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MikeRafone · 14/05/2026 20:19

RustyBear · 14/05/2026 20:16

It is possible for an employer to pay into a SIPP - my husband’s employer did for several years.

And woman were discriminated against legally by being barred from workplace pensions, which was the point I was making originally. As others are suggesting that woman were feckless in not sorting out additional pension

ShyMaryEllen · 14/05/2026 20:19

Jane379 · 14/05/2026 16:21

That's true...but equal pay act came into force in 1975, surely unequal pay can't have had a huge impact on most of these women?

Yes, it did. A woman who was sidelined into a 'female' job on low pay with little or no pension wasn't going to be able to make it to the top (or anywhere near it) in time to make a difference. Even when the law changed, culture often didn't, and infrastructure (such as childcare and the idea of 'real men' and 'good husbands' supporting stay at home wives) was slow too. Many women worked for 'pin money' and didn't pay NI, sometimes because employers preferred to keep everyone under the limit so they didn't have to contribute either, and sometimes because the pay was low and there was little or no childcare available for those without family help.

Also laws that forced employers to allow part-time workers and those on recurring contracts (eg term-time in schools, or renewable academic contracts) to join pension schemes came in much later, and most PT workers have always been female. Some entry level jobs were renamed to make them sound unisex, but in fact were reserved for one sex or the other, with the higher paid ones with prospects for boys, and the support ones for girls.

Many women paid a lower stamp (NI contribution) when they married, as it was assumed their husbands would provide when they retired, and he could make higher contributions to his own SERPs (the earnings related bit of the old state pension), which could have tax advantages for the couple. Fine if that happened as planned, but if the couple split, it was the woman left with a low pension, and when the SPA changed these women had far more to pay back than if they had paid the full amount in their own right. I'm not advocating that those who paid in less should get a full pension, but it's not as clear cut as it sounds.

Overthehillmum63 · 14/05/2026 20:42

I agree. I barely watch the news and I knew about it.

Lollygaggle · 14/05/2026 20:44

But in the 80’s, 90’s and early noughties the culture had changed considerably as had pensions etc . The ability to set up pensions , pay additional contributions was there and autonomy over financial decisions had been present for some time.

People like myself were not sent letters (slightly too young) but the massive amount of publicity , discussion etc made us aware that our retirement age was changing and even a few years makes a difference in making changes to saving for retirement. Due to raising family it was only after the children had finished education I could contribute to building pension up to “bridge the gap”.

My mother was from an earlier than WASPI generation but retired at 55 with a very generous workplace pension and a very generous payout from her mortgage endowment, even after starting with nothing after a divorce. She had left school at 14 and certainly would recognise much of what was written but for my generation and those born a few years before this , this chimes as the experience of a previous generation, not ours . We benefitted from the equal rights movement . It took years before men benefitted from that pension wise and even now , because of the disparity in life expectancy , men will still get less retirement than women . In some deprived areas men’s life expectancy is less than the retirement age .

darksideofthetoon · 14/05/2026 20:46

I can understand the frustration.

But the problem is that pensioners are the biggest recipients of benefits in the form of the state pension. Most are taking out way more than they ever put in. It’s a very uncomfortable truth.

This is unsustainable long term and a ticking time bomb that my generation will have to deal with. It’s a disaster for advanced economies. See France for example.

There are no easy solutions here and there is going to be much pain coming.

Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:07

sashh · 14/05/2026 09:52

Men also, legally, got higher earnings even when doing the same job.

Men generally got a better education too. I went to a girls' school so there were subjects I just didn't do.

I agree the pension age should be equal for both Men and women, but it should have only equalised for women born after the sex discrimination act.

What subjects? STEM?

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:10

ShyMaryEllen · 14/05/2026 20:19

Yes, it did. A woman who was sidelined into a 'female' job on low pay with little or no pension wasn't going to be able to make it to the top (or anywhere near it) in time to make a difference. Even when the law changed, culture often didn't, and infrastructure (such as childcare and the idea of 'real men' and 'good husbands' supporting stay at home wives) was slow too. Many women worked for 'pin money' and didn't pay NI, sometimes because employers preferred to keep everyone under the limit so they didn't have to contribute either, and sometimes because the pay was low and there was little or no childcare available for those without family help.

Also laws that forced employers to allow part-time workers and those on recurring contracts (eg term-time in schools, or renewable academic contracts) to join pension schemes came in much later, and most PT workers have always been female. Some entry level jobs were renamed to make them sound unisex, but in fact were reserved for one sex or the other, with the higher paid ones with prospects for boys, and the support ones for girls.

Many women paid a lower stamp (NI contribution) when they married, as it was assumed their husbands would provide when they retired, and he could make higher contributions to his own SERPs (the earnings related bit of the old state pension), which could have tax advantages for the couple. Fine if that happened as planned, but if the couple split, it was the woman left with a low pension, and when the SPA changed these women had far more to pay back than if they had paid the full amount in their own right. I'm not advocating that those who paid in less should get a full pension, but it's not as clear cut as it sounds.

These are strong points: I'm older Gen Z and I should know more of this history. My grandmother was born in the 30s and worked all her life in girls' schools with mostly female teachers, so was less held back in a sense, but obviously this wasn't the case for many other women including younger ones.
As you say, it's not clear-cut : but probably not financially possible to compensate....

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:17

DaisyDooley · 14/05/2026 16:40

The life expectancy of the ‘baby boomer generation’ is 79-83.
The life expectancy of the silent generation (1925-1945) is 74-80.
So, as I said, the baby boomer post ww2 generation are the first generation to leave their offspring with shorter life expectancy and poorer.

Thank you for the info : sorry, I remember now that what I read is that baby boomers DO have longer life expectancy than previous generations, but they also have poorer health

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/oct/07/baby-boomers-living-longer-but-are-in-worse-health-than-previous-generations

Baby boomers living longer but are in worse health than previous generations

Obesity, type 2 diabetes, cancer, heart disease and other diseases all affecting people at younger ages, say experts

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/oct/07/baby-boomers-living-longer-but-are-in-worse-health-than-previous-generations

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:19

Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:17

Thank you for the info : sorry, I remember now that what I read is that baby boomers DO have longer life expectancy than previous generations, but they also have poorer health

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2024/oct/07/baby-boomers-living-longer-but-are-in-worse-health-than-previous-generations

Also, from what I've read, Gen X, the children of the boomers, have a fairly similar life expectancy. But like the Boomers, they will have fewer healthy years, on average.

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:21

OonaStubbs · 14/05/2026 12:31

Once the state pension was introduced it should always been the policy that the age for it would rise as life expectancy increased.

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:22

BananaPeels · 14/05/2026 14:02

Exactly so really didn’t affect the WASPi women. They would pretty much been getting married after that act came in.

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:24

BananaPeels · 14/05/2026 13:34

those polices were rare in the boomer generation. My parents are born in late 1940’s/early 1950’s and my mum worked all the way through to retirement. She had terrible maternity benefits for sure (had to go back to some work when I was only a month old) but there would have been very few people who were getting married in the 1980s who had to leave work upon marriage and pregnancy.

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:28

StarlightRobot · 14/05/2026 12:48

They are so so selfish. I would like to see them protest on behalf of young people who have been saddled with the debt created by their generation, saddled with crazy student debts and who have no hope of getting a mortgage, due to no fault of their own.

Some boomers did make bad choices in the past but it's unfair to blame a whole generation. I don't want this thread to he blanket boomer bashing. Plenty of boomers are hardly personally responsible for younger generations having less than they did.

I do think boomers overall should have tried to keep themselves in better health but this is of course complex..

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MikeRafone · 14/05/2026 21:36

Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:24

This

You could still be legally sacked for getting pregnant until the 1990s and it was happening.

Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:44

Bunnyofhope · 14/05/2026 10:45

I'm a waspi woman.
I was also a test case for the Equal pay for work of Equal Value cases that were being brought by union's in the 90s. It was really stressful and a huge responsibility. I had to go before tribunals, submit loads of evidence and I won. That meant that every woman in my profession had to be paid as much as men doing the same job. We never received back pay but our salaries were increased by one third. So for the first 20 years of my working life I was underpaid.
I think many younger women forget what life was like for women only a few decades again. I am the reason you guys are paid properly!
I rose high in my career, could afford to retire early. I don't need the waspi money, though I would be more than happy to have it. It's not something I am campaigning for though, I've done my share of that. But fgs don't be arsey about the women who do need it. They weren't paid properly for years. And you stand on our shoulders. We achieved a lot for you!

Kudos to you for bringing that case : that's really shocking you were underpaid for so long, despite the law.

How common was this?

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:48

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 14/05/2026 10:08

Yes, completely agree. I thought the original campaign was actually focused on this smaller cohort but it quickly seemed to be taken over by the broader “back to 60” people.

I think they’d have been more successful if they’d just focused on the 1953/1954 women.

This

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:51

SuitcaseAndSecrets · 14/05/2026 11:35

I'm a Waspie..baby boomer born 1958.
I worked in a very large catalogue company ( remember Littlewoods/ Grattan/ empire Stores etc .. when you would order from the catalogue and pay weekly).. it had a huge warehouse and offices.. l was in quality control.. Long before minimum wage.. we had both male and female working the warehouse.. fork lift drivers etc.. but the men were paid more than the women for doing the exact same job. It was back breaking.
Pensions were never ever mentioned.. no one paid into one.. wasn't the company policy. We were told we would retire at 60..
People who think we are not owed anything.. think again.

That's really shocking. The equal pay act came into force in 1975..was there no way of getting the company to pay fairly?

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Jane379 · 14/05/2026 21:53

notateenietiny · 14/05/2026 11:21

Struggling to get their next iPhone before they start work at about 26? Some of us started working at 15 and 16 and weren't back patted through life but stood on our own two feet battling for equal pay and little things like being able to get a mortgage as a single woman. I once got turned down for a job because apparently I was likely to get pregnant because of my age. I'd love to see you Mumsnet tabbies squawking if that happened to you or your DC or whatever you call them.

Kudos to you for fighting for those things

However both were banned in 1975, most WASPIs would not have been affected by them.

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Laurmolonlabe · 14/05/2026 22:36

Most companies don't have to be open about what they pay- how would you know you weren't being paid less- if no one flauted the rules Birmingham Cuncil wouldn't have paid dinnerladies less than men of the same grade for 25 years (up until about 2017)
and the court case and disparity in pay cost them millions- it bankrupted the council, look it up.
Any law is only any good if it is policed- like the majority of laws this one isn't. In the 1980's I got paid less than two thirds what my male opposite number was paid- they just gave him a slightly different and it was perfectly legal- it will still go on to a lesser extent to this day- if you don't realise that you are being incredibly naive.

Tigerbalmshark · 14/05/2026 23:35

BernardButlersBra · 14/05/2026 16:34

🤣🤣🤣 50 years of contributions is hardly excessive or out of the ordinary though. I will probably end up doing 55 or 56 years of contributions. Before you ask (like you ask someone else) l have already done 30 years

Exactly. PMSL that poster thinks 50 years working is some kind of shocking number - EVERYONE entering the workplace now will be working for at least 50 years until retirement age. And that’s assuming that retirement age doesn’t get pushed back even further, or get abolished altogether.

I fully expect to still be paying for that poster’s pension well into my 70s, a good decade older than she was when she was able to put her feet up.

MrThorpeHazell · 15/05/2026 02:25

TheSmallAssassin · 14/05/2026 15:57

Well, I think doing what we do now, trying to keep the ratios of working time to retirement the same over generations is pretty fair, @MrThorpeHazell - just pointing out that it isn't true to say that the assumption is 15 years, it's that you spend around a third of your adult life in retirement.

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That is the assumption used by insurance companies and pension providers, not the State pension.

Cooshawn · 15/05/2026 02:59

MrThorpeHazell · 14/05/2026 00:56

A someone who worked in the pensions industry, yes I am totally fed up with their antics.

The change was publicly announced and from an actuarial perspective it doesn't go far enough. The State pension age should really be 70 or possibly even 72, given that the underlying assumption was it would usually be paid for 15 years.

Their demands are based on greed, nothing else.

Life expectancy is 81(ish) so why would it need to be 71 or 72 if it's based on 15 years?

Walkden · 15/05/2026 03:28

"No-one ever told me the goalposts had changed re. the retirement age, there were no adverts I ever saw and this idea that we all had letters ??"

I'm not sure anyone can justify billions in compensation to people that are bad at "adulting" or the "mental load" of retirement planning.

SouthernNights59 · 15/05/2026 04:29

SuitcaseAndSecrets · 14/05/2026 11:35

I'm a Waspie..baby boomer born 1958.
I worked in a very large catalogue company ( remember Littlewoods/ Grattan/ empire Stores etc .. when you would order from the catalogue and pay weekly).. it had a huge warehouse and offices.. l was in quality control.. Long before minimum wage.. we had both male and female working the warehouse.. fork lift drivers etc.. but the men were paid more than the women for doing the exact same job. It was back breaking.
Pensions were never ever mentioned.. no one paid into one.. wasn't the company policy. We were told we would retire at 60..
People who think we are not owed anything.. think again.

Why do you think you are "owed" anything? I'm not in the UK and was born in 1959. When I started work the superannuation age was 60, by the time I retired it was 65 - so what? I never took any notice of what anyone else was being paid, but of course men here also usually were paid more - so what? I only cared about what I was being paid, not anyone else, and no we didn't pay into private superannuation schemes when I was young either. However, unlike you, I have never felt I am "owed" anything.

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