to college at 55. Best thing I ever did. I enjoyed it more than when i was in my 20's. I wasn't alone either. If you have the opportunity do it! Good luck

compactmotif · 10/06/2026 11:50

jmh740 · 09/06/2026 21:19

Got an email today offering an interview next Wednesday!

Fantastic. Good luck!

NorthFacingGardener · 13/06/2026 18:27

Good luck! Let us know how it goes!

BountifulPantry · 16/06/2026 11:28

jmh740 · 09/06/2026 21:19

Got an email today offering an interview next Wednesday!

Great news! Let us know how it goes x

jmh740 · 29/06/2026 22:01

Another email thanking me for interviewing was a hard choice due to calibre of applicants I didn't get through to next stage but they would be happy for me to apply for more roles with them in the future.
Gutted as I felt it went really well and I hoped id made it to the next stage. Have emailed and asked for feedback. To which they replied they are really busy and will try to get back to me.

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NorthFacingGardener · 01/07/2026 12:49

Sorry you didn’t get it OP. Hopefully you’ll be in a good position if more opportunities come up and at least you’ll know the interview questions for next time!

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