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Is it unreasonable for airlines not to provide wider seats for obese passengers?

531 replies

Kag13 · 04/05/2026 21:05

I have today spent a four and a half hour Jet2 flight seated next to a young man who was at least 20 stone, probably larger. I could not use the left hand armrest as his body (fat) buldged over it and into my personal space (which on a budget airline is not that large) and his leg was resting over part of my seat.
Luckily I am only 5’2” and not that big but what would happen if someone of the same size was seated next to him?
it made for a very uncomfortable flight for me. Am I being unreasonable to think this is not right?

OP posts:
1980isitjustme · 05/05/2026 08:05

AffIt · 04/05/2026 21:18

Why isn't there a 'seat checker' in the same way there's a bag checker for most economy airlines?

If you don't fit the seat checker, then you're allocated an additional seat and charged accordingly. Seems fair?

I did get a flight once where the captain had debated whether to allow two passengers to fly as they were so large. They let them and me and my friend ended up next to one of them for a 10 hour flight. It was horrendous. The passenger couldn’t lower her table at all, and was taking up over half of the next seat. The air stewards ended up letting us sit on jump seats during the flight but that was far from ideal.

There were some rows with just two seats together - I never understood why they didn’t just make them sit together in a pair of seats rather than across the aisle from each other encroaching on others, although it’s probably because it just wouldn’t have been physically possible.

Weeellokthen · 05/05/2026 08:08

Oh shit, i fear my 6"4 , 19st ds would be priced out of flying 😮

user1494050295 · 05/05/2026 08:09

They do. You just booked business or first

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 08:09

LadyVioletBridgerton · 05/05/2026 08:00

Extra wide economy is premium economy, isn’t it? We flew on a BA Boeing 777 in January in PE and it was in a 2-4–2 configuration. The 2 section took up less room than a full 3 section on a Ryanair flight but the seats were still bigger.

Edited

Is Premium Economy not standard seats but with more leg room, rather than width?

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 08:10

1980isitjustme · 05/05/2026 08:05

I did get a flight once where the captain had debated whether to allow two passengers to fly as they were so large. They let them and me and my friend ended up next to one of them for a 10 hour flight. It was horrendous. The passenger couldn’t lower her table at all, and was taking up over half of the next seat. The air stewards ended up letting us sit on jump seats during the flight but that was far from ideal.

There were some rows with just two seats together - I never understood why they didn’t just make them sit together in a pair of seats rather than across the aisle from each other encroaching on others, although it’s probably because it just wouldn’t have been physically possible.

Balance of the plane maybe?

Actually that might be why they don't offer extra wide seats.

notimagain · 05/05/2026 08:15

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 08:10

Balance of the plane maybe?

Actually that might be why they don't offer extra wide seats.

Edited

A couple of very big pax won't be an issue on an average airliner when it comes to weight/balance.

There might however be ? about other safety issues.

popdepop · 05/05/2026 08:15

I had this last year. A very obese couple who had booked aisle seats next to each other, guessing because at least they’d have extra room in the aisle. It was awful. One of his legs was in the aisle and the air hostess couldn’t get the trolly past. The other was in my space. He spilled over the top of the arm rest and contact with me, both his leg and arm. He fell asleep snorting away, so loudly people were turning around to look. It was an awful 5 hour flight. The people the other side of me had the same.

likelysuspect · 05/05/2026 08:19

chatgptmeup · 04/05/2026 21:57

I'm kind of in the mentality of if you need a seatbelt extender you should probably be buying two seats. It's really inconsiderate to the person next to you. The next seat person is paying for their personal space which they then don't get.

The problem with using a seat belt extender as a measure of sorts, is that very few people actually need them

I was 20 stone and didnt need one. I always booked the large seats but the large seats are in the emergency exit aisle which means if you do need a belt extender, you're not allowed to sit there, so each flight I was wracked with worry that for some reason I might get a short belt and need an extender but never did.

StormGazing · 05/05/2026 08:19

ObliviousCoalmine · 04/05/2026 21:11

You’re being unreasonable in your tone and wording, for a start.

Airlines have made seats smaller and smaller to get more people in, people are getting bigger, for a multitude of reasons (very few people are bigger because they chose that option).

You’re not going to get airlines making seats bigger, and you’re not going to get people booking two seats while money is tricker, so it’s a stalemate.

We all have to weigh up different social scenarios and whether we partake in them based on our various tolerance levels for things, if this is something that you can’t tolerate, then you can make that choice; just as others choose not to travel on the tube/go to big concerts etc based on how other humans occupy those spaces.

If you just came for a “fat people are gross” whinge, then crack on, but at least be upfront about it.

Well said! Seats on planes are all about profit, look at old airline pictures, there was plenty of space to actually enjoy travel … I flew a few years ago with a meniscus tear in my knee and it was absolutely unbearably painful as no room to stretch my leg

LadyVioletBridgerton · 05/05/2026 08:19

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 08:09

Is Premium Economy not standard seats but with more leg room, rather than width?

They’re very slightly wider, admittedly not massively. The leg room really helps.

likelysuspect · 05/05/2026 08:21

StormGazing · 05/05/2026 08:19

Well said! Seats on planes are all about profit, look at old airline pictures, there was plenty of space to actually enjoy travel … I flew a few years ago with a meniscus tear in my knee and it was absolutely unbearably painful as no room to stretch my leg

Is this a serious post?

Of course there was plenty of space because people were smaller

CaptainMyCaptain · 05/05/2026 08:22

PolkaDotPorridge · 04/05/2026 21:07

That sounds very uncomfortable for you, if they’re that big then they should be charged for two seats!

This. The airline shouldn't have to provide larger seats which would not be used on flights where there is no obese person.

Thechaseison71 · 05/05/2026 08:24

bumptybum · 04/05/2026 23:26

The person doesn’t sit in the middle of the two seats. They just sit in one seat but slightly to one side, nearer the empty seat and the second seat takes the overspill

Depends how large they are doesnt it? If you are too big for one seat then the gap in the middle is still under your bum but maybe just to the side instead.

If you buy 2 seats then your bottom ( or shoulders) wont be on one side totally

Thechaseison71 · 05/05/2026 08:25

CaptainMyCaptain · 05/05/2026 08:22

This. The airline shouldn't have to provide larger seats which would not be used on flights where there is no obese person.

People would buy them for comfort.

Chersfrozenface · 05/05/2026 08:30

likelysuspect · 05/05/2026 08:21

Is this a serious post?

Of course there was plenty of space because people were smaller

Absolutely this.

50 years ago I was a size 14 - 36 inch bust, 28 inch waist, and 38 inch hip, look at vintage sewing patterns. And that was considered curvy.

tnorfotkcab · 05/05/2026 08:32

CaptainMyCaptain · 05/05/2026 08:22

This. The airline shouldn't have to provide larger seats which would not be used on flights where there is no obese person.

They might be used by people who want more space?

tnorfotkcab · 05/05/2026 08:35

likelysuspect · 05/05/2026 08:21

Is this a serious post?

Of course there was plenty of space because people were smaller

Seats were wider too though. So it's a double whammy of narrower seats and wider people....

https://www.popsci.com/science/why-are-airline-seats-so-small/

Why are airline seats so small? It all started in 1978.

Seats and legroom have shrunk over the years as Americans have gotten larger. Experts warn that could be a recipe for a disaster.

https://www.popsci.com/science/why-are-airline-seats-so-small/

Imdunfer · 05/05/2026 08:40

notimagain · 05/05/2026 07:25

I complained to BA at Glasgow and they thanked me and said they held a register of very fat people and the next time he booked a flight he would be required to book two seats.

Ummm.....the register is either a new thing or you have been fobbed off......

They certainly do (or certainly did) have a system which allows booking of the adjacent seat as a "comfort" seat at the time of initial ticket purchase.

Edited

I'm quite prepared to accept that she told me that to make me feel better, but she did say it. 30+ years ago.

She also said they had particular problems with Robbie Coltrane.

Imdunfer · 05/05/2026 08:44

StormGazing · 05/05/2026 08:19

Well said! Seats on planes are all about profit, look at old airline pictures, there was plenty of space to actually enjoy travel … I flew a few years ago with a meniscus tear in my knee and it was absolutely unbearably painful as no room to stretch my leg

Oh, bless, you're talking about the days when the plebs spent their holidays on Brighton beach building sandcastles in the rain and only people with money could afford to fly.

I remember them well.

BillieWiper · 05/05/2026 08:47

Well they could weigh you along with your luggage and you pay per kg. Or they could offer bigger seats at a higher cost but they can't police the size of the person choosing to buy them.

Legsahoy · 05/05/2026 08:50

Sympathies OP. That sounds entirely miserable.

I have an issue with train seats when I commute to work. They’ve gotten progressively smaller over the past few decades, whilst people have gotten larger!

I refuse to angle/contort/hurt myself to accommodate larger passengers, so have had plenty of journeys with my back firmly against my seat, even if it means the arms/legs of the person spilling into my space squished against mine 😮‍💨 Too many times of twisting myself awkwardly and then getting a neck/back strain.

Agree that airlines should charge per weight of passenger.

Twilightstarbright · 05/05/2026 08:54

I had a Ryanair flight where I was in the window seat and the middle and aisle seats had two obese passengers in them so I was squashed in half my seat against the window. I asked the cabin crew if I could move as I felt claustrophobic, she took one look at the row and said yes and moved me. Those people needed three seats between them.

I’m small framed but DH is average and his shoulders spill into my seat (and DS’ seat) but I don’t mind that. It bothers me a lot when it’s a stranger so if I’m not flying with family I pay to choose an aisle seat so I have some space and the ability to get up easily.

I would support a luggage plus weight all in one package as I do find it irritating when I’m reprimanded for being 1kg over on my hand luggage but other passengers are easily 20kg more than me. I’ve worn the extra clothes before to pass their arbitrary test then back in the case they go!

SWnewstart · 05/05/2026 08:54

I've had the "squashed up next to window, legs pressed against mine, can't use armrest" flights before and have a (probably daft) question. If obese individual purchased 2 seats, how would that work for actually sitting? You wouldn't be able to sit comfortably on the middle bit of 2 seats - even with armrest up. So would that mean still being wedged into the one seat but spilling over into the spare seat purchased next to you?

SpottyAlpaca · 05/05/2026 08:58

Yes, absolutely.

Because obesity is a lifestyle choice, not a disease. And I say that as someone who was clinically obese for many years but is now a healthy weight (without the use of drugs).

Fatties have two options if they are struggling to fit into standard aircraft seats : 1, Pay for an upgrade. 2, Lose weight by accepting responsibility for what they choose to put in their mouths.

wecangoupupup · 05/05/2026 08:58

SWnewstart · 05/05/2026 08:54

I've had the "squashed up next to window, legs pressed against mine, can't use armrest" flights before and have a (probably daft) question. If obese individual purchased 2 seats, how would that work for actually sitting? You wouldn't be able to sit comfortably on the middle bit of 2 seats - even with armrest up. So would that mean still being wedged into the one seat but spilling over into the spare seat purchased next to you?

Presumably you just put the arm rest up and sit comfortably.

But I suspect a lot of these “I’m so squashed” post are shit and it’s just a leg touching yourself