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AIBU to think carers should not be used as cleaners?

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Tonyritundo · 30/04/2026 08:53

I’ve recently seen in the care community that people are hiring carers and using them as cleaners as it’s cheaper than hiring a cleaner. They are being expected to go beyond their normal care duties and do heavy cleaning at least twice a week. This goes beyond normal care duties.

Has anyone else noticed this?

OP posts:
Catza · 30/04/2026 23:07

BiteSizedLife · 30/04/2026 12:55

When mum came out of hospital she was allowed 8 weeks of carers (2x daily) on the NHS.

All they were allowed to do was:

  • help her clean herself
  • empty bedpans/commodes etc
  • put food in a microwave
  • make a flask of tea
  • they might have changed the bedsheets if asked...

Nothing else. They were not allowed to put a plate in the dishwasher, transfer washing from washer to dryer, or even twiddle a fork under the tap.

It's all a bit mystic tbh - some people have experiences like mum and yet you hear of others like the OP!

I mean, I have never been told I am not allowed to do something when I was a carer. I had to follow a care plan but nobody would fire me for rinsing a fork. The problem is that funded care is usually alloted minimum time. If I only have 15 minutes in client's home, I may not be able to do much except to help them toilet, make a cup of tea and chuck a microwave meal at them as I dash out of the door, inevitably late for my next appointment.
Self-funded care is different. I'm happy to cook a meal from scratch and fold laundry when the customer pays for an hour of my time.
I once had a client whose son explicitly told me I am not to touch, move or clean anything, though.

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