I don't think am being unreasonable but just want to check.
I have a dd 2 months shy of being 5 and a 5 month old ds.
Today I had to attend an appointment and left my children with dh.
When I returned home he was giving my ds a bottle, however he was letting my dd 'help' by allowing her to hold the bottle, I was furious at his stupidity.
Okay he was also holding the bottle but my dd could still have hurt my ds by pushing the bottle.
He thinks it was nice that dd wanted to help so clearly does not agree with me, which is insulting as I am after all their mother so it should be my rules that apply.
He might be their father but as he didn't birth them then I my view they are my children so my say in what is appropriate.
His dangerous behaviour has do upset me that I am sitting here unable to sleep.