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To be disturbed by this Jilly Cooper anecdote forcibly stripping clothes off a teacher at school?

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Jane379 · 08/05/2026 19:21

I was reading some articles on Jilly Cooper recently and was quite disturbed by this anecdote about her time at boarding school in the 1940s-50s: ' ‘We undressed Miss Harris, got her down to her petticoat, poor thing, and just jumped on her. She was wriggling on the floor like a fly. Poor woman! So we were punished and not allowed to have cake for tea that day!’

https://www.greatbritishlife.co.uk/magazines/essex/22628679.jilly-cooper-recalls-earliest-essex-memories/

  What? I suppose I find it really hard to believe since usually you read about awful treatment of students at schools like that, not the reverse. I suppose some schools must have been more lax then, assuming it's true. Poor woman, indeed...

Jilly Cooper recalls her earliest Essex memories

Hornchurch-born Jilly Cooper recalls her earliest Essex memories and reveals why she believes her books have become best sellers. Pamela Spencer…

https://www.greatbritishlife.co.uk/magazines/essex/22628679.jilly-cooper-recalls-earliest-essex-memories/

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Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 08/05/2026 22:16

“It was the best of times, the worst of times.”

Jane379 · 08/05/2026 22:25

Wordsmithery · 08/05/2026 22:07

It sounds like a Lord of the Flies moment with feral children gone mad. Sadly it doesn't seem that JC ever held herself accountable for what must have been utterly terrifying and humiliating for that poor teacher.

This..!

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Jane379 · 08/05/2026 22:29

Celandines · 08/05/2026 22:12

Not being allowed cake for one day is a pathetic punishment for it. Probably got away with it due to having rich parents the school didn't want to upset. You'd have got a lot worse punishment in a state school then and now for that.

Agree with this too.

I always thought Cooper came from an aristocratic family since those were the kinds of people she wrote about, but this doesn't seem to have been the case. Her family were apparently prominent figures in Yorkshire so maybe this had some influence in what sounds like a frankly hard to believe situation.

Unless it was a fantasy as pp suggested...I hope so. I can't imagine what a horrible experience it must have been if true ..

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Jane379 · 08/05/2026 22:43

In an interview from 8 years earlier, she sounds a bit more contrite :
'My three mates and I were terrible. It makes me blush to remember now that we de-bagged Miss Harris, our sweet junior housemistress. She was pretty but rather wet, and we took off her cardigan, her shirt, her tweed skirt and her shoes, and there she was, wriggling like a fly in her petticoat, when the housemistress caught us. I think our punishment was to be denied cake for a week.'

https://www.tes.com/magazine/archive/my-best-teacher-202

My best teacher

https://www.tes.com/magazine/archive/my-best-teacher-202

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Jane379 · 09/05/2026 13:53

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 08/05/2026 22:16

“It was the best of times, the worst of times.”

You can say that again! 40s surely not 'best' but 50s had better economy etc

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ohyesido · 09/05/2026 17:34

Her books are full of explicit sexual assaults designed to titillate so that is unsurprising that she saw such an attack as jolly japes

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