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AIBU to find his dogs in the bedroom a mood killer?

34 replies

Cootanee · 06/05/2026 15:29

Would this be a mood killer for you?
new boyfriend of a few months, really like him and we get on so well. Everytime we start having a bit of a kiss and decide to take it up to the bedroom he insists on bringing his 3 little dogs up as they don’t like being alone downstairs.
by the time he has carried them up (too little to climb up) the mood has totally left me and I don’t really like having them in the room for that stuff either.
he thinks I’m being unreasonable…maybe I am?

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Sunisgettinganewhaton · 07/05/2026 10:28

We have ddogs. Never allowed in the bedroom...
Dcat used to sleep on the bed many years ago when I was single...
He isn't damaged from now sleeping elsewhere imo.

BauhausOfEliott · 07/05/2026 10:30

I love dogs but I wouldn't want to shag in front of them.

Pedallleur · 07/05/2026 10:33

Velumental · 07/05/2026 09:52

3 dogs so small they need carried upstairs is weird enough for me.

did he wash his hands?

somanychristmaslights · 07/05/2026 10:34

Yep, total mood killer. I wouldn’t be impressed.

PaperbackWrighter · 07/05/2026 17:10

I love my dog, I think of her as my family and she sleeps on my bed most nights,

I would NEVER keep her in the room when I was having sex. Euuugh. I don't think he should bring his 3 dogs up - it's weird,

Ilovedogs1 · 07/05/2026 18:27

I work with dogs and have 3 of my own. I love my dogs BUT they aren't allowed upstairs at all.

Blondeshavemorefun · 07/05/2026 18:52

Cootanee · 07/05/2026 09:40

Wtf

What you haven’t heard of the tale of a man loving having his balls licked and thinking wow and then jumps out of bed as his gf walks back in after going to the loo reliesing that it wasn’t her

……..

Tableforjoan · 07/05/2026 19:04

Hard pass.

One I don’t want the dogs anywhere near the bedroom.

Two moment killer

Three dog hands on my naked body.

Nope nope nope.

Leave this man with his 🤢 fur babies 🤢

Whiteheadhouse · 07/05/2026 19:07

Absolutely. Let him off.

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