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LL came into my garden and removed my bird feeders

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goodoldsussexbythesea · 26/04/2026 16:01

My landlady lives locally and often drives past my house. Early this morning, I was in my front garden, filling my bird feeders, and she pulled over and said that the advice from the RSPB is not to feed birds from feeders any more.

I told her that actually, the advice is not to feed them seeds and peanuts between May-October this year and I'm planning on following the advice so I was just using up the last of my seed now as it's not May yet.

She got really defensive and said "well, I just think it's important to follow the advice so I'd rather you didn't do it, please take the feeders down!!" which really annoyed me so I said, well it's not May yet so no, and anyway the advice is that you can feed them (small amounts of) mealworm and suet balls after May so I will be doing that, and she didn't say anything else, just drove off.

This really wound me up and I was annoyed for the rest of the day, took the kids out to a farm park and I arrived home an hour ago, and my feeders have gone out of my garden!!!

I checked my ring doorbell and she's bloody come into the garden, armed with a plastic carrier bag, removed my feeders and taken them away!!

I rang her three times back to back and she wouldn't pick up, so I whatsapped her and it immediately went to two blue ticks. I said - "Please return my bird feeders immediately, they are my property and you had no right to take them. I am following the advice but even if I was not, you still have no right to take my things."

After half an hour she replied "I am not currently allowing tenants to use bird feeders at my properties and have asked that they all be removed. I was passing so I removed yours for you, they are in safe keeping and will be returned in October"

My AIBU is not about who was in the right because I bloody well know I am, but whether or not I should call the police. I spoke to my neighbour about it and she said I shouldn't and that I should just replace them and remove the cost from the rent. She says she's obviously nuts and I shouldn't risk falling out with her

YABU - Don't call police, replace and charge her or do something else
YANBU - Call the police, report her for theft, and give them the doorbell footage.

OP posts:
SpryTaupeTurtle · 27/04/2026 12:26

UncannyFanny · 27/04/2026 12:15

Of course she has no right to come into your garden and take your things but choose your battles wisely. If this turns ugly you stand a very real risk of losing your home. A landlady is not obliged to continue your tenancy and can decide not to renew it. A difficult landlady is the last thing any tenant needs. Getting embroiled in fights with her regardless who was at fault could end very badly. You have children to think about who need a secure roof over their heads who aren’t going to benefit from you getting yourself evicted over some petty dispute with a bonkers landlady who wants to play power games. Nobody disputes she was wrong but with the current housing situation it would incredibly foolish to risk provoking a landlord not to renew your tenancy over a bird feeder. Even reporting her to the council could be enough for her to decide you’re too much trouble to keep on. Think very carefully about where the balance of power lies here. She could quite literally remove the roof from over your head if she wanted to be difficult.

She's a difficult landlady already. People should not need to tread on eggshells or live in fear of eviction when they aren't in the wrong.

Cheesipuff · 27/04/2026 12:54

RSPB say take them down because of passing on bird flu etc diseases . 1st May -Oct.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2lwvz1pl1no

Winter2020 · 27/04/2026 13:00

SpryTaupeTurtle · 27/04/2026 12:26

She's a difficult landlady already. People should not need to tread on eggshells or live in fear of eviction when they aren't in the wrong.

What "should" be the case and what is the case are not the same thing.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 27/04/2026 13:05

Cheesipuff · 27/04/2026 12:54

RSPB say take them down because of passing on bird flu etc diseases . 1st May -Oct.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2lwvz1pl1no

The OP knows this, it says it in the OP

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 27/04/2026 13:07

kierenthecommunity · 26/04/2026 18:44

A car is different as there is separate legislation for taking a car without consent.

The Theft Act states there has to be an intention to permanently deprive. This is day one in police training stuff. They wouldn’t describe it as theft.

Permanently deprive doesn’t mean what you think it means.

Permanently deprive in theft law (Theft Act 1968) means the intention to take someone’s property and keep it, or treat it as one’s own to dispose of, regardless of the owner’s rights. It requires that the owner is permanently deprived of the specific property, even if the thief intends to replace it or its value later.

From The PCS. Day 1 in police training stuff.

Taking the bird tables is theft as she is putting conditions on returning it. She is treating OPs property as if it were her own - that’s what permanently deprive means.

Same as if your neighbours came into your garden and removed your items until winter. ‘Borrowing’ can also be theft.

Goodness removed is also theft - eg returning it when it can’t be used any more.

hallomynameisinigomontoya · 27/04/2026 13:16

Ask for them back, promise very nicely not to put them back up in the garden then put them 10cm over the boundary in your friend's garden?

StarCourt · 27/04/2026 13:19

@goodoldsussexbythesea do you by any chance have a back garden?

TableTopTree · 27/04/2026 13:20

This isn't theft, as the mens rea elements of the offence are not met. (Intention to permanently deprive, and dishonesty).

Hate to say it op, but unless you fancy moving, you're going to have to suck this one up. I feel for you, this would really upset me, YANBU to be furious.

TableTopTree · 27/04/2026 13:21

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 27/04/2026 13:07

Permanently deprive doesn’t mean what you think it means.

Permanently deprive in theft law (Theft Act 1968) means the intention to take someone’s property and keep it, or treat it as one’s own to dispose of, regardless of the owner’s rights. It requires that the owner is permanently deprived of the specific property, even if the thief intends to replace it or its value later.

From The PCS. Day 1 in police training stuff.

Taking the bird tables is theft as she is putting conditions on returning it. She is treating OPs property as if it were her own - that’s what permanently deprive means.

Same as if your neighbours came into your garden and removed your items until winter. ‘Borrowing’ can also be theft.

Goodness removed is also theft - eg returning it when it can’t be used any more.

Edited

Where's the dishonesty?

thefourthbeatle · 27/04/2026 13:29

PomplaMouse · 27/04/2026 00:18

Mumsnet would really benefit from a feature that requires user to read, at bare minimum, the OP's posts before they post a reply.

😂😂😂🎯

DinkyDiggies · 27/04/2026 13:36

You are entitled to ‘quiet enjoyment’ and if it’s not in your agreement you have a right to feed birds if you want.
However, I’d wait a few days before escalating this. S21 ‘no fault evictions’ are a thing of the past on the 1st May. After that she needs a reason (rent arrears) to evict.

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 27/04/2026 13:44

TableTopTree · 27/04/2026 13:21

Where's the dishonesty?

Well if it’s assessed on the Ivey test then it would be what is reasonable. Would a reasonable person consider this a ‘dishonest’ action. She’s gone into her tenant’s property and removed something belonging to her tenant without permission or notice.

Do you even know what dishonest means? It means

  • lacking integrity
  • Deceptive
  • underhand

It’s not just about saying things that aren’t true.

Landlord hasn’t gone round and knocked on the tenant’s door to ask for it, she knew she would be given short shrift so she’s decided to skip that part. There is the dishonesty.

TableTopTree · 27/04/2026 13:56

OldGothsFadeToGrey · 27/04/2026 13:44

Well if it’s assessed on the Ivey test then it would be what is reasonable. Would a reasonable person consider this a ‘dishonest’ action. She’s gone into her tenant’s property and removed something belonging to her tenant without permission or notice.

Do you even know what dishonest means? It means

  • lacking integrity
  • Deceptive
  • underhand

It’s not just about saying things that aren’t true.

Landlord hasn’t gone round and knocked on the tenant’s door to ask for it, she knew she would be given short shrift so she’s decided to skip that part. There is the dishonesty.

Edited

How rude! It's ok to disagree, but do you have to be such a dick about it?

No, this was not a dishonest act. Ivey made the overall test based on the perceptions of a 'reasonsble man's, (removing the subjective test per Ghosh).

However, this doesn't extend to the statutory defences. Based on the facts we have, the LL genuinely believes she is protecting birds. The defence only requires this, no objective test is needed.

So you're both rude, and incorrect.

...and do I know what dishonesty is? You'd laugh if I told you what I do for a living Smile.

SheilaFentiman · 27/04/2026 13:59

@TableTopTree you are ruder than the PP.

TableTopTree · 27/04/2026 14:04

SheilaFentiman · 27/04/2026 13:59

@TableTopTree you are ruder than the PP.

Oh good, an ad hominem attack!

Given the fact you're spouting the same nonsense as the PP, I'll be sure to place the correct amount of weight on your judgement 🙂

Do you have any actual legal authority for your position?

SheilaFentiman · 27/04/2026 14:41

TableTopTree · 27/04/2026 14:04

Oh good, an ad hominem attack!

Given the fact you're spouting the same nonsense as the PP, I'll be sure to place the correct amount of weight on your judgement 🙂

Do you have any actual legal authority for your position?

Edited

You called the PP rude (without any grounds).

I said that you were ruder than the PP.

And you are calling mine an ad hominem attack?

Ok, sweetie. Have a great day.

CurtainMode · 27/04/2026 16:45

DS445C · 26/04/2026 22:16

What "various reasons" should she not be using them?

The RSPB don't advocate against them, so why are you saying OP is wrong?

They spread disease and it's highly unlikely that she will clean them to the RSPB's standards, i.e. thoroughly enough and frequently enough, because basically nobody does.

They give unfair advantage to certain species, creating an imbalanced ecosystem.

Is that good enough for you?

nevernotmaybe · 27/04/2026 16:59

PomplaMouse · 27/04/2026 08:12

R v Lloyd was taking something for hours, not many months.

By taking the property and refusing to return it for such a long period, the LL is likely disposing of the OP's rights to it (the loss in value is that OP might reasonably feel she needs to buy a new one).

It isn't comparable.

I was the one that pointed out it is a different time scale.

The ruling didn't care how long at all, and set case law of what the definition of permanently deprive is linked to. There is nothing in law that allows just not having it to be linked to it, and that is a civil matter for you to take up by suing for the return, and any time lost. As far as I know the courts consider that to be the how to deal with this regardless of timescale, not an escalation to the criminal act of theft.

If you want time to be a factor, it would need to end in court to get a ruling mentioning it specifically. The cps aren't going to be sending it just to see, they will use what is currently considered if it gets to them, if the police ever thought it was enough to investigate and send a file to start with.

But I am happy to find I am wrong either for this example if she does report or other situations already happened, so I can change what I think.

Tuesdayschild50 · 27/04/2026 17:50

What a stupid cheeky cow she is i understand you being angry id be fuming too...
While you pay rent that property is yours.
I wouldn't not pay rent or minus anything as you need the roof over your heads .
Is she usually like this in other ways .

Hmm1234 · 27/04/2026 17:53

goodoldsussexbythesea · 26/04/2026 16:01

My landlady lives locally and often drives past my house. Early this morning, I was in my front garden, filling my bird feeders, and she pulled over and said that the advice from the RSPB is not to feed birds from feeders any more.

I told her that actually, the advice is not to feed them seeds and peanuts between May-October this year and I'm planning on following the advice so I was just using up the last of my seed now as it's not May yet.

She got really defensive and said "well, I just think it's important to follow the advice so I'd rather you didn't do it, please take the feeders down!!" which really annoyed me so I said, well it's not May yet so no, and anyway the advice is that you can feed them (small amounts of) mealworm and suet balls after May so I will be doing that, and she didn't say anything else, just drove off.

This really wound me up and I was annoyed for the rest of the day, took the kids out to a farm park and I arrived home an hour ago, and my feeders have gone out of my garden!!!

I checked my ring doorbell and she's bloody come into the garden, armed with a plastic carrier bag, removed my feeders and taken them away!!

I rang her three times back to back and she wouldn't pick up, so I whatsapped her and it immediately went to two blue ticks. I said - "Please return my bird feeders immediately, they are my property and you had no right to take them. I am following the advice but even if I was not, you still have no right to take my things."

After half an hour she replied "I am not currently allowing tenants to use bird feeders at my properties and have asked that they all be removed. I was passing so I removed yours for you, they are in safe keeping and will be returned in October"

My AIBU is not about who was in the right because I bloody well know I am, but whether or not I should call the police. I spoke to my neighbour about it and she said I shouldn't and that I should just replace them and remove the cost from the rent. She says she's obviously nuts and I shouldn't risk falling out with her

YABU - Don't call police, replace and charge her or do something else
YANBU - Call the police, report her for theft, and give them the doorbell footage.

Never mind the birds what about the rats they attract? You want to argue and call the police on your landlord?! Crazy better get prepared to be homeless

SheilaFentiman · 27/04/2026 17:54

Hmm1234 · 27/04/2026 17:53

Never mind the birds what about the rats they attract? You want to argue and call the police on your landlord?! Crazy better get prepared to be homeless

Oh thank goodness. Someone finally mentioned rats.

🙄

ThisIsTheAge · 27/04/2026 17:57

Realistically it's theft as you have Ring doorbell footage of her stealing them. Call 101 and ask them to send you a secure link to upload the footage.

Dolphin78 · 27/04/2026 18:09

@goodoldsussexbythesea
Can I suggest you give the Citizens advice a call. I volunteered with them for a while and they are very helpful in these situations and can help you with how to respond as firstly LLs need to make an appointment to visit this is in your tenancy agreement ( I am an accidental LL and treat my tenant with respect) and cannot remove your property without your permission also in the tenancy agreement. Don’t bother with police but get some free legal advice. She’s crossed the boundaries of acceptable LL behaviour…
Oh and well done for bird feeding!

TheLilacLeader · 27/04/2026 18:23

Just Replace with bigger ones and screw them in.

BooseysMom · 27/04/2026 18:47

TheLilacLeader · 27/04/2026 18:23

Just Replace with bigger ones and screw them in.

Great idea! She'll flip 😆

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