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AIBU to think YouTube videos in Year 3 lessons are inappropriate?

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SlB09 · 22/05/2026 20:00

Son is in yr3 at a v good state primary school.l. just want a sense check as they seem to watch videos on YouTube as part of normal schooling. Is this the norm?!!! So today they got a treat of a 'satisfying video' basically one of those shite asmr type things that kids like. But he's mentioned this a few times and I'm getting to the point where I feel like speaking to the head. We get all these emails from school around internet use including you tube etc and it seems hipocritical that they then use it as part of the normal day!!

Aibu to think this is just a bit crap? Or is it pretty normal now?

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Screamingabdabz · 22/05/2026 20:57

I imagine it calms down all the ‘disregulated’ kids who can’t sit still for ten minutes, ironically because they’ve been weaned on short form digital slop from birth. They should hand out comics, dominos or colouring pens instead.

DanceMumTaxi · 22/05/2026 21:03

I also occasionally show Newsround in form time too, particularly when there’s a big event. It helps to generate discussion in an age appropriate way. My form year 7 btw.

GrillaMilla · 22/05/2026 21:41

Screamingabdabz · 22/05/2026 20:57

I imagine it calms down all the ‘disregulated’ kids who can’t sit still for ten minutes, ironically because they’ve been weaned on short form digital slop from birth. They should hand out comics, dominos or colouring pens instead.

Yep, YouTube shouldn't be used as a treat in school, we're trying to get them off screens aren't we??

Pricelessadvice · 22/05/2026 21:49

There are educational things on YouTube OP.
Even as a child in the 80s, the TV would get wheeled in and we would watch educational stuff.
Last day of term, anything goes.

DanceMumTaxi · 22/05/2026 21:50

They look at a screen all day. The smart boards are all huge screens. It’s how we teach. Even if we read something, like a passage from a textbook, it goes under the visualiser and is linked up to the screen so the children can read with a ruler and follow along. No getting away from screens in schools.

DanceMumTaxi · 22/05/2026 21:52

Pricelessadvice · 22/05/2026 21:49

There are educational things on YouTube OP.
Even as a child in the 80s, the TV would get wheeled in and we would watch educational stuff.
Last day of term, anything goes.

Yes, I remember going to a special TV room. We watched things like Through the Dragon’s Eye and Geordie Racer. I remember one with a magic pencil too drawing letters, something like magic E. Teaching using screens has been happening for a long time.

Pricelessadvice · 22/05/2026 21:54

DanceMumTaxi · 22/05/2026 21:52

Yes, I remember going to a special TV room. We watched things like Through the Dragon’s Eye and Geordie Racer. I remember one with a magic pencil too drawing letters, something like magic E. Teaching using screens has been happening for a long time.

Edited

I loved the magic pencil! “Up and down and round and flick”

Notmyreality · 22/05/2026 22:10

WildMauveReader · 22/05/2026 20:10

But what is ASMR?

Edited

There’s this new thing called Google. Try it.

Tortoisel · 22/05/2026 22:12

Smartiepants79 · 22/05/2026 20:21

I use YouTube to show the children short videos of all sorts of things. Things I cannot show them from the inside of a primary classroom. This week we watched time lapse videos of seeds germinating and looked at some of the world’s most unusual plants. I don’t show them asmr videos though. Ok as a one off end of half term reward for 5 minutes.

Ooo which plants did you have?

Watching Chelsea is getting me all excited about plants again!

Did you show the bamboo with the longest flowering cycle?

GrillaMilla · 22/05/2026 22:15

DanceMumTaxi · 22/05/2026 21:50

They look at a screen all day. The smart boards are all huge screens. It’s how we teach. Even if we read something, like a passage from a textbook, it goes under the visualiser and is linked up to the screen so the children can read with a ruler and follow along. No getting away from screens in schools.

Sad really isn't it.

SlB09 · 22/05/2026 22:15

@RobertBobsee we actually only had the big tv wheeled in really infrequently in primary! I remember watching the nuclear bomb safety video (which totally freaked me out & also shows my age!) railway line safety and a sex education video. I'm sure there were more times but we never watched films or had at wet breaktimes or anything.

@DanceMumTaxi and any other teachers, just to clarify I'm absolutely not teacher bashing, couldn't and wouldn't want to do your job! I think my concern is more around the use of YouTube and not videos in itself - although relying on or excessive use of them as others have said can be a slippery slope I would imagine. I really like his current teacher who has been really helpful and proactive with other things. The teachers he's had so far through school have also been amazing, but I have definitely noticed there has been far more use of online content in his current year. His teacher is NQ and this was his first class teaching, he is v young and I don't know if this has any impact. There is also a high number of ND children in the class who struggle with concentration/focus/behaviour and I wonder if that also feeds in somewhat.

Perhaps there's scope for an educational platform for all of these videos that have been mentioned, and if there isn't then someone should invent it, that schools can use for trusted content that also works within the evidence base we have around short clips and neurobiology/neuropsychiatry/educational psychology etc.

I think fundamentally for me, it's the fact it's YouTube.

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CypressGrove · 22/05/2026 22:19

I think YouTube can be super helpful for learning - my DC will use it for alternative methods of approaching maths problems etc when the teacher's explanations don't quite click. I'm impressed at the level of agency it gives them over their learning even during primary school. I didn't have the option to go on YouTube to find different ways to do long division!

Pistachiocake · 22/05/2026 22:38

RobertBobsee · 22/05/2026 20:48

@SlB09 did you yourself not have a tv wheeled into your classroom to watch things like BBC Schools Words and Pictures? The Way We Used to Live? I certainly did.

Look I get what you are saying about it but it is just a great resource for things you cannot recreate in a classroom especially science experiments. You can show them Roman forts and Viking Longships alongside the making of shields and the mock battles they had. It is a teaching tool. If there is a wet playtime then the younger ones watch CBeebies or CBBC.

I agree it can be overused but in the grand scheme of the school day, the curriculum targets that have to be met there isn't a huge amount of spare time.

@fruitpastille My DCs' school was a 3 form entry so 630 children and the school playground had scheduled times for break times. It was also used for games with PE taking place in the school hall. There is nowhere for the children to play out unless it is scheduled into the school day. So as much as we would have liked them to run around they couldn't. There were of course quick star jumps or running on the spot especially for year 3's who were used to having an afternoon playtime in KS1.

Part of this is modelling behaviour at home too, how many parents are on their phones constantly? We are all using screens now to write on MN. The difference is my son is out at the park, but he is early 20s Wink

Great post! A few minutes of a video (YT or VCR) isn't going to be a problem. Parents on their phones, or kids being allowed on screen all the time at home, will be.
Your teachers knew they had 30 students to deal with, and knew the adult to child ratio at home is often close to 1:1.

CranberryCandyCane · 22/05/2026 22:54

Teachers definitely need to be vigilant about how many videos they show and screen them for quality. I don’t think the fact it is accessed on YouTube means the videos are problematic. Many videos that are no longer available on BBC Teach or Bitesize are still on YouTube. I’ve also used short clips from films pupils are familiar with to help them understand character motivation before they write about an imaginary character. Children nowadays are rarely avid readers which is reflected in their writing sadly. Short, well chosen videos can enhance learning. It’s not comparable to kids scrolling past endless shorts in their free time.

SlB09 · 22/05/2026 23:43

@CranberryCandyCane I think from responses I probably need to accept this is just a thing now!

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Smartiepants79 · Yesterday 07:18

SlB09 · 22/05/2026 22:15

@RobertBobsee we actually only had the big tv wheeled in really infrequently in primary! I remember watching the nuclear bomb safety video (which totally freaked me out & also shows my age!) railway line safety and a sex education video. I'm sure there were more times but we never watched films or had at wet breaktimes or anything.

@DanceMumTaxi and any other teachers, just to clarify I'm absolutely not teacher bashing, couldn't and wouldn't want to do your job! I think my concern is more around the use of YouTube and not videos in itself - although relying on or excessive use of them as others have said can be a slippery slope I would imagine. I really like his current teacher who has been really helpful and proactive with other things. The teachers he's had so far through school have also been amazing, but I have definitely noticed there has been far more use of online content in his current year. His teacher is NQ and this was his first class teaching, he is v young and I don't know if this has any impact. There is also a high number of ND children in the class who struggle with concentration/focus/behaviour and I wonder if that also feeds in somewhat.

Perhaps there's scope for an educational platform for all of these videos that have been mentioned, and if there isn't then someone should invent it, that schools can use for trusted content that also works within the evidence base we have around short clips and neurobiology/neuropsychiatry/educational psychology etc.

I think fundamentally for me, it's the fact it's YouTube.

But why? You tube is just a platform, neither better nor worse than any other. What is watched is entirely the choice of the human. There is a LOT of crap on it but all of that can be ignored and avoided. I pick my clips very carefully and link them through Google classroom. That means only the clip I’ve picked and no adverts etc. screens in schools are the smallest end of the wedge when it comes to the issue of screen time for children.

Smartiepants79 · Yesterday 07:21

Tortoisel · 22/05/2026 22:12

Ooo which plants did you have?

Watching Chelsea is getting me all excited about plants again!

Did you show the bamboo with the longest flowering cycle?

We looked at the carnivorous plants, the black bat flower, the dragon blood tree, Rafflesia. They found it fascinating.

Coconutter24 · Yesterday 07:25

SlB09 · 22/05/2026 20:09

I should add, it was a treat today (the ASMR video) but YT has been mentioned at various points through the terms so it's not just a treat thing.

Did your teacher never wheel out the tv when it was a treat day or last day of term?

InterestedDad37 · Yesterday 07:29

It can be perfectly appropriate and useful to use video in education, and if this was a treat, fine. But if they're often used, simply as a time filler, not fine.
Details are important too - I hope the teacher has the video 'ready to go' - that s/he just presses 'play', rather than the kids witnessing a random search for something decent (as that really sets a bad example, and is something that the school/parents are hopefully discouraging).

Tutorpuzzle · Yesterday 07:31

I love Danny Go! But I find it very over stimulating for the age I teach.

YouTube generally brilliant for art and craft videos.

Never understand why teachers use it for ‘relaxing music’ slop. If you must have music whist children are working there’s plenty of actual music from the last thousand years that’s been recorded.

And don’t get me started on those bloody bubbles….!

Movingtodarkestperu · Yesterday 07:39

SlB09 · 22/05/2026 22:15

@RobertBobsee we actually only had the big tv wheeled in really infrequently in primary! I remember watching the nuclear bomb safety video (which totally freaked me out & also shows my age!) railway line safety and a sex education video. I'm sure there were more times but we never watched films or had at wet breaktimes or anything.

@DanceMumTaxi and any other teachers, just to clarify I'm absolutely not teacher bashing, couldn't and wouldn't want to do your job! I think my concern is more around the use of YouTube and not videos in itself - although relying on or excessive use of them as others have said can be a slippery slope I would imagine. I really like his current teacher who has been really helpful and proactive with other things. The teachers he's had so far through school have also been amazing, but I have definitely noticed there has been far more use of online content in his current year. His teacher is NQ and this was his first class teaching, he is v young and I don't know if this has any impact. There is also a high number of ND children in the class who struggle with concentration/focus/behaviour and I wonder if that also feeds in somewhat.

Perhaps there's scope for an educational platform for all of these videos that have been mentioned, and if there isn't then someone should invent it, that schools can use for trusted content that also works within the evidence base we have around short clips and neurobiology/neuropsychiatry/educational psychology etc.

I think fundamentally for me, it's the fact it's YouTube.

I can, as a teacher, totally see your point around YouTube being the problem because, as parents, we are constantly told its not good. However, as many have already said it is full of great education stuff (as long as you are careful and watch it first) and, most importantly, in today's climate with budget constraints its free. There are other platforms with videos but at a cost (twinkl, for example is quite expensive and teachers often end up paying themselves). I wonder if, as you suggested, someone gathered the videos together, how much they would charge for access!
For what it is worth, as a teacher, I would never use asmr videos even as a brain break. I tend to do movement breaks where they do some go noodle or walk and talk around the room type stuff.

Tshirtking · Yesterday 07:45

It's fine, in the 70s we watched things like playschool and maths in the box. It's the same thing it's just on YouTube now not BBC.

TheMadGardener · Yesterday 07:51

I use video clips a lot. This week, for example:

  • in a KS2 RE lesson, clips from video tour of Southwark Cathedral explaining features of a church.
  • in KS2 French lessons, several clips with French songs reinforcing vocab we are learning.
  • in KS2 Computing, a clip about Mars Rovers showing how binary code is used to send data back to Earth.
  • in KS2 Music, a video which was the backing track for the song they are writing their own lyrics for in a unit about songwriting.
I always watch the clips first and I often pause them for discussion. I very rarely use YT just for "brain breaks". Videos are a common teaching tool.
Tonissister · Yesterday 07:56

WildMauveReader · 22/05/2026 20:08

It is the last day before half term break around here and the OP did say it was a 'treat' . In my day we just got to play Hangman on the last day of term. Are these videos really any more or less of a time filler than that was?

I think they are. Hangman is socially interactive and requires use of brain and good spelling. ASMR videos are about as passive as anyrthing can be.

Schools should be helping children learn to unwind through gentle exercise, social connection and playing games or craft activities.

Tonissister · Yesterday 07:56

TheMadGardener · Yesterday 07:51

I use video clips a lot. This week, for example:

  • in a KS2 RE lesson, clips from video tour of Southwark Cathedral explaining features of a church.
  • in KS2 French lessons, several clips with French songs reinforcing vocab we are learning.
  • in KS2 Computing, a clip about Mars Rovers showing how binary code is used to send data back to Earth.
  • in KS2 Music, a video which was the backing track for the song they are writing their own lyrics for in a unit about songwriting.
I always watch the clips first and I often pause them for discussion. I very rarely use YT just for "brain breaks". Videos are a common teaching tool.

That's different. Active learning.
They all sound really interesting and make me want to be in those classes.

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