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Mum20z · 22/04/2026 19:16

This is complex, but looking for advice or reassurance from others who have been through similar.
I had my own property and sold it for the deposit to buy with partner, blending our families together. It’s not working, and it’s down to how I feel. All the children have needs and I guess I needed support and was lonely, thinking this would be the answer, and it’s not - it’s making me mentally ill.
I don’t know what to do as have nothing. No job now as mental health in bits. Can hardly function, and last year got as bad as mental health can go…. I am scared for another change for my kids and the trauma that may bring to them, but cannot go on like this.

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Decacaffeinatednow · 22/04/2026 19:21

Can you sell the property and use your share to buy another house?

Mum20z · 22/04/2026 19:24

No, as I’ll no longer be able to get a mortgage as I did in 2010 when buying my sole home as gave up my career for part time work when had family

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Endofyear · 22/04/2026 19:53

What about part ownership/housing association? You can speak to Citizen's Advice for some help and support. Are you getting some help for your mental health? Do you have a community mental health team you could speak to?

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