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AIBU to think some people ruin BBQ food with lighter fluid?

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Kloh · 24/05/2026 21:49

A few gardens near me had BBQs and could just smell lighter fluid. This means their food tasted of it.

Some people have no idea how to cook food on BBQs.

Yes — if a BBQ strongly smells of lighter fluid while cooking, the food can pick up that flavor and smell.
The main reasons are:
Too much lighter fluid was used.
The charcoal wasn’t allowed to burn long enough before cooking.
Food went on while there were still wet patches of fluid or heavy chemical fumes.

A properly lit charcoal bbq should reach the stage where:
the flames have mostly died down,
the coals are covered in gray-white ash,
and the sharp lighter fluid smell is gone.

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mumumental · 24/05/2026 22:01

Very useful, thanks .

NotAnotherScarf · 24/05/2026 22:16

Yes some people can't manage a fire. The problem with charcoal is you have to wait till it's coals, not black, no flames. Years ago even little kids could manage a fire, it's how we heated our homes. Now for a couple of weekends a year we light shite charcoal which isn't properly prepared and it's more dust and mouse droppings. We then pile a load of food too close, cook it too quickly and are expected to enjoy it, all the while surrounding it and us in a sulphurous cloud of forth rate petrol, smoke and smuts.

AmIrightAmIright · 24/05/2026 22:19

So glad it's not just me that can taste this. Every BBQ at PIL's house tastes like petrol, I can't bear it.

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