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AIBU to wash my cheese?

276 replies

SENcatsandfish · 21/04/2026 22:57

I buy pre grated cheese, but it always has that starch coating on and when it melts it goes a bit funny, and the texture and what it looks like put me off. So I chuck it in a sieve, rinse it, pat it dry and then use it as I normally would.

Someone looked at me as if id grown 2 heads when I was doing this so is it not a done thing? Am I the only person washing my cheese?

So, unreasonable = what on earth are you doing?
You are being reasonable = melted starchy cheese is gross

  • [Note from MNHQ: Please read OP's subsequent posts before responding, especially the very next post in which she explains that she has a condition that affects her joints, including her wrists, which can easily be dislocated by grating cheese...]
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Funnywonder · 21/04/2026 23:52

bumptybum · 21/04/2026 23:04

Cheese is a very odd word when you read it enough times

Yes🤣🤣

SENcatsandfish · 21/04/2026 23:53

Shitmonger · 21/04/2026 23:32

I feel that cheese would have a distinct desire to remain unwashed.

Im not sure, violently disfigured be being grated a corner here, a corner over then. I should imagine after that trauma a little wash would be rather welcome.

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PeloMom · 21/04/2026 23:54

There are electric cheese graters

oviraptor21 · 21/04/2026 23:55

SENcatsandfish · 21/04/2026 23:09

I should have added, I have a condition that effects my joints, and for me, especially the wrists, I could easily dislocate my wrist from grating cheese 🤣. Ive done similar for stupid reasons. Im a walking disaster, except when I fell down the stairs then I was a falling disaster. Apologies for the drip feed.

I cant seem to find an alternative that works. If I makes a difference I obviously use very cold water, be a right mess if I rinsed it with hot water 🤣

My food processor is fantastic at grating cheese.

Yetone · 21/04/2026 23:56

I buy grated cheese ( a mixture of cheddar and mozzarella) from Ocado because I am lazy. I have just looked at one of the packets I have in and yes it contains a small amount of potato starch. I don’t think this will do me any harm and it seems fine all the times I have used it.
The 2 tasks I hate most in the kitchen are grating cheese and washing lettuce. I buy bagged lettuce too.

Shinyclean · 21/04/2026 23:57

i found that out by accident as im allergic to cornflour. No more cheese jackets when out.

SENcatsandfish · 21/04/2026 23:58

It slices too? Well isnt that fancy!

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Yetone · 21/04/2026 23:58

oviraptor21 · 21/04/2026 23:55

My food processor is fantastic at grating cheese.

Yes I do this with Parmesan and freeze in little bags but then you have the food processor bits to wash up.

Greenandyellowday · 21/04/2026 23:59

ErrolTheDragon · 21/04/2026 23:44

The title reminded me of the one where the OPs DH insisted on rinsing his mince.
(hastens to add that wasn’t a euphemism either)

This thread has me laughing out loud 🤣
Humour is so personal though, so no doubt there will be mumsnetters showing up any minute now, saying how the whole conversation grated on them.

AnotherName2025 · Yesterday 00:07

I empathise with neuropathy etc it makes the simplest things difficult or impossible.

maybe try different brands?

I find the Tesco's own brand grated is fine when melted, better than cathedral which is my 'go to' block of basic cheddar.

it does have potato starch in it, which I use to my advantage when making cheese sauce. I use double cream , a mix of (tesco grated) cheddar & mozzarella & and a huge amount of Coleman's mustard power & it's perfect.

i don't think there's anything wrong with what you do, but I think if would be easier to find a brand where you don't feel the need to do it & if you're anything like me, not adding to the washing up (with neuropathy it's enough doing any washing up without adding to it!)

SENcatsandfish · Yesterday 00:09

Villanousvillans · 21/04/2026 23:34

I have an electric cheese grater, it’s fab!

Do you think it would work for someone that has low joint strength? My joint supports are like cooked spaghetti for ligaments. Blush

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Giraffehaver · Yesterday 00:12

Smell my cheese!

PickAChew · Yesterday 00:13

Is a food processor with a grater disc in your budget? As a pp said, cheese freezes well so you could grate a batch that way and freeze little bags of it.

KTMeetsTheRsUptown · Yesterday 00:17

SENcatsandfish · 21/04/2026 23:09

I should have added, I have a condition that effects my joints, and for me, especially the wrists, I could easily dislocate my wrist from grating cheese 🤣. Ive done similar for stupid reasons. Im a walking disaster, except when I fell down the stairs then I was a falling disaster. Apologies for the drip feed.

I cant seem to find an alternative that works. If I makes a difference I obviously use very cold water, be a right mess if I rinsed it with hot water 🤣

What about great idea 💡Thanks for this OP ❤️
I hate grating cheese too (painful aching wrist) and don’t like the starch on the cheese. I'm going to start washing my cheese too 😀

SENcatsandfish · Yesterday 00:18

Shitmonger · 21/04/2026 23:20

I fear that you are indeed batshit, OP. Grin

How about a cheese grater like this? Easier on the joints I’d think.

That looks great actually i saw the one with the cord you pull but i wouldnt be able to do it. but i think cranking might not be easy for me as my condition, its one that get worse wit with age.

A cheap food processor could work though

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MarmiteWine · Yesterday 00:21

Greenandyellowday · 21/04/2026 23:59

This thread has me laughing out loud 🤣
Humour is so personal though, so no doubt there will be mumsnetters showing up any minute now, saying how the whole conversation grated on them.

Don't brie silly 😜

Eenameenadeeka · Yesterday 00:24

Washing cheese.. that's a new one. Definitely go for the electric grater, I have one and it's SO. Much easier. (And cheaper than buying the cheese grated as well!)

Washingupdone · Yesterday 00:27

Buy a smaller but better quality block of cheese and grate it yourself.
Grated prepacked cheese could, maybe, the rest of the cutoffs in the factory.

SnowFrogJelly · Yesterday 00:53

Grate your own cheese

bridgetreilly · Yesterday 00:54

Agree about the electric grater. I would grate a whole block, or more, and then freeze it in packs. Saves washing up every time you fancy a bit of cheese. Cheese freezes really well.

AnotherName2025 · Yesterday 00:59

SnowFrogJelly · Yesterday 00:53

Grate your own cheese

Read the OP's posts & maybe offer some actually useful suggestions or scroll on by, threads are not improved by your snappy replies.

GrueyTwoey · Yesterday 01:15

KTMeetsTheRsUptown · Yesterday 00:17

What about great idea 💡Thanks for this OP ❤️
I hate grating cheese too (painful aching wrist) and don’t like the starch on the cheese. I'm going to start washing my cheese too 😀

I'm going to try it too, for the same reason!
Thanks Op.

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 01:21

My son has cerebal palsy so only one useful hand. He got so sick of the coating on pre grated cheese that for a while I would grate him an entire block and then we both got sick of that so he bought a multi chopper thing. Similar to the fancier one upthread.

The only thing I would say about it is that while it great for grating (haha) etc, it is an absolute bitch to wash unless you have a dishwasher.

However to answer your OP, based on your physical issues, YANBU.

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 01:23

@SENcatsandfish might be worth asking @MNHQ to add an edit to your OP! Otherwise you are going to end up with a "cancel the cheque" thread of people telling you to grate it yourself!

Objectdive · Yesterday 01:29

I hate grating cheese, no real reason why. I chuck lumps of extra mature cheddar into my Ninja twice a week on a pulse setting and keep a box of ready - grated in the fridge.