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To think emotional maturity is rarer than intelligence?

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EQIsTheRealTest · 18/05/2026 20:17

Plenty of people are smart but few are self-aware.

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BuffetTheDietSlayer · 18/05/2026 20:20

Ok bot.

EQIsTheRealTest · 18/05/2026 20:22

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 18/05/2026 20:20

Ok bot.

Bit ironic on a thread about emotional maturity tbf

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MrThorpeHazell · 18/05/2026 20:27

Being smart is a necessary survival skill.
"Emotional maturity" (whatever that may be), isn't.

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 18/05/2026 20:27

EQIsTheRealTest · 18/05/2026 20:22

Bit ironic on a thread about emotional maturity tbf

My EQ trial subscription expired.

thefloorislavayes · 18/05/2026 20:28

It's called emotional intelligence and there is a world of books on the subject

EQIsTheRealTest · 18/05/2026 20:33

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 18/05/2026 20:27

My EQ trial subscription expired.

At least you’re self-aware about it

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EQIsTheRealTest · 18/05/2026 20:35

thefloorislavayes · 18/05/2026 20:28

It's called emotional intelligence and there is a world of books on the subject

Yes, emotional intelligence/emotional maturity/self-awareness overlap quite a lot I think. It seems unevenly distributed compared to raw intelligence/competence.

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EQIsTheRealTest · 18/05/2026 20:36

MrThorpeHazell · 18/05/2026 20:27

Being smart is a necessary survival skill.
"Emotional maturity" (whatever that may be), isn't.

Interesting. Although I’d probably argue emotional maturity becomes very important for maintaining relationships, handling conflict, self-regulation, parenting, leadership, long-term wellbeing etc, even if raw intelligence is rewarded more directly in some environments.

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