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To think the council isn't allowed to deny providing transport on the basis that my child can be late every day if I provide it?

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Senmater · 21/04/2026 09:12

My DD is in primary school and has an EHCP, as well as a blue badge. She goes to a different primary school to her siblings, as her siblings' primary could not meet her needs (they formally refused her, then appealed against being named when the council tried to name them regardless). I tried to move her siblings (also primary )to her school but there is no space. Both schools start at exactly the same time.
I am putting her siblings in breakfast club daily, so that I can get everyone to school on time. My DD would not cope in breakfast club/breakfast club would not cope with her.
I asked the council for a transport personal budget to cover this cost, which is far cheaper than a taxi to take my DD to school. I have said that if they refuse this on principle, we would accept a taxi, but this is a far less efficient use of funds as it would be a lot more expensive.
The council have refused on the basis that my DD could be late everyday, and apparently her school says that is fine. The school have never told me this, in fact I have been told the exact opposite by the class teacher.
As she has autism, being late and changing her routine would cause her a great deal of distress. I also view her learning as important and do not consider it reasonable that she misses the first part of school everyday.
Can anyone advise on the legal basis here? Siblings are too young to travel independently to school (one is in infants), and my DD has a blue badge and complex needs and therefore cannot travel independently.

OP posts:
dizzydizzydizzy · 21/04/2026 10:45

I think she would be eligible for funding for transport to school (which I believe an option is you taking her). Look here:

https://www.gov.uk/help-home-school-transport

Help with home to school transport

Find out if your child is eligible for help with the cost of home to school transport

https://www.gov.uk/help-home-school-transport

Silencedmummy · 21/04/2026 10:46

What they don’t tell you, is that council have a duty of care to provide taxi provision to the school that best meets her needs and NOT in the catchment area that’s closest to you. So keep pushing because it’s a legal obligation for your daughter. Doesn’t matter if school is 10 miles away or more, if it’s the closest school that best meets her needs they must provide the funding.

ChemistryIs · 21/04/2026 10:46

Senmater · 21/04/2026 09:30

No one else available, no. Most secondary school children make their own way to school, so I am not sure why that is relevant.

The council has a duty to provide transport in the case of Sen, I am wondering if anyone has insight into the legal basis here.

The council has a duty to provide transport in the case of Sen, I am wondering if anyone has insight into the legal basis here.

You are posting in AIBU - you are less likely to get legal advice here. Repost in education flagging legal advice needed. There are some great professionals to advise you from a legal perspective.

Senmater · 21/04/2026 10:47

Twasasurprise · 21/04/2026 10:43

I see that hiding in amongst the disgusting posts you've had some excellent advice. I agree with PP that AIBU isn't the best place for this as so many just want to pile on you. Maybe Report your post and request a move to Legal or SEN board?

Best of luck, YANBU!

I have asked for the thread to be deleted now that I have had the legal advise. The comments about benefits and showing bias against the disabled are not relevant or helpful.

OP posts:
Shallotsaresmallonions · 21/04/2026 10:49

PurpleNightingale · 21/04/2026 10:03

Do most secondary school children make their own way? Genuine question. I grew up in the country and we were majority dropped off and picked up by our parents due to poor transport options. My parents juggled 7 years of two schools until we were all though to secondary and beyond.

I would say in any towns/cities the vast majority of secondary kids get themselves to school. It's either walkable, or there will be a variety of public transport options available.

Themumsonthebus · 21/04/2026 10:52

Eridian · 21/04/2026 10:40

Absolutely. So any posters who have a bee in their bonnet about transport costs should be replying to the consultation issued by the “Education Secretary” which proposes policies to make these problems far, far worse, and try to shove even more children into mainstream state schools which are totally unsuitable for them. This will not only wreck any prospect of the disabled children receiving and education but also make things ten times worse for the children for whom mainstream school IS appropriate, with more disruption and unmet need and children in their classes for whom the school is quite clearly totally inappropriate.

The obviously needed solution is a far wider variety of schools locally catering to different types of needs/ abilities so that teachers can teach similar children together, classes are calm and suitable for the children in them, different educational approaches and curriculums can be adopted for different children, and all children can go to school without trauma or travelling for miles in taxis or ending up out of school entirely for years.

One-size-fits all has manifestly failed and yet with have an “Education Secretary” so utterly stupid that she thinks doubling down on this will improve things. Look forward to even more teachers leaving the profession and your children being taught by supply and in classes so disrupted that nobody learns a single thing. And she has the disingenuousness to pretend that this will be for the benefit of children, rather than at least having the decency to admit that it is purely about trying to save money, to the detriment of every single child in the state system.

It would be nice if posters could at least learn the basics about a topic before posting their ignorant bile. However, this wasn’t what this thread is about, so if they are determined to do this perhaps they could start a new thread about it rather than write it on the OP’s thread which was about her specific child and what she should do within the current system to ensure her DD can get to school. The OP is not responsible for the failed structure of state education which pretends that all children are little clones for whom the same environment and curriculum will be appropriate and that children with disabilities don’t exist.

Agree with every word of this!
My friends children have gone from failing to thriving now they are in schools that can meet their needs. The transformation is astonishing. But they have to each to to a different school in a different corner of the county.

The problem isn't parents asking for transport, it's that the system doesn't meet children's needs within their local schools

Eridian · 21/04/2026 10:52

Grumpyeeyore · 21/04/2026 10:25

You would need to show either your child can’t walk the distance or they can but there is good reason why you can’t accompany your child to school by walking (assuming it’s within 2 miles). Other children aren’t usually accepted as good reason but it depends on individual circumstances. As your other children can and do use a breakfast club then the council has likely relied on that as why you don’t have a good reason as you can get all children to school. If you pulled your children out of breakfast club the council is saying that’s still fine because your child could be late. But in a way that irrelevant as they would say using a breakfast club is something lots parents have to do and it’s reasonable to expect you to do that. If neither school had a breakfast club then you would have a stronger case that it’s unreasonable to expect you to accompany. If you can show you can’t afford the breakfast club or can’t get to work on time your case would be stronger.
You could apply for a social care assessment and if you got some direct payments use that to pay for breakfast club.
If your child cannot physically walk the distance to school because of SEND even if accompanied by an adult then they are eligible for transport and the council would decide what the most cost efficient way was - which could be paying for your other children’s breakfast club. if they have a blue badge there must be evidence they can’t walk far even if accompanied by an adult so they may meet this criteria. This is what you need to focus on
DLA is not part of the legal test either the child can walk the distance required or they can’t and either it’s reasonable to expect the parent to walk them or it’s not (eg a disabled single parent may not be expected to do so)
SENTAS charity gives free advice and can help you
Has the council assessed if your child can walk to school? Often they forget the legal test is a walking test and rely on parents driving.

With respect, most of that is not relevant.

Per the Education Act, if the OP’s child has been allocated a school she cannot walk to the LA must provide transport for her.

She has a blue badge so cannot walk there.

The end.

There is no need for any of the rest of it. The law is clear. If this school is named on her EHCP and she can’t walk to it the LA is legally required to provide transport. Of course they’ll often try to wreck the parent’s health/ career by demanding the parent do it themselves, put unlawful “policies” in place about when they’ll provide transport which are illegal if they try to override the criteria in the law, or fail to tell the parent about what the law states.

The OP simply needs to tell the LA that her daughter — who is so disabled that she has a blue badge — clearly cannot walk to the allocated school and quote the Education Act requirements that specifically state the LA must provide transport for her daughter. The Education Act also states that all children must receive a full time education therefore the proposal that her DD arrives late every day is also unlawful.

Eridian · 21/04/2026 10:55

Senmater · 21/04/2026 10:47

I have asked for the thread to be deleted now that I have had the legal advise. The comments about benefits and showing bias against the disabled are not relevant or helpful.

I’m so sorry that you had to endure this and hope posters who clearly know nothing about this at all refrain in future from commenting on such threads. 💐

DellOpen · 21/04/2026 11:06

Absolutely this is not what DLA is for, and it's also not the parents' job to solve in isolation.

I think this is probably part of the LA's crackdown on home to school transport. It doesn't help that you are leading with asking for cash for childcare which doesn't fit the mould. I think you should apply for home to school transport, secure that first then offer to take DD yourself for a cost of x (breakfast club costs)m

It's possible that her home to school transport would be on a minibus or in a shared taxi and the additional cost of adding her to an existing run is much less than the daily cost of 2 lots of childcare. I think this is how DS got SEN transport - there was a taxi running past the end of our road with space in it. So ask for transport, not childcare money, and see where it goes.

It's not acceptable for her to be late every day because she is legally entitled to a full time education. It's against her interests to be missing the transition into school period with her peers. LA does not get to decide unilaterally that it's ok - but understand that they probably never thought it was ok or cared much either way. They are just trying to convince you, in any way that you might fall for, to cover this yourselves so that they don't have to. It's not about what is right or legal it's anything they can do to not spend the money. You go back in saying actually she has a right to this, and I know she has a right to it. And take the help now because it'll get harder as she gets older.

MadinMarch · 21/04/2026 11:06

Senmater · 21/04/2026 09:29

Because the only reason I have this expense, which is not insignificant at nearly £50 a week, is due to having a child with SEN.

I am not putting all my children in breakfast club so I can get to work. I am earning less as I have to be around for my SEN child so I have had to cut my hours significantly. It seems like yet another cost of disability. If none of my children had sen, they would all be in the same school.

Do you receive pip or disability living allowance for your child? If so, then this payment could be used to pay for breakfast club on the basis that it allows your child to get to school daily on time.

Ashamedmuch · 21/04/2026 11:07

I think the distance needs to be 3+ miles for help to be given.

Also, different local authorities have different rules. So mine pays mileage to and from school, for two trips per day. Neighbouring LA pays literally half of that.

Eridian · 21/04/2026 11:07

MadinMarch · 21/04/2026 11:06

Do you receive pip or disability living allowance for your child? If so, then this payment could be used to pay for breakfast club on the basis that it allows your child to get to school daily on time.

Read the thread before posting your ignorant nonsense.

RudolphTheReindeer · 21/04/2026 11:09

I find it highly unlikely the school have agreed she can be late. I don't think you have a legal basis here. They've offered a taxi as is their legal duty. They don't have a legal duty to cover breakfast club fees. It would be logical if it saves them money, but common sense is pretty unheard of in LAs in my experience and I guess their hands are bound tbf.

ignore all the clueless people who have no idea.

just editing to add I've assumed they've offered a taxi?

Eridian · 21/04/2026 11:10

Ashamedmuch · 21/04/2026 11:07

I think the distance needs to be 3+ miles for help to be given.

Also, different local authorities have different rules. So mine pays mileage to and from school, for two trips per day. Neighbouring LA pays literally half of that.

Not if her DD has a blue badge, as the OP has stated.

She cannot walk to the allocated school named on her EHCP.

Therefore, legally, the LA must provide transport for her to get there, per the Education Act which has been in place for 30 years.

They are trying to make this the OP’s problem - that they have failed to provide sufficient local schools to enable all children to go to a school near their home which is appropriate for them - and it is not the OP’s problem at all.

The LA’s legal obligation is clearly set out in the Education Act in the sections that I specified in my first post on this thread, on page 1.

RudolphTheReindeer · 21/04/2026 11:10

Doseofreality · 21/04/2026 09:56

Why should the tax payer cover the cost of getting your children to school just because one has Autism?
I know plenty of families juggling children in different schools, financing breakfast and after school clubs or when cutting working hours. Some of their children also have disabilities.

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Because in certain circumstances the law says they must. Hth. Maybe it would help your friends to know too.

RudolphTheReindeer · 21/04/2026 11:16

Grumpyeeyore · 21/04/2026 10:25

You would need to show either your child can’t walk the distance or they can but there is good reason why you can’t accompany your child to school by walking (assuming it’s within 2 miles). Other children aren’t usually accepted as good reason but it depends on individual circumstances. As your other children can and do use a breakfast club then the council has likely relied on that as why you don’t have a good reason as you can get all children to school. If you pulled your children out of breakfast club the council is saying that’s still fine because your child could be late. But in a way that irrelevant as they would say using a breakfast club is something lots parents have to do and it’s reasonable to expect you to do that. If neither school had a breakfast club then you would have a stronger case that it’s unreasonable to expect you to accompany. If you can show you can’t afford the breakfast club or can’t get to work on time your case would be stronger.
You could apply for a social care assessment and if you got some direct payments use that to pay for breakfast club.
If your child cannot physically walk the distance to school because of SEND even if accompanied by an adult then they are eligible for transport and the council would decide what the most cost efficient way was - which could be paying for your other children’s breakfast club. if they have a blue badge there must be evidence they can’t walk far even if accompanied by an adult so they may meet this criteria. This is what you need to focus on
DLA is not part of the legal test either the child can walk the distance required or they can’t and either it’s reasonable to expect the parent to walk them or it’s not (eg a disabled single parent may not be expected to do so)
SENTAS charity gives free advice and can help you
Has the council assessed if your child can walk to school? Often they forget the legal test is a walking test and rely on parents driving.

Is sentas still running?I couldn't find their website last time I tried.

askmenow · 21/04/2026 11:17

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Pearlstillsinging · 21/04/2026 11:17

Senmater · 21/04/2026 09:30

No one else available, no. Most secondary school children make their own way to school, so I am not sure why that is relevant.

The council has a duty to provide transport in the case of Sen, I am wondering if anyone has insight into the legal basis here.

I suggest you talk to your local SENDIASS. They should be able to support your claim or explain why it isn't feasible (I think it should be).

Eridian · 21/04/2026 11:17

Themumsonthebus · 21/04/2026 10:52

Agree with every word of this!
My friends children have gone from failing to thriving now they are in schools that can meet their needs. The transformation is astonishing. But they have to each to to a different school in a different corner of the county.

The problem isn't parents asking for transport, it's that the system doesn't meet children's needs within their local schools

Sadly there are a huge number of clueless and ignorant people who appear to believe that attacking the parent of a disabled child is appropriate, with clearly not the faintest idea of the reality of what such parents have to deal with for years on end just to enforce their child’s basic legal right to go to school, which is set out not only in UK law but in an international law as a requirement for all countries in the world, many of whom are much, much poorer than the UK.

The posters who have posted disgusting comments here should go away and read about the harrowing stories of the distress and trauma caused to these children ignored by the UK state education system and the multiple studies showing that failing to provide appropriate education for them costs the state far MORE than it would to do so, in lost productivity, increased welfare dependency, lower tax revenues and higher justice and health costs resulting from this abject failure of the UK’s “Department for Education”.

Having a go at the OP, one of the victims of this complete failure of the UK’s Education Department to comply with UK law and international law, is completely unacceptable.

TigerRag · 21/04/2026 11:19

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You think it's entitled for a disabled child to get their education and get to school on time? When I was at school there was a child who regularly came in late. It's disruptive to others

Jellycatspyjamas · 21/04/2026 11:20

Doseofreality · 21/04/2026 09:56

Why should the tax payer cover the cost of getting your children to school just because one has Autism?
I know plenty of families juggling children in different schools, financing breakfast and after school clubs or when cutting working hours. Some of their children also have disabilities.

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Because named provision/specialist provision is often at a distance, some parents wouldn’t be able to get their kids there is they were the only child, never mind balancing other children. There’s almost no provision out of hours for kids with additional support needs, so no breakfast club or after school care to help stagger drops offs and collections and they often can’t access mainstream childcare. It’s not the same as juggling two kids in mainstream school who can use wrap around provision.

DeafLeppard · 21/04/2026 11:21

I don't think anyone is saying that the council shouldn't fund transport (via whatever mechanism) to a school that's written into the EHCP, rather that the council has limited obligation to provide transport that works perfectly for the OP's circumstances. The OP doesn't get to say "i want transport at this time in this fashion to meet these exact circumstances". Also - round here our LA would bite your hand off if you asked for a transport budget and not a taxi.

Most people would expect DLA/PIP to be used to cover costs arising from whatever the OP needs to mitigate the above, including things like breakfast clubs (and free breakfast clubs are being rolled out in England). And taxpayers will get grumpy if they feel that the state is paying for a Motability car (not saying that's the case here but it is often), DLA/PIP, paid transport to and from school, and extra costs on top of that. It's not unreasonable for that to be questioned, no matter how uncomfortable it makes people feel.

purpleheartsandroses · 21/04/2026 11:22

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It's not entitlement if it's a legal requirement.

It's the parents responsibility to get the children to school when they can choose the school, absolutely. When you have a disabled DC and have zero choice in where they're placed (if at all), or even a non-disabled DC who gets a school miles away, it becomes the LAs responsibility.

Eridian · 21/04/2026 11:22

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You are clearly ignorant of UK law, and international law, and economics.

I would suggest that your comment is the entitled one. As someone who pays a very large amount of tax, I’d far rather it was spent on providing appropriate education for all children per the law than spent on the increased healthcare costs, justice costs, welfare costs and lower tax revenues meaning my tax will rise even further in future which are the well-documented result of NOT providing appropriate education for all children.

Every £1 spent on education for disabled children has been shown to have a long-term benefit of £3 to the economy.

It’s not the OP’s fault that the state has failed to recognise this economic fact that it is a false economy not to provide an appropriate range of local schools catering to the different abilities and needs of children and tries to force them all, unsuccessfully, into an environment that’s completely inappropriate for many of them, hence it having to provide transport to schools further away.

I have worked in economics for the last 20 years, by the way.

Keep your ignorant comments to yourself in future.

Eridian · 21/04/2026 11:24

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