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Screaming children next door at 7.30 am

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HaveIBecomeVictorMeldrew · 07/05/2026 13:33

I don't want to sound like a middle aged whiner, but here goes.

I sometimes work late shifts, so don't get up till lunchtime. I eat late and I'm also a carer to two elderly relatives. My bedroom backs almost directly onto a neighbour's garden and the past week or so, the parents have been bringing their 6/7 year old outside and she just screams and screams. The other morning I could tell she was having a tantrum and they put her outside with the dog and ignored her for half an hour. The dog is a small yapper so I could hear yapping and screaming at 8.30 am on a Bank Holiday. My day off. She screamed blue murder and they ignored her.

This morning again. 7 am. Mother screaming and child screaming.. sounded like a game once I was awake, but I jumped out of bed thinking someone was being murdered, it was so loud. My window is closed. It went on for half an hour.

It's quite a tightly packed, newish estate so no escape. I have little choice but to sleep in that room. I resorted to using ear plugs, but I don't like doing that in case either of my elderly parents shouts for me for help.

Shouid I ask them to keep the child inside until later in the day or AIBU?

I think the child is neurodivergent, if that makes any difference, and probably struggling to express herself, but I think the parents are being incredibly inconsiderate. There are at least three elderly couples living behind them that we know personally. One has just bought his place and I notice it's up for sale again. I wondered if he couldn't bear the noise.

OP posts:
Thechaseison71 · 07/05/2026 21:26

chickenandapples · 07/05/2026 14:57

move off the council estate? never understand why anyone would live there by choice

Did she say she lives on a council estate

Ilikewinter · 07/05/2026 21:34

Sevenwondersofthewoo · 07/05/2026 18:39

So what if it’s new housing what the hell has that got to do with a child being left outside

your priorities are way off

I think that post from the OP was in reply to this comment : move off the council estate? never understand why anyone would live there by choicel

Womanofcustard · 21/06/2026 11:31

It’s also awful for the dog involved. Dogs hearing is much more sensitive than ours, the screaming will drove it nuts (unless it’s deaf). Good job it’s a small dog!

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