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AIBU?

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AIBU to leave the house unlocked when my husband is out late?

223 replies

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 22:50

AIBU to go to bed and leave the house unlocked?

I always do this when DH is out late, figure the dog will bark if anyone enters but my friend is horrified!

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RampantIvy · 22/04/2026 22:50

Doesn't he have his own key?

Wowzel · 22/04/2026 22:51

I wouldn't do this, that's mad.

Why can't he use a key and open the door?

JWhipple · 22/04/2026 22:52

I'm sure your insurance will cover you if anything gets stolen 🙄

How old is your husband? Is he old enough to have his own house key? Maybe you could sit down with him and explain how keys work.

Pistachiocake · 22/04/2026 22:54

Depends where you live etc. But I would guess that if someone is going to break in despite a (big?) dog, then they wouldn't let a locked door stop them. Now if you didn't have a dog, then no.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 22/04/2026 22:54

What’s the advantage to leaving it unlocked? You word it like you lock it when DH is home… and therefore the home maybe safer as 2 adults rather than 1, but when potentially more vulnerable you make a point of leaving it unlocked. Why?

Ponderingwindow · 22/04/2026 22:55

I don’t leave the house unlocked in the middle of the day. People have keys and use them. Why take the risk.

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 22:55

RampantIvy · 22/04/2026 22:50

Doesn't he have his own key?

I mean, there’s one in the keystore thing but no he won’t carry one as we always do this!

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ToKittyornottoKitty · 22/04/2026 22:56

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 22:55

I mean, there’s one in the keystore thing but no he won’t carry one as we always do this!

Why’s he too special to carry a key?

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 22:57

JWhipple · 22/04/2026 22:52

I'm sure your insurance will cover you if anything gets stolen 🙄

How old is your husband? Is he old enough to have his own house key? Maybe you could sit down with him and explain how keys work.

He’d do the same if I were out. I don’t think anyone would enter, the dog would bark and scare them off?

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Malinia · 22/04/2026 22:58

I would never leave my house unlocked. It leaves you so vulnerable.

MasterBeth · 22/04/2026 22:58

Why bother having a lock on the door at all?

ToKittyornottoKitty · 22/04/2026 22:59

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 22:57

He’d do the same if I were out. I don’t think anyone would enter, the dog would bark and scare them off?

How big is this dog? Are you not worried someone could harm or steal your dog? These things do happen

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 22:59

ToKittyornottoKitty · 22/04/2026 22:54

What’s the advantage to leaving it unlocked? You word it like you lock it when DH is home… and therefore the home maybe safer as 2 adults rather than 1, but when potentially more vulnerable you make a point of leaving it unlocked. Why?

Only lock it if both of us are in bed and both our (adult) kids are home too so it’s open lots to be fair. The dog is really noisy if anyone comes to the door!!

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PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 23:00

ToKittyornottoKitty · 22/04/2026 22:56

Why’s he too special to carry a key?

He’s not special, just knows he doesn’t need it I guess.

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Dalmationday · 22/04/2026 23:00

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 22:57

He’d do the same if I were out. I don’t think anyone would enter, the dog would bark and scare them off?

So if you both go out without keys, who ever locks the door. It’s chicken and egg. Is your house permanently open?
how lazy do you have to be to not use the key safe

lazyarse123 · 22/04/2026 23:01

Can he not get it out of the key safe?

DiscoBeat · 22/04/2026 23:01

I wouldn't do that at night (it's unlocked all day). DH or I take a key if we're out late.

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 23:01

ToKittyornottoKitty · 22/04/2026 22:59

How big is this dog? Are you not worried someone could harm or steal your dog? These things do happen

No because if anybody entered the house, the dog would bark so loudly I’d be up anyway.

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brunettemic · 22/04/2026 23:02

Unlocked as in anyone could just walk in or just not locked?

ToKittyornottoKitty · 22/04/2026 23:02

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 23:01

No because if anybody entered the house, the dog would bark so loudly I’d be up anyway.

That would not stop someone from harming or taking the dog? They wouldn’t freeze until you appeared

MissMoneyFairy · 22/04/2026 23:03

Why don't you all just use your own keys. Your insurance won't pay out if youre burgled. What's the benefit of ever leaving it unlocked.

PacificState · 22/04/2026 23:03

Our front door cannot be opened at all without a key so I’m really confused. Even Yale locks have latches don’t they? Is your door just flapping open?

PurpleLovecats · 22/04/2026 23:03

Dalmationday · 22/04/2026 23:00

So if you both go out without keys, who ever locks the door. It’s chicken and egg. Is your house permanently open?
how lazy do you have to be to not use the key safe

No obviously if one of us goes out and then the other one goes, the last one out would lock the door.

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Shinyandnew1 · 22/04/2026 23:04

Our front door locks when you close it so you can’t get in from the outside without a key, so each of us has a key and takes it with when we are out. I wouldn’t want an unlocked house, no.

PropertyD · 22/04/2026 23:04

Quite honestly anyone breaking in at night will either have a Mars Bar to throw to the dog or worse aggressively disarm the barking. I won’t say what a burglar did to my Mums neighbour’s dog but the dog was never the same again.

Please don’t do this.

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