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AIBU to wash my cheese?

289 replies

SENcatsandfish · 21/04/2026 22:57

I buy pre grated cheese, but it always has that starch coating on and when it melts it goes a bit funny, and the texture and what it looks like put me off. So I chuck it in a sieve, rinse it, pat it dry and then use it as I normally would.

Someone looked at me as if id grown 2 heads when I was doing this so is it not a done thing? Am I the only person washing my cheese?

So, unreasonable = what on earth are you doing?
You are being reasonable = melted starchy cheese is gross

  • [Note from MNHQ: Please read OP's subsequent posts before responding, especially the very next post in which she explains that she has a condition that affects her joints, including her wrists, which can easily be dislocated by grating cheese...]
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RampantIvy · 22/04/2026 22:39

Bleachedjeans · 22/04/2026 22:36

I have just wasted one minute of my life reading your ridiculous post. Then I was daft enough to waste a further two minutes posting this reply. I don’t know who is the more weird, me or you.

Did you not read the OP's updates?

C8H10N4O2 · 23/04/2026 10:23

SENcatsandfish · 22/04/2026 15:32

No im serious. I have taken a photo for you all, 2 piles of cheese, one pre grated unwashed and one washed rinsed and dried. Ill leave you to decide which you think is which 😀

You have all given me a little laugh, and made me question whether I am over-rinser? I shall ponder this tonight.

Thank you for all of the suggestions for electric mixers. I will have a look though them and choose one that is small and light enough, im not sure why I didnt think of that, my loss of strength in my joints has been slow and when you live and adapt all the time you sometimes forget about the obvious.

when you live and adapt all the time you sometimes forget about the obvious

Its a really common thing to forget.

Have a look at the gadgets suggested here but do you have any access to an occupational therapist or similar? Its not a bad idea to do a kind of ‘audit’ of the activities which have become difficult and the general gadgets available these days. It can be a game changer.

weusedtobeapropercountry · 23/04/2026 14:21

YABU. if you don't like grated cheese, why are you buying it?? Surely it's less hassle to just buy a block and grate it. Washing cheese is weird 😂

TelevisualArseGravy · 23/04/2026 14:26

weusedtobeapropercountry · 23/04/2026 14:21

YABU. if you don't like grated cheese, why are you buying it?? Surely it's less hassle to just buy a block and grate it. Washing cheese is weird 😂

Edited

Sigh - because OP has a condition that affects her joints and therefore can't just "buy a block and grate it".

Laughing at someone's physical limitations is weird.

weusedtobeapropercountry · 23/04/2026 14:28

weusedtobeapropercountry · 23/04/2026 14:21

YABU. if you don't like grated cheese, why are you buying it?? Surely it's less hassle to just buy a block and grate it. Washing cheese is weird 😂

Edited

My very first thought was a joint condition that made grating difficult or painful, but my food processor has a grating attachment, and there are some inexpensive heating gadgets to help with stuff like that. So yeah, buy a block and grate it at home, heck get someone else to batch grate the whole block for you. Don't wash cheese 😂

Laurmolonlabe · 23/04/2026 18:24

Electric graters are available, actually.

TelevisualArseGravy · 23/04/2026 19:11

Laurmolonlabe · 23/04/2026 18:24

Electric graters are available, actually.

Funny that no-one else has mentioned this in almost 300 replies

spoiler alert: they have "actually"

Laurmolonlabe · 23/04/2026 20:12

I have one on my Kenwood Chef, l'd be surprised if stand alone ones weren't available as well.

SENcatsandfish · 23/04/2026 20:40

HoppingPavlova · 22/04/2026 02:43

@SENcatsandfish I should have added, I have a condition that effects my joints, and for me, especially the wrists, I could easily dislocate my wrist from grating cheese

I take it EDS or similar? One of my (adult) kids has this, fun times.

Honestly though, has an electric grater never crossed your mind. An electric food processor that grates, slices and dices. That way everything for food prep is covered. They take no wrist strength at all (not the ones where you have to crank handles, but where you just pop in chute and apply absolute minimum pressure). Washing cheese because you can’t hand grate it is beyond nuts and these appliances are not mysterious items the public doesn’t know about, just look online or go to an electrical retailer and look at the shelves.

Are there other areas of your life you could be making easier also? My child has many things to make things easier and limit the chance of dislocations and injuries, extension hair scrubbers for hair washing for example. A good place to visit for ideas is arthritis sites, there are lots of online places selling things to people with arthritis to make their lives easier, and a lot of this is useful. Don’t buy from the sites, as always inflated prices but use them to get ideas and then just get the same/similar normal retail, you usually can.

I just wanted to say thank you again. I have now bought an electric machine that chops and grates. Ive also looked on some other sites like you suggested and ive ordered a few other mobility aids for the kitchen. I really enjoy cooking but its getting tricky.

I think part of it has been that I couldn't accept that my mobility was making simple things like cooking dinner for my children painful and more difficult. But seeing the lengths im going to like washing cheese 🤣🤣, and this thread in general, has helped so much. I'm going to eagerly await my new cooking gear and im so looking forward to being able to do more things in the kitchen with less pain.

Thank you everyone for showing me that washing cheese was silly 🤣 and that its perfectly fine to need disability aids. Thank you all, I feel a lot more accepting of my condition.

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PickAChew · 23/04/2026 20:55

SENcatsandfish · 23/04/2026 20:40

I just wanted to say thank you again. I have now bought an electric machine that chops and grates. Ive also looked on some other sites like you suggested and ive ordered a few other mobility aids for the kitchen. I really enjoy cooking but its getting tricky.

I think part of it has been that I couldn't accept that my mobility was making simple things like cooking dinner for my children painful and more difficult. But seeing the lengths im going to like washing cheese 🤣🤣, and this thread in general, has helped so much. I'm going to eagerly await my new cooking gear and im so looking forward to being able to do more things in the kitchen with less pain.

Thank you everyone for showing me that washing cheese was silly 🤣 and that its perfectly fine to need disability aids. Thank you all, I feel a lot more accepting of my condition.

If ever you're wondering if there's a reliable gadget to do X, just shout out here. I bought my quopener after seeing it mentioned here. Something went pop in my hand when I was dispensing my pain meds, last night, so you can imagine how much I love a pain saving gadget.

ImGoneUnderground · 24/04/2026 22:32

Imaginingdragonsagain · 21/04/2026 23:00

I’ve never heard of this before.

Following, just to see who else washes cheese......😇

Sorrelatchristmas · 26/04/2026 09:10

Hey, I don’t like the additives either. I also have a problem with my joints, so I buy a block and grate it in the food processor. I have a ton of kitchen gadgets and use them to make life easier. I also freeze the grated cheese to make it last longer.

FantasyFoodhall · 27/04/2026 02:53

Well this is educational, I had NO idea you could get electric graters! Off to buy one asap!

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