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To be absolutely sick of hearing about the cost of living crisis

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Katypp · 22/05/2026 08:59

I surely can't be the only person sick to death of hearing about the cost of living crisis?
I am tired of reporters interviewing middle-class (usually) mothers inside paid activities such as soft play and hearing them moan about how they are struggling to make ends meet.
Have we completely lost the ability to cut our cloth according to our means or does 'struggling' now mean carrying on spending as usual then complaining when there's no money left?
There have never been as many massive new cars on the road, towns are full of hairdressers, nail bars, brow bars, tanning salons, soft play, play cafes, coffee shops, ice cream parlours, dog groomers, most of which didn't exist 25 years ago and are probably the recipients of the money of the families who say they can't keep up with spiralling costs.
Yes, some families will have been hard up before prices started to go up and will have nothing else to cut back on. They have my sympathy.
But i am utterly fed up of hearing how hard households ars being hit by the cost of living crisis when all that's needed is a few minor cutbacks which they don't want to make.

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Puffinsandcoffee · 22/05/2026 22:16

OhThePotential · 22/05/2026 21:37

I can’t see a reply to this but I bet its just ‘light the fire’. It said no heating which I took to mean no central heating.

I grew up in a house without heating but the coal fires in all the rooms kept us warm.

Damn. Yeah I've had no reply but if it's that I'm gutted. Fires are surely mostly a posh house thing now. We actually do have a fireplace . Looked into getting it sorted for heating over winter. £3-4k just to make it safe to use. Then fuel on top. Ha. No.

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:16

MugSh0t · 22/05/2026 22:15

No if they then can’t feed their children properly because of it they’re wasting tax payers money.

How do you know the spending habits of someone waiting get served in a Toby carvery?
Is this some magic power bestowed to higher rate tax payers?

MistressoftheDarkSide · 22/05/2026 22:20

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:16

How do you know the spending habits of someone waiting get served in a Toby carvery?
Is this some magic power bestowed to higher rate tax payers?

Oh, they can tell from the tattoos, nails, lashes etc. It's obvious.

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:20

MistressoftheDarkSide · 22/05/2026 22:20

Oh, they can tell from the tattoos, nails, lashes etc. It's obvious.

You read my mind.

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:22

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:11

Ha, I saw that post. I can't remember the last time I went to a carvery.
And if someone on UC goes to a Toby, then they are spending money that boosts trade and the economy.

Might even be enjoying themselves too - the entitlement!

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:24

MugSh0t · 22/05/2026 22:15

No if they then can’t feed their children properly because of it they’re wasting tax payers money.

Ah come on. The food's not that bad at a carvery.

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:25

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:24

Ah come on. The food's not that bad at a carvery.

Toby is on the Too Good to Go app too.

Phoenixfire1988 · 22/05/2026 22:25

Were running out of things to bloody cut back on !!!! I had to cancel my pet insurance it was 42 for 2 dogs for years then rocketed to nearly 200 without claiming ! My electric is utterly ridiculous and food ... well . I'm literally living hand to mouth and stretching every penny despite having a good income that just 5 years ago I was VERY comfortable.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 22/05/2026 22:27

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:24

Ah come on. The food's not that bad at a carvery.

If you're resourceful you could really load your plate with veggies and transfer it to smuggled in Tupperware ( if Tupperware isn't a luxury of course) and stretch it out over a couple of days.

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:30

MistressoftheDarkSide · 22/05/2026 22:27

If you're resourceful you could really load your plate with veggies and transfer it to smuggled in Tupperware ( if Tupperware isn't a luxury of course) and stretch it out over a couple of days.

Tupperware? Luxury!

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:31

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:30

Tupperware? Luxury!

None of mine have lids. They are in the vortex that socks go to.

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:34

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:31

None of mine have lids. They are in the vortex that socks go to.

Well I just carry food in my cupped hands.

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:34

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:34

Well I just carry food in my cupped hands.

You have hands? Such privilege!

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:35

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:31

None of mine have lids. They are in the vortex that socks go to.

Though having said that, an avalanche of lids fell out of the cupboard today and hit me on the head as I was reaching for the ice cube tray. Could your lids have made their way to me? And if so... Do you have my missing boxes? 👀

ExpectMore · 22/05/2026 22:36

Rachelshair · 22/05/2026 09:14

Why should middle class families be ok with making cutbacks though? Why should anyone?
Professional jobs at least should allow for a good standard of living. It's scandalous how people have to struggle while businesses offering essential goods and services make billions in profits. It's pathetic that we are conditioned to accept the bare minimum. Life shouldn't be this miserable and it is a scandal.

  1. They’re businesses. That’s their purpose. They employ people in the process
  2. Pathetic? And conditioned by whom? There isn’t a great bit invisible network of people out to get you
  3. A scandal? See # 3

Life in the UK is of a considerably higher standard than the vast majority of the world, for almost everyone living here. Even compared to what it was like here in the uk only about 30 years ago. I mean, I bet you wrote that message on a smartphone that didn’t even exist at the turn of the century and on which you likely use uber, order groceries, book flights…. Now go compare to vast majority of the rest of the world

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:36

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:34

You have hands? Such privilege!

Did I say hands? I meant raw stumps.

cupfinalchaos · 22/05/2026 22:40

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 16:15

I don't think you know what a welfare state is to be honest. Maybe look up terms before you use them. While you're at it, look up the percentage of GDP and the percentage of government spending on benefits and pensions over the last 2-3 decades. Then come back and make your point. Well, you won't be able to, because the benefits bill isn't unsustainable at all, it's stable. But you can give it a try.

So you think the benefits bill is sustainable. Enjoy reaping the rewards of the effect on public services over the next ten years.

XenoBitch · 22/05/2026 22:42

ForWittyTealOP · 22/05/2026 22:35

Though having said that, an avalanche of lids fell out of the cupboard today and hit me on the head as I was reaching for the ice cube tray. Could your lids have made their way to me? And if so... Do you have my missing boxes? 👀

I seem to have more boxes than I remember buying.
This is mad, but when I went to bed last night, I stripped off and chucked my clothes on the floor. Picked it all up this morning. One sock gone. Just.... fucking... gone. I live alone. No reason for it to vanish.

cupfinalchaos · 22/05/2026 22:43

BloominNora · 22/05/2026 16:56

The uk is sadly turning into a welfare state

A corporate welfare state.

50% welfare bill = pensioners
10% = working age sick and disabled
10% = working age not working (parents, carers, other)
30% = working age in low paid jobs

The majority of working age benefits claimants are on benefits despite working because they are not paid enough to live on.

This is just one way the government subsidise business. The other is through direct grants.

A good example is Ineos - A private company majority owned by 'Sir' Jim Ratcliffe. Despite being a so called knight of the realm and regularly going on TV to blast 'benefit scroungers',

Sir Jim Ratcliffe who has an estimate wealth of between £12 and £17 billion moved to Monaco in 2020, saving an estimated £4 billion in UK tax as long as he spends at least 183 days a year there. For context that is around 2.5% of the working age benefits bill.

In 2022 Ineos as a group of companies made over 2 billion in pre and post tax profits. In 2023 they made over 300 million. They have made some losses in 2024 and 2025 but this is dwarfed by the profits of the previous years.

Remember it is a private company, not publicly listed, so a large proportion of the post tax profit would have gone directly to Ratcliffe and due to his Monaco residency he would not have paid tax on it!

Despite that the government gave Ineos a £125 million support package to support the future of the Grangemouth plant - £50 million of which was a grant. £75 million a government backed low interest loan.

Let that sink in.... £50 million of tax payers money given to a private company which has made billions in profit over the past few years and whose billionaire, knight of the realm owner, intentionally moved to Monaco to avoid paying £4 billion in UK tax.

It is just one example of many where money is siphoned off to the rich. Michelle Mone, Jeremy Hunt's landlord mate, the billions in Covid loans wiped out, the lack of fines for water companies who continue to pollute our waters while still paying out dividends to their share holders ...bail out after bail out after bail out for the rich, none of whom willingly pay their own dues.

And yet Jim Ratcliffe, Reform, the Tories, the Daily Mail (which is also owned by a tax dodging billionaire who benefits from a title), the Express (owned by investment funds) and the Telegraph (formally owned by the billionaire Barclay brothers who were also tax dodging Monaco 'residents' who defaulted on over £1 billion in loans owed to Lloyds) all seem determined to make people think that it is the welfare bill and immigrants that are the problem.

If you seriously think that this country's problems will be solved by reducing or stopping the couple of hundred quid a week that Fred gets because he has depression and can't work or the £400 a week the Jones family get as a UC top up because dad works a minimum wage job and mom can only work part time because they can't afford more child care then you are absolutely deluded!

Perhaps Sir Jim et al don’t fancy hanging around to fund those of working age who chose not to work. The uk should be doing deals with job creators and wealth generators instead of driving them away. They should be creating an environment that celebrates success. Easy to be generous with other people’s money isn’t it?

MistressoftheDarkSide · 22/05/2026 22:43

cupfinalchaos · 22/05/2026 22:40

So you think the benefits bill is sustainable. Enjoy reaping the rewards of the effect on public services over the next ten years.

Maybe if things like the HS2 debacle were managed better things would be different.....

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cz6e0vplgldt

HS2: Railway could cost up to £102.7bn and may not open until 2039, transport secretary says

Heidi Alexander told the Commons the railway, estimated in 2011 to cost £32bn, had become "a symbol of this country's decline".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cz6e0vplgldt

Velumental · 22/05/2026 22:45

SqueakyFreesia · 22/05/2026 12:33

Honestly I just don’t want to watch my kids to work hard and endure all the pressure that school, university, beginning a career brings.. and get f all for it. Just to afford heating and food. Because that’s how it’s going. I want them to be able to have a nice life and we should be lifting each other up to do that. Starting with the COL.

As someone who grew up very poor it's a privilege to go to university, start and maintain a career and afford food, heating and housing. A privelege.

OFiddleDeeDee · 22/05/2026 22:49

So governments around the world implement strategies to reduce the standard of living for the population and they should just accept their lot and ...shut up..to make you ..happy? OK!! Good to know!

Pikachu150 · 22/05/2026 22:54

Jamesblonde2 · 22/05/2026 21:55

And restaurants OP. We NEVER went to restaurants when I was young (I’m 50s now). My 18th birthday was to a restaurant with family, a rare treat. The number of families you see out now in restaurants as I drive past is astounding.

The amount of universal credit being spent in The Toby beggars belief……waits for the pile on…..

Edited

Not going to restaurants as children in the 70s or 80s wasn't due to the cost though. My parents certainly went out a lot, especially in the 80s. I also went out a lot to restaurants as a student in the 80s.

Mirabella7 · 22/05/2026 22:58

Absolutely agee, I think for many people the “cost of living crisis is very real and people generally have less money in their pockets and they really feel it!

Apprentice26 · 22/05/2026 23:04

Pikachu150 · 22/05/2026 22:54

Not going to restaurants as children in the 70s or 80s wasn't due to the cost though. My parents certainly went out a lot, especially in the 80s. I also went out a lot to restaurants as a student in the 80s.

I went to restaurants every family occasion as did the parents - mum was dating early 80’s in restaurants. We were very poor, benefits, council house etc. could still stretch to a Toby Grill

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