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Was this rude of neighbour?

7 replies

candicce · Yesterday 23:00

Basically I don't really get on with my neighbour. We haven't fallen out as per se but I just don't like her and keep her at arms length.

Shes very nosey, intrusive, talks about herself all the time (and other neighbours) and just isn't really my kind of person (I get on very well with my other neighbour) we say hello and that's it now as I think she got the hint that I didn't want to engage with her past hello.

Anyway we both have two allocated parking spaces each.
She had her some cleaning company come and park in my parking space.
She had parked her car in the middle of her parking space for some reason and she must of known the cleaning company was coming and could of moved her car to not inconvenience us.

They were only parked 30 minutes or so but she could of at least moved her car or asked.

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ElfAndSafetyBored · Yesterday 23:23

Do you use your spaces? If so, definitely rude, and if not still rude not to ask you.

candicce · Yesterday 23:28

Yes we use one of the spaces and in the past has had visitors park in our spaces.

We usually move our bins to stop people parking there but as it hasn't happened for so long now it caught us off guard and concerned it may become a regular occurrence again.

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angelikacpickles · Today 00:31

Probably a bit rude but for the sake of 30 minutes, I don't think there's any point in wasting any time getting annoyed about it. If it happens regularly, then I could see that it would be irritating, but as a once-off I think you should just forget about it and move on.

Friendlygingercat · Today 00:37

The problem with one offs is that they can soon become regular if you dont act. Let it go this time but if it happens again a word with your ND or a note through the door.

HortiGal · Today 00:37

You only need one space and block the other with bins? it’s not your neighbour who is petty.

Swizzel000 · Today 03:12

Penguin bollard? 😆

Zanatdy · Today 03:43

Did you actually need the space in that 30 mins? Did you arrive home to find them in your space? If so why didn’t you knock and ask them to move. If you didn’t need the space and were just annoyed she inconvenienced you and not herself, then you’re not wrong to be annoyed, but I doubt she is going to change. I am moving to a new build estate soon as I have a drive but I can see from the plans that some areas further down have 1 or 2 allocated parking bays and 1 allocated visitor space. I can forsee there will he lots of parking issues there, and the roads in this new estate don’t appear to be very wide so little other parking spots. Parking is definitely the cause of lots of neighbour wars.

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