AIBU to tell my partner to get a taxi home?

[Lill1e]

Ladies why is it when men go out they forget that they have to come home 🤦‍♀️ my OH is out since 12 today at an occasion and I told him I’d pick him up in a few hours (I came home at 12) and I’m still waiting on the call to pick him up!! Texted him to know if he had a time in mind and he left me on read 😳🤨 I want to relax with a glass of wine and watch tv not be sitting here waiting on him! I’m so mad. Think I’ll just tell him to get a taxi at this stage right??

They arranged to pick him up a few hours after they dropped him at 12 - it was 7.30 and he waant responding

I hope that you are able to relax and enjoy your wine.

If he didn't reply and read the message, he can get fucked 😂 That's the height of ignorance

Is he home yet?

We teach people how to treat us, and you have somehow given him the message that you will tolerate him being rude and disrespectful of you and your time.

Well done for opening the wine.
Perhaps have a look at how much you let slide.

They get worse not better if you don't have firm boundaries.

This.

Surely he would have given you an indication as to when the event finished and what time he needed picking up? Or you could just have rung him and asked.

I wonder what time he gets back

We say if not ready to come by a time then it's a taxi.

How did this play out in the end @Lill1e ?

Did he ever respond, even after you opened the wine? Was he apologetic or entitled enough to be miffed that his lift wasn’t an open ended offer?