AIBU to suggest holidaying with my sister and separately with DH?

[AliceNotInChains]

Meant to be going on holiday in June with DH, sister and BIL.

BIL and I have fallen out so he no longer wants to come. My sister however, does still want to come but now DH doesn’t want to go without BIL.

AIBU to suggest me and my sister go away together and then I’ll go away with DH alone in October?

DH’s solution is to tell sister that she’s not coming.

Have you all tried being gown-ups and had a conversation? It's all sounds very school playground with what you've written. " I don't want to go without him, tell her she can't come...".

Is the fall out sortable?

Like first post said try a conversation before making a decision.

It seems strange your sister is content to go with a couple and leave her DH at home.

Just sort out the argument. Holiday as planned.

@AliceNotInChains if you can afford 2 holidays go for it! It’ll be nice to go on a girlie holiday.

Oh god the drama. Does nobody want to sort this out or are all 4 of you going to sulk like toddlers and ruin Your holidays?

Are you going to take up all the bathrooms again? Is this the BIL whose kids you blew out the candles on his cake?

You're being unreasonable.

Oh, God, it's her again - toilet hogging, candle blowing, bike-dumping lunatic.
Every thread you start about this family, your in-laws, there is massive consensus that you're completely in the wrong. This won't change.

So, is this the BIL where you dumped your bike in his house without asking? No wonder you've fallen out

Ooooooohhhh is this the same poster that dumped her bike in their hallway?
No wonder he’s fallen out with her!!

Ahahahaahahha
here she is
I literally don’t believe a thing you post because NOBODY I mean nobody can be this unreasonable in every single scenario and not ever see it. No way.

This is the sister who you really pissed off last week by abandoning a bike in her house without asking or telling her? And you blew out her child’s birthday candles? And last time you went on holiday with them, you wanted your own special bathroom and to use their bathroom as well?

Frankly, you sound like an attention-seeking nightmare so I would just go on holiday on your own.

You do not have to do everything with your sister!
Just go away with your husband for a change.

I think DH in June, sister later on.

Those who want to go, go. Those who don't want to go, don't go. Sorted.