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to think “food noise” is becoming one of those phrases people hide behind rather than actually dealing with their eating habits?

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foodywoody · Yesterday 16:34

I keep hearing people say they have “food noise” and that’s why they’re constantly thinking about food or snacking, but isn’t that just hunger, boredom, habit, or emotional eating dressed up in a nicer label? I’m not saying it’s not real for some people, especially where there are medical issues involved, but the way it’s thrown around now makes it sound like no one has any control over it at all.

It just feels like another way to remove any personal responsibility. Not everything needs a label. Sometimes it’s just about eating properly and getting enough protein and actually addressing emotional eating.

OP posts:
Malasana · Today 07:44

Aluna · Today 07:35

I understand you want it to be different. In that case you don’t have to take responsibility for being an addict. But that’s rather OP’s point.

If a person thought about alcohol all day and drank a lot they would just be regarded as an alcoholic. They could try to blame “alcohol noise” but that doesn’t really change anything.

You really are deliberately trying to goad aren’t you?
Can you just accept that you are viewing this from a position of no experience? Probably not but I’ll leave you to it because I’ve shared my view from the stance of experiencing it and you dismiss it. You don’t deserve more of my time.

formerannarina · Today 07:50

Aluna · Today 07:21

@formerannarina Anorexics suffer horrendous food noise. It’s a constant fight not to eat more than you have allowed yourself that day.

That’s not food noise, that’s hunger. Deep fundamental hunger as you were starving yourself.

But I agree that many overweight people may have EDs - whether binge eating disorder or straight food addiction.

Edited

Yes, I was eextremely hungry at that particular point but I still had food mouse even when I ate normally and was a normal weight. Still do now. Not getting fat matters more than giving in to my burning need to eat whatever it is. most of the time.

SouthernNights59 · Today 07:52

dizzydizzydizzy · Yesterday 16:47

Not everyone has the ability to ‘take responsibility”. To do that effectively, you need to be educated and have money. So, exDP who is university educated and has plenty of cash to splash, probably should take more responsibility for his obesity. My neighbour who left school
at 16 and has a minimum wage job is doing her best, but that is unfortunately not good enough because she now has high cholesterol and prediabetes.

Seriously?? I started full time work three weeks after my 16th birthday and have always worked in low wage jobs. I didn't need to be "educated" or have money to know what a healthy diet is.

Aluna · Today 07:52

Malasana · Today 07:44

You really are deliberately trying to goad aren’t you?
Can you just accept that you are viewing this from a position of no experience? Probably not but I’ll leave you to it because I’ve shared my view from the stance of experiencing it and you dismiss it. You don’t deserve more of my time.

I’m just disagreeing with you, this is a forum.

How do you know what experience anyone has? I’d be surprised if anyone has never experienced “food noise” of some kind.

Binus · Today 08:01

Pinnacles · Yesterday 21:32

Afraid I can't see most of that article as it's for members. Looks like it's about the policies that have led them to have low rates? Those policies exist, but their obesity rates are nonetheless rising, not being reversed. It's about halfway down the page below under 'risk factors'.

https://data.who.int/countries/392

Sorry it's quite annoyingly presented, couldn't find the WHO stats elsewhere.

Japan

Health data overview for Japan, containing the latest population, life expectancy and mortality data from WHO.

https://data.who.int/countries/392

Aluna · Today 08:08

formerannarina · Today 07:50

Yes, I was eextremely hungry at that particular point but I still had food mouse even when I ate normally and was a normal weight. Still do now. Not getting fat matters more than giving in to my burning need to eat whatever it is. most of the time.

I do get that. A close friend of mine had anorexia and she later flipped to non-purging bulimia. But long periods of starvation physically alter the brain (and in fact she ended up with a hypothalamus disorder). So it’s not surprising if the brain later compensates by giving urgent cues to eat. It doesn’t know that you’re not going back into starvation.

But I think that’s slightly different from a general tendency to comfort/over-eat.

I also agree that people may have varying degrees of what could be called “food noise” but they simply ignore it.

The idea on here seems to be that slim people never experience fancying more cake or too much ice cream. They do, they take a different approach and decide against it.

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:11

Imnotsobadreallyami · Today 02:08

Could it be that slim people don’t want to accept that it could genuinely be more difficult for some people to restrict their intake because of food noise?
Up to now, slim people have been able to feel superior because they think they have more willpower than us fatties but if they accept that food noise is.a thing for some people then they won’t be able to be so smug?

Definitely.

formerannarina · Today 08:12

Please excuse the typos! I didn’t have a food mouse 😂

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:16

Hobbittyhobbs · Yesterday 20:17

Lack of willpower, greed, things like that. We understand it better so we name it more accurately (save for a large proportion of society who derive joy or self-esteem from feeling morally superior to fat people and so claim food noise doesn’t exist and it’s just an excuse for weak willed fatties not to face up to our shortcomings).

👏🏻 well said

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:19

Imnotsobadreallyami · Today 02:45

Exactly. I don’t drink alcohol but that doesn’t mean that I have more willpower than an alcoholic, I just don’t have any desire to drink.

I think this explains it clearly. It's a shame that the smug snugging STILL will deny it exists & STILL don't understand that the difference is that you can't just abstain from all food, it's like an alcoholic having to have a whiskey on the rocks twice a day.

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:42

thehaplessgardener · Today 02:56

Food noise comes from processed foods, junk foods, UPFs - foods specifically designed to stimulate desire, and foods like fat and sugar in combination known to trigger cravings.

Nobody suffers from food noise when they eat a whole-food plant-based diet and avoid all UPFs.

Edited

& that is NOT true.

I am vegetarian, I generally (like 360/365 days of the year) eat a low carb diet, I don't eat junk food & I don't eat UPFs

No I'm not a saint, I'm a vegetarian diabetic who controls their HbA1c through diet & exercise.

its fucking tedious & the food noise is like a sodding brass band in my head.

The people who don't get it, don't understand & should just be fucking grateful instead of being smug & preachy.

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:46

HelmholtzWatson · Today 05:50

"Junk food noise" would be a more appropriate label...

No it wouldn't.

i eat a vegetarian low carb diet, with no 'junk' no UPF's.

the brass band of food noise plays on.

Sorry I don't fit your image of chip stuffing & coke guzzling lazy cow.

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:51

Malasana · Today 07:13

So many people in this thread denying that food noise is a thing - because they haven’t experienced it.

Whatever those of us who experience it choose to call it, can you not just accept that there is this thing that we find problematic and intrusive (and exhausting)?

Alternatively you can continue to judge us from your very lucky position of never having to battle with and continue with your lazy, mean and uninformed posts about how we are undisciplined, greedy lard arses. That would say more about you than us though.

👏🏻👍🏻❤️

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:55

Malasana · Today 07:26

She says it’s a way to avoid personal responsibility.
It absolutely is not.
People that are lucky enough not to experience it would do well to keep their ill informed opinions to themselves.
I can assure you it’s different to emotional eating, boredom eating or whatever else she says we’re trying to excuse.
Is it not enough that a person who experiences it states what their experience is or will you all just continue to tell us what we experience is a fabrication?
Please do not try to tell people what they feel and experience is not valid. It makes you look very foolish.

Again well said 👏🏻🌷 but I doubt those that it applies to will bother to even try to understand. Being smug & judgemental is so much easier & much more comfortable for them.

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:56

Aluna · Today 07:35

I understand you want it to be different. In that case you don’t have to take responsibility for being an addict. But that’s rather OP’s point.

If a person thought about alcohol all day and drank a lot they would just be regarded as an alcoholic. They could try to blame “alcohol noise” but that doesn’t really change anything.

🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️

Binus · Today 08:57

Honestly, there's a lot to be said for just laughing at Dunning Kruger behaviour.

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:58

Malasana · Today 07:44

You really are deliberately trying to goad aren’t you?
Can you just accept that you are viewing this from a position of no experience? Probably not but I’ll leave you to it because I’ve shared my view from the stance of experiencing it and you dismiss it. You don’t deserve more of my time.

👍🏻🤗

I've run out of words tgat wont get me banned & it's not quite 9am.

Hope you have a goid day 🤗

Malasana · Today 08:59

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:46

No it wouldn't.

i eat a vegetarian low carb diet, with no 'junk' no UPF's.

the brass band of food noise plays on.

Sorry I don't fit your image of chip stuffing & coke guzzling lazy cow.

Don’t be disappointing them with the truth.

They’d far rather see us as lazy and greedy and then they can throw around all the words they love like wolfing down, guzzling, stuffing our faces, piling plates high.

The sad reality is that it’s exhausting, near constant and really intrusive. I can be perfectly satisfied from a meal (yes I do the balanced protein and fibre thing) no thoughts or boredom, sadness or any other emotion and all of a sudden this screechy voice in my ear is like ooooh I bet you want food right now, what’s in the cupboard, should you go to the shop, what about if you just ate a little bit…… on it goes.

Yet here we are being judged by people who have never experienced this. The lack of any sort of compassion is just so awful.

sunflowersandsunsets · Today 08:59

thehaplessgardener · Today 02:56

Food noise comes from processed foods, junk foods, UPFs - foods specifically designed to stimulate desire, and foods like fat and sugar in combination known to trigger cravings.

Nobody suffers from food noise when they eat a whole-food plant-based diet and avoid all UPFs.

Edited

As someone who has always struggled with food, I totally agree with this. UPF’s and processed foods are designed to be addictive - of course people are going to get cravings and struggle when they try and give them up.

henlake7 · Today 09:02

Aluna · Today 08:08

I do get that. A close friend of mine had anorexia and she later flipped to non-purging bulimia. But long periods of starvation physically alter the brain (and in fact she ended up with a hypothalamus disorder). So it’s not surprising if the brain later compensates by giving urgent cues to eat. It doesn’t know that you’re not going back into starvation.

But I think that’s slightly different from a general tendency to comfort/over-eat.

I also agree that people may have varying degrees of what could be called “food noise” but they simply ignore it.

The idea on here seems to be that slim people never experience fancying more cake or too much ice cream. They do, they take a different approach and decide against it.

Edited

Not the same at all. A slim person just fancying abit of cake isnt even close to food noise.
Thanks to PMDD most of my life my hormones caused food noise. Then depending where I was in my cycle it would just 'switch off' and I wouldnt even recognise myself when Id been obsessed with food, it was like a compulsion to want to eat. The other side of me could just 'fancy' abit of cake and think "maybe later".
Once perimenopause hit the food noise practically disappeared and I lost 7 stone!
Its why weight loss injections work, it lets you think about food rationally.
It may not be a medical condition but it can be affected by body chemistry, emotions and psychology.

To me its real in the way a severe phobia is real. It may not seem logical to others but it can seriously affect the quality of someones life.

AnotherName2025 · Today 09:06

Binus · Today 08:57

Honestly, there's a lot to be said for just laughing at Dunning Kruger behaviour.

You are so right.

MN's approach of leaving goady nonsense threads standing so people can be educated is frustrating, especially when you can't call them out on it, just 'educate' them.

AnotherName2025 · Today 09:08

Malasana · Today 08:59

Don’t be disappointing them with the truth.

They’d far rather see us as lazy and greedy and then they can throw around all the words they love like wolfing down, guzzling, stuffing our faces, piling plates high.

The sad reality is that it’s exhausting, near constant and really intrusive. I can be perfectly satisfied from a meal (yes I do the balanced protein and fibre thing) no thoughts or boredom, sadness or any other emotion and all of a sudden this screechy voice in my ear is like ooooh I bet you want food right now, what’s in the cupboard, should you go to the shop, what about if you just ate a little bit…… on it goes.

Yet here we are being judged by people who have never experienced this. The lack of any sort of compassion is just so awful.

Absolutely spot on!

whatifs1 · Today 09:21

I wouldn’t bother to even try to explain your experiences on here. It’s just another goady fat shaming thread and the creator won’t be interested in hearing your experience of food noise.

for some strange reason it feels as if people want other people to stay fat, who knows why? Maybe makes them feel better about themselves? Maybe former fat people losing weight means they might have to make an effort? I have no idea. I just find it very hypocritical how people go on and on about the obesity crisis and the burden on the NHS and then go on to shame/belittle people for using weight loss aids.

makes zero sense.

2Rebecca · Today 09:23

Never heard of this phrase. It sounds as though some people just need busier lives and other things to do and think of rather than what they’ll eat next

thehaplessgardener · Today 09:27

AnotherName2025 · Today 08:42

& that is NOT true.

I am vegetarian, I generally (like 360/365 days of the year) eat a low carb diet, I don't eat junk food & I don't eat UPFs

No I'm not a saint, I'm a vegetarian diabetic who controls their HbA1c through diet & exercise.

its fucking tedious & the food noise is like a sodding brass band in my head.

The people who don't get it, don't understand & should just be fucking grateful instead of being smug & preachy.

A low carb diet....

That would be your problem.

Why is everything so binary here? I have experienced "food noise" - though I would never have called it that, and still wouldn't call it that.

The people calling others discussing on a discussion forum "smug" should be a touch less aggressive, I think.

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