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AIBU to be shocked by public celebration of Michael Jackson?

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2021x · 25/04/2026 09:58

Now the MJ film is out my social media feed is flooded with people doing the dances and talking about the movie etc. My local cinema is holding special events and screenings.

I personally have no doubt that he was a predatory paedophile. All the signs are there, especially how he talks about how he would never hurt a child and sharing a bed with them is the "most loving thing you can do in the world". He manipulated the world into thinking he had a "child-like persona" but was able to manage a music career worth millions... which someone who is naive would never be able to manage.

I also do not judge people who enjoy his music. It was very popular at the time, and would be associated with all types nostaligic memories. I listen to problematic artists all the time, but I don't pretend that they weren't abusive.

AIBU to be astounded that any business/media outlet would be seen dead even associating with him let alone celebrating such a horrifically abusive man.

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YankSplaining · 29/04/2026 14:18

likelysuspect · 29/04/2026 14:17

Yes.

What do you do for work? (Sorry if you’ve already said and I didn’t see it.)

likelysuspect · 29/04/2026 14:27

YankSplaining · 29/04/2026 14:18

What do you do for work? (Sorry if you’ve already said and I didn’t see it.)

Local Authority statutory services.

Im talking over 30 years.

These are not colleagues Im talking about.

Scorchio84 · 29/04/2026 20:17

SerafinasGoose · 28/04/2026 11:28

The comments about Corey Feldman on this thread are really distasteful.

Yes, he's a highly damaged individual. And this is part of the plausible deniability often depended upon by abusers: either their victims are from the kind of social backgrounds bound to ensure their stories won't be believed (cf. Savile and the children's homes or hospitals), or that they're so screwed up by the damage they sustained that society deems them 'mad' and likewise they are not believed.

Feldman has been shouting at the top of his voice for years - going back to long before the exposure of what a hotbed of abuse we now know the entertainment industry to be - and no one remotely listened.

My favourite film was once The Lost Boys. Star was responsible for more than one hideous flouncy skirt (and very Michael Jackson-style jacket) that I wore in my youth. Having heard Feldman's horrendous stories about what he and Corey Haim endured on that set; how the abuse messed up Haim to the extent that this possibly contributed to his addiction problems and early death; what Feldman endured and what he witnessed, is nothing short of heartbreaking. I now cannot watch that film (even for the sake of Grandpa; best character ever) knowing what two young boys had to suffer in order to make it.

Feldman is a victim. Abuse has ruined him and no wonder. He is worthy of compassion, not ridiculed or having his experiences once again discredited. He hasn't directly accused Jackson of anything. He's just refused to be part of the noise that routinely disbelieves victims.

For that, I applaud him.

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The Lost Boys? What has that film got to do with anything regarding Corey Feldman & his SA crusade against old Hollywood, which is commendable but he accused Corey Haim of abusing him on the set of The Lost Boys & it was absolutely false

AutumnLover1990 · 29/04/2026 20:36

About to watch the Michael movie. Theatre is full up. Great to see 😊

kkloo · 29/04/2026 20:47

AutumnLover1990 · 29/04/2026 20:36

About to watch the Michael movie. Theatre is full up. Great to see 😊

It's a shame it doesn't feature his 'special friends'. You could gush over how adorable the relationships are. 😊

Scorchio84 · 30/04/2026 01:27

@AutumnLover1990 your thoughts? Jaysus thought you were cool

bridgetreilly · 30/04/2026 02:34

2021x · 25/04/2026 10:12

I agree but don't you think there is a difference between appreciating the art, and glorifying him? You can listen to his music, even make a biopic of him, but to celebrate him and deny the behaiviour around children surely can't be right.

For example I listen to Amy Winehouses music all the time and I saw the film, but at no point do I pretend she wasn't an abusive alcoholic.

The biopic was meant to be much more of an expose but for legal reasons, they couldn’t use most of that material. I don’t know why they didn’t just shelve the whole project at that point.

kkloo · 30/04/2026 03:10

bridgetreilly · 30/04/2026 02:34

The biopic was meant to be much more of an expose but for legal reasons, they couldn’t use most of that material. I don’t know why they didn’t just shelve the whole project at that point.

But it was financed by the Jackson estate wasn't it? So I don't think it was meant to be an expose.

fundamentallyauthentic · 30/04/2026 06:12

kkloo · 30/04/2026 03:10

But it was financed by the Jackson estate wasn't it? So I don't think it was meant to be an expose.

No, it was financed by a Hollywood film studio.

kkloo · 30/04/2026 06:25

fundamentallyauthentic · 30/04/2026 06:12

No, it was financed by a Hollywood film studio.

Ah, they just funded the re-shoots I think.
But it seems that the estate were involved from the start so it was never meant to be a real expose.

SwingTheMonkey · 30/04/2026 06:40

AutumnLover1990 · 29/04/2026 20:36

About to watch the Michael movie. Theatre is full up. Great to see 😊

Sick.

vickylou78 · 30/04/2026 07:44

BreakfastClub80 · 29/04/2026 13:50

What bothers me most is that those who believe MJ was not a paedophile are effectively saying they do not believe the children, any of them, who have come forward with allegations.

I didn’t think MJ was cleared in court, the case didn’t go to court as they settled and the boy wouldn’t testify.

Did we ever have more evidence (other than victim statements) against Saville?

It’s very disturbing.

Have you done any research at all? The first boy settled out of court - later evidence was found that his father who was a dentist gave him drugs to make him make accusations against MJ and there are tapes of his father saying he was going to destroy MJ.

The second lot of allegations prompted a FBI investigation and it went to court and MJ was found unanimously not guilty on all counts.

The two men who suddenly remembered they had been abused when they were in their 30's and took part in the leaving neverland documentary - they testified when they were younger that MJ never touched them. Their stories were never tested, the hit piece was completely one sided and much of their stories have been shown to be false. (Watch 'Lies of leaving Neverland'. Both men were friends with MJ and visited Neverland (one wanted to get married there) one wanted to choreographer for MJ Broadway show etc. but when they were turned down suddenly decided to sue the estate for millions of dollars.

So yes basically people who think MJ is innocent think the alleged victims are not credible and are out for the money.

AutumnLover1990 · 30/04/2026 07:49

vickylou78 · 30/04/2026 07:44

Have you done any research at all? The first boy settled out of court - later evidence was found that his father who was a dentist gave him drugs to make him make accusations against MJ and there are tapes of his father saying he was going to destroy MJ.

The second lot of allegations prompted a FBI investigation and it went to court and MJ was found unanimously not guilty on all counts.

The two men who suddenly remembered they had been abused when they were in their 30's and took part in the leaving neverland documentary - they testified when they were younger that MJ never touched them. Their stories were never tested, the hit piece was completely one sided and much of their stories have been shown to be false. (Watch 'Lies of leaving Neverland'. Both men were friends with MJ and visited Neverland (one wanted to get married there) one wanted to choreographer for MJ Broadway show etc. but when they were turned down suddenly decided to sue the estate for millions of dollars.

So yes basically people who think MJ is innocent think the alleged victims are not credible and are out for the money.

Also Safechuck wanted to get married at Neverland (strange you'd want your wedding at a place you were supposedly abused at). Robson is teaching dance classes today and using Jackson's music. Again,odd. I don't believe them 😠

vickylou78 · 30/04/2026 07:50

AutumnLover1990 · 30/04/2026 07:49

Also Safechuck wanted to get married at Neverland (strange you'd want your wedding at a place you were supposedly abused at). Robson is teaching dance classes today and using Jackson's music. Again,odd. I don't believe them 😠

Yes exactly!!!

RightAngleRita · 30/04/2026 07:56

Looking forward to the paedo-washing biopics of Garry Glitter and Ian Watkins next.

AutumnLover1990 · 30/04/2026 07:57

RightAngleRita · 30/04/2026 07:56

Looking forward to the paedo-washing biopics of Garry Glitter and Ian Watkins next.

Sicko 😠

BreakfastClub80 · 30/04/2026 12:18

vickylou78 · 30/04/2026 07:44

Have you done any research at all? The first boy settled out of court - later evidence was found that his father who was a dentist gave him drugs to make him make accusations against MJ and there are tapes of his father saying he was going to destroy MJ.

The second lot of allegations prompted a FBI investigation and it went to court and MJ was found unanimously not guilty on all counts.

The two men who suddenly remembered they had been abused when they were in their 30's and took part in the leaving neverland documentary - they testified when they were younger that MJ never touched them. Their stories were never tested, the hit piece was completely one sided and much of their stories have been shown to be false. (Watch 'Lies of leaving Neverland'. Both men were friends with MJ and visited Neverland (one wanted to get married there) one wanted to choreographer for MJ Broadway show etc. but when they were turned down suddenly decided to sue the estate for millions of dollars.

So yes basically people who think MJ is innocent think the alleged victims are not credible and are out for the money.

Fair play, I lived through all of this so didn’t think I needed to do in depth research but did forget the second court case, which you rightly highlight.

And yes, I agree that those taking the view that MJ is innocent of child abuse are assuming the motivation for the accusations is financial.

SwingTheMonkey · 30/04/2026 15:45

How do the paedo apologists account for the fingerprints of one of his accusers being found on pages of hardcore porn magazines?

Perhaps ‘Hustlers Barely Legal Hardcore’ actually belonged to one of the little boys and they left it there in his bedroom during one of the innocent sleepovers…

vickylou78 · 30/04/2026 15:46

SwingTheMonkey · 30/04/2026 15:45

How do the paedo apologists account for the fingerprints of one of his accusers being found on pages of hardcore porn magazines?

Perhaps ‘Hustlers Barely Legal Hardcore’ actually belonged to one of the little boys and they left it there in his bedroom during one of the innocent sleepovers…

Which court case was this evidence from?

kkloo · 30/04/2026 15:57

fundamentallyauthentic · 30/04/2026 07:18

From the New York times.

“Michael” was never going to be a warts-and-all look at the superstar — not with lawyers for his estate riding shotgun. But the version of the project that was shopped to studios depicted a police investigation into child molestation claims. The movie’s third act hinged on accusations by a 13-year-old boy named Jordan Chandler; Jackson agreed to <a class="break-all" href="https://archive.ph/o/4C4iy/www.nytimes.com/1994/01/26/us/michael-jackson-settles-suit-for-sum-said-to-be-in-millions.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">pay him roughly $23 million in 1994 to settle a lawsuit, effectively ending a criminal investigation. (Jackson always denied any wrongdoing.)

https://archive.ph/4C4iy#selection-4759.0-4763.106

There's no way with family involvement that it was going to be like an expose, it would 100% have made the Chandlers look bad and no doubt had Michael just saying 'everyone knows I never had a childhood'.

kkloo · 30/04/2026 16:03

AutumnLover1990 · 30/04/2026 07:49

Also Safechuck wanted to get married at Neverland (strange you'd want your wedding at a place you were supposedly abused at). Robson is teaching dance classes today and using Jackson's music. Again,odd. I don't believe them 😠

Many or even most who are abused have some people who don't believe them, 'why did they do this?' 'why did they do that', 'why didn't they tell someone straight away', 'very strange to do that/go back/blah blah if they'd been abused'.

Questions/statements like that say nothing about the victims and everything abut the person who makes them!

kkloo · 30/04/2026 16:06

vickylou78 · 30/04/2026 15:46

Which court case was this evidence from?

Gavin Arvizos.

fundamentallyauthentic · 30/04/2026 16:09

When it comes to gaining vast sums of money, money that means you will never have to work again and live comfortably for the rest of your life, experience has made me realise that some people will say and do anything to get that money.

selfloveandselfrespect · 30/04/2026 16:17

SpottyAlpaca · 25/04/2026 10:29

Two reasons, both obvious.

1, Gadd / Glitter was not & never will be a $ billion industry.

2, Gadd / Glitter is white, so can’t be represented as part of a ‘marginalised’ group in the hierarchy of victimhood.

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Absolute nonsense. This is very offensive actually suggesting that black people are protected as they are a marginalised group? Didn't R Kelly and P Diddy get convicted? If there was enough evidence, MJ would've been convicted. Simple.

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