hiii not a mum but got told this was a good place for advice 🥲
am i wrong to be pissed off at my friends for bringing their bfs into everything. bc today we were js talking and then my friend was like “do you guys wanna come london w me at some point?” so obviously we’re both like yeah and the other one goes “oh we could do a double date with our bfs” they know damn well i don’t have one and never have so i feel like crap abt it. then the second agrees forgetting i’m literally right there it rlly pissed me off bc my other friend always does it she got pissed at me bc i said i didn’t want her bf coming to a concert when id planned it already and she suddenly decided she “didn’t feel safe” and now they constantly go on and on “i miss my man” and it gets to the point where i just don’t care. you chose to do long distance…
before we met the other friend she did this as well and i was on abt going london for my bday and she was like “oh can _ come” i was js like yeah why not but now it’s annoyed me bc she thinks i invited him once now he must come to everything bare in mind he lives no where near here. it’s expensive for him to even get here and then before we went london she was like “hey is there any chance you ca pay for his ticket and i pay you back” i said no to that bc um no he can pay for himself like everyone else…
I try and make it clear i don’t want to listen to stuff about their bfs bc they go on for AGES. It’s not like i can just go with someone else at these are the people i trust the most yet they seem to be to absorbed in their relationships to talk to me and their other friends.
Am i overreacting here?