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AIBU to feel annoyed about my partner liking her profile picture?

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SuperNerd88 · 25/04/2026 20:36

Am I being unreasonable to be slightly annoyed at my partner liking the profile picture of a girl who has previously messaged him (while knowing we were together) offering to sleep with him while I was away?

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JLou08 · 25/04/2026 20:39

YANBU, not in this situation. She tried it on whilst he was in a relationship, there should be no interaction between them. She will be feeling very smug with that like. I'm guessing he enjoys the attention from her and/or wants to pursue it. How did you find out about her offer? Are you sure there's been nothing else?

Lmnop22 · 25/04/2026 20:39

Absolutely bloody not! She’s offered sex to your partner since you’ve been together and he liked her profile pic? Nope.

worldshottestmom · 25/04/2026 20:41

Girl dump him

SuperNerd88 · 25/04/2026 20:45

I can't just dump him unfortunately, we have kids and have been together for years. I didn't actually see the messages between them, he told me about it a few days later but by this point the messages had been deleted. He told me that he had told her he was not interested, that he was happy with his family, and that she in return had called him a boring 'c**t'. The next day she blamed it on being drunk.

She did apologise to me a few weeks later and acknowledged that she had overstepped the mark. It is very awkward as our children are in the same class at school.

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PillsBox · 25/04/2026 20:46

SuperNerd88 · 25/04/2026 20:45

I can't just dump him unfortunately, we have kids and have been together for years. I didn't actually see the messages between them, he told me about it a few days later but by this point the messages had been deleted. He told me that he had told her he was not interested, that he was happy with his family, and that she in return had called him a boring 'c**t'. The next day she blamed it on being drunk.

She did apologise to me a few weeks later and acknowledged that she had overstepped the mark. It is very awkward as our children are in the same class at school.

He made sure to delete the messages and then told you??

worldshottestmom · 25/04/2026 20:49

SuperNerd88 · 25/04/2026 20:45

I can't just dump him unfortunately, we have kids and have been together for years. I didn't actually see the messages between them, he told me about it a few days later but by this point the messages had been deleted. He told me that he had told her he was not interested, that he was happy with his family, and that she in return had called him a boring 'c**t'. The next day she blamed it on being drunk.

She did apologise to me a few weeks later and acknowledged that she had overstepped the mark. It is very awkward as our children are in the same class at school.

You have kids together and have been together for years, yet here he is liking photos of a woman who propositioned him knowing he was taken.

Girl dump him

hopyou · 25/04/2026 20:50

Awful behaviour.
this would really really upset me

worldshottestmom · 25/04/2026 20:51

PillsBox · 25/04/2026 20:46

He made sure to delete the messages and then told you??

Could of had a full on sexting session and he's made the rest up to look like a martyr. Im rolling my eyes so hard they hurt. Ain't nobody got time fo dat

Newusername0 · 25/04/2026 20:53

At least you know you can’t trust him. He’s made that pretty obvious.

RudolphTheReindeer · 25/04/2026 20:54

Why are they even friends on social media after that?

Dodorogers · 25/04/2026 20:57

worldshottestmom · 25/04/2026 20:49

You have kids together and have been together for years, yet here he is liking photos of a woman who propositioned him knowing he was taken.

Girl dump him

Oh come on

stepmum86 · 25/04/2026 20:58

This would not sit well with me! As someone above has said, why are they still friends on social media?
apology or no apology, she would be off the friends list!!

worldshottestmom · 25/04/2026 20:58

Dodorogers · 25/04/2026 20:57

Oh come on

Oh come on, what? No need to like a picture unless you want to show youre interested. This woman has offered him sex and hes showing hes interested.

😬😬😬

SuperNerd88 · Yesterday 08:06

I told him it bothered me, and he said 'are you being serious', and that I need to 'sort my head out'. Has now unliked the photo and also unfriended her I think, but I am now questioning myself and wondering if I have overreacted.
I think if it had been a photo of her with one of her children for example, it wouldn't have bothered me so much. But the photo was her all dolled up for presumably a night out or similar.

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