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How would you feel about being displayed in a museum?

49 replies

Hotandpointy · 03/05/2026 13:22

I visited a museum the other day and was reading about what archaeologists learned from examining a Viking skeleton, very interesting. It made me think about something I read recently claiming that having skeletons or mummies on display shouldn’t be allowed because it’s “disrespectful” and “they didn’t consent”.
Personally, I’m fine with it, I quite like the idea of people in a thousand years or so being fascinated to look at my bones, it’s not like I’ll need them!
Just curious to get other opinions.

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Credittocress · 03/05/2026 14:28

I think it’s all about respecting different people’s beliefs and cultures. Presumably you don’t mind as an atheist, because you see that your body has no use post death. Whereas someone else might wish to be buried or cremated or other according to their beliefs of the afterlife and what you need to do to be at peace post death. The question is when does someone’s belief cease to matter?

We wouldn’t dream of saying to someone now, you don’t need to be buried in a consecrated church yard- we see that as their choice. 5 years after the event does their choice not matter? 10 years? 100 years?

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 03/05/2026 14:29

I’d prefer it to all of the alternatives

JustGiveMeReason · 03/05/2026 15:06

DuringDinnerMints · 03/05/2026 13:28

I think when the person buried was done so in such a way as to align with religious beliefs, it's pretty disrespectful and arrogant to go against those wishes. I think we should learn what we can from the remains and then put them back.

If you think it should remain sacred 1000 or more years later, then it seems odd you are happy we can "learn what we can from the remains and then put them back".

There are, of course bodies that weren't buried in a religious ceremony, but covered by lava and ash for example.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 03/05/2026 15:12

I'd like my bones to go to an ossuary, but don't know if anyone's making one these days.

randomchap · 03/05/2026 15:50

KeyLimeCake · 03/05/2026 14:06

Bog bodies tend to have met very violent ends, so I wouldn't want to end up as a usual one for that reason.

Whether you could get yourself quietly into a bog and be dug up hundreds of years later is an interesting thought.

I don't think I'd like it - they can reveal all kinds of things about you. "Her hair was in terrible condition" "Her last meal was a bag of chips and a family size aero". I'd rather that died with me.

I'd not thought of that.

You've put me right off. I don't fancy being studied in such detail

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 03/05/2026 15:54

As long as I'm dead, I don't mind.

Indianajet · 03/05/2026 15:57

I am going to be cremated so needn't worry about it. I do think once a body has been laid to rest they should be undisturbed.

RaininSummer · 03/05/2026 16:06

This is one reason I want to be cremated.

HippopotumArse · 03/05/2026 16:06

I remember visiting the Bodyworlds exhibition in London when it first opened in 2002 - absolutely fascinating! Don’t think I’d mind at all, as long as not easily recognisable.

MermaidsSideEye · 03/05/2026 16:13

I think you’re completely ignoring the colonial element of this — dig up/acquire some ‘othered’ remains from some other part of the world and bring home your spoils for your private collection or to donate to a museum, like the shrunken heads in the Pitt Rivers (no longer on display)?

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-oxfordshire-54121151

It’s not only about bodily autonomy of people’s feelings, it’s distastefully treating human remains like colonial souvenirs.

Or, in some cases, raw material for eugenic theories about ‘savage’ or ‘inferior races’.

https://www.maynoothuniversity.ie/research/spotlight-research/head-hunter-who-measured-irishmens-skulls

Skull being removed

Shrunken heads removed from Pitt Rivers Museum display

The Pitt Rivers Museum says audience research suggests the heads reiterate cultural stereotypes.

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-oxfordshire-54121151

8TinyToeBeans · 03/05/2026 16:22

I’d be quite happy to be in a museum. I’ve got no use for my body once I’m dead so have at it. The only thing I find sad is the specimens in anatomy museums where you know these weren’t willing specimens but that’s part of anatomy’s gruesome past and it’s interesting to learn from it.

Boomer55 · 03/05/2026 16:24

Gettingbysomehow · 03/05/2026 13:27

I wont care. Ill be dead. People should care more about the living than the dead.

This. Ridiculous worrying about the dead. 🙄

helpfulperson · 03/05/2026 16:26

MermaidsSideEye · 03/05/2026 16:13

I think you’re completely ignoring the colonial element of this — dig up/acquire some ‘othered’ remains from some other part of the world and bring home your spoils for your private collection or to donate to a museum, like the shrunken heads in the Pitt Rivers (no longer on display)?

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-oxfordshire-54121151

It’s not only about bodily autonomy of people’s feelings, it’s distastefully treating human remains like colonial souvenirs.

Or, in some cases, raw material for eugenic theories about ‘savage’ or ‘inferior races’.

https://www.maynoothuniversity.ie/research/spotlight-research/head-hunter-who-measured-irishmens-skulls

I think that is different, albeit important, conversation and much broader than bodies.

TomatoSandwiches · 03/05/2026 16:29

I plan to be cremated and scattered in the North sea, however, I wouldn't be bothered if for some reason my body was used for educational purposes.

MermaidsSideEye · 03/05/2026 16:46

helpfulperson · 03/05/2026 16:26

I think that is different, albeit important, conversation and much broader than bodies.

But the OP referenced human remains displayed in museums.

Glendaruel · 03/05/2026 16:51

There was an interview with Tony Robinson the other day and he commented that death and how we deal with bodies have changed over the years.

Personally I think it depends on how its done. I once went to museum that had a mummy that was a child, they had put colouring sheets next to it and found it all abit weird.

FlyingUnicornWings · 03/05/2026 16:52

user2848502016 · 03/05/2026 13:42

I wouldn’t mind either, I am quite keen on the idea of donating my body to science. Someone may as well use it for something when I don’t need it any more!

Yes me too! I think if my kids aren’t too freaked out by the idea (they’ll be grieving, I’ll be gone so their feelings trump mine), then I’d 100% donate my body to medical science/research.

But as for the original question? Yeah, I’d love that. Being immortalised in a museum? My ego is asking how I actually make this happen? 😂

AfternoonVanessa · 03/05/2026 17:20

I admire beautiful Egyptian art but I believe it to be wrong to exhibit mummies unwrapped. King Tut is back in his grave and rightly so.
I've no desire to look at his Mum, aunt or dad in the new Cairo museum. Sadly they can't return the grave goods as they'd get stolen. I wouldn't go into a pyramid either but then I don't like basements. I'm also superstitious.
They can have every donation from me and then I'm off to my jar.

CoffeeCantata · 03/05/2026 17:20

I'm fine with it too. I'd be quite cheered up to think that I'd be nice and warm in a museum case with lots of interested people coming to look at me!

Better than the cold, cold clay and oblivion.

MermaidsSideEye · 03/05/2026 17:25

FlyingUnicornWings · 03/05/2026 16:52

Yes me too! I think if my kids aren’t too freaked out by the idea (they’ll be grieving, I’ll be gone so their feelings trump mine), then I’d 100% donate my body to medical science/research.

But as for the original question? Yeah, I’d love that. Being immortalised in a museum? My ego is asking how I actually make this happen? 😂

That’s a completely different thing. Your body is being used to teach medical/ dental students, and at the end of the year, it’s handed back to your family for burial/cremation. It’s not kept on public display.

Smithstreet · 03/05/2026 17:35

I have many discussions about this. I thought it was particularly interesting that when Richard III was found he got a full royal burial, not displayed in a museum. But many Mummies and other bodies are displayed for all to see. Why is the apparent religion/status/burial practice of Richard III so much more important . Donating yourself fine, everyone else, leave them where they are. Perhaps record and catalogue for history but don't put them in a box.

UltimateSloth · 03/05/2026 17:43

I'm actively aiming for it. I'm going to be buried and my kids are going to put loads of interesting grave goods in with me to puzzle future archiologists.

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 03/05/2026 18:24

Unfortunately it's really hard to arrange donating your body for research. Most people who want it (I'm one) won't get their wish. The logistics are complex and most corpses aren't wanted.

BooksAndHooks · 03/05/2026 18:41

I would prefer this. I didn’t look into donating for bodyworks.

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