Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask neighbour to pay son more?

129 replies

SunIsOutAgain · 23/05/2026 18:53

My neighbour asked my 14 year old to do some jobs in the garden today. Cutting the lawn, taking back some hedges, tidying etc.

He is fairly competent at these things and it took him 2.5 hours. I would expect an adult could do it in 2, but it wasn't an especially small job.

She gave him £15 and he was a bit disappointed as he was hoping for 20. He said he didn't clarify the pay before starting (obviously an error that we've now discussed for next time).

It was very hot here today, which doesn't change the value of the work but does affect how he felt when he had finished!

Is this a reasonable amount of money? Should i speak to her?

OP posts:
fiorentina · 24/05/2026 16:28

I have paid my teens £10 an hour for manual garden work this weekend. I think £7 is mean but you can’t ask for more now. Just be clear in future what the rate is.

PurpleThistle7 · 24/05/2026 18:04

viques · 24/05/2026 16:22

Blimey. Did they valet the inside as well?

I pay £5.00 for a drive through car wash at a local supermarket.

yes! Inside and out and it was a disaster. They well earned it

MidnightMeltdown · 24/05/2026 21:07

It is a bit on the low side, but I think it would be hugely awkward and embarrassing to go over and ask for more money! Next time he’ll just have to say that he’s busy.

I think older people sometimes struggle to come to terms with inflation, and understanding that what was a lot of money in 1986, isn’t now!

SeeYouThroughACameraFlash · 25/05/2026 01:48

MidnightMeltdown · 24/05/2026 21:07

It is a bit on the low side, but I think it would be hugely awkward and embarrassing to go over and ask for more money! Next time he’ll just have to say that he’s busy.

I think older people sometimes struggle to come to terms with inflation, and understanding that what was a lot of money in 1986, isn’t now!

Edited

I wouldn’t find it embarrassing. The tight arse neighbour should feel embarrassed.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page