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AIBU to feel guilty for not stopping a crow?

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AliceNotInChains · 20/04/2026 09:38

Just seen a crow attacking a black bird nest down our driveway, all the black birds where dive bombing it and it didn’t care, it managed to pull a baby bird out of the nest, crow and baby fell onto driveway and crow was them divebombed by around 7 blackbirds 😱 it was throwing the baby around in the air, it was awful. I stopped watching but I’m assuming it got away with the baby. Now I feel guilty - I could have gone out and stopped it but I didn’t - it’s nature isn’t it 😞 would you have intervened?

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Hallamule · 21/04/2026 09:53

Doone22 · 20/04/2026 21:15

Yes crows are relentless predators and their numbers largely uncontrolled these days thanks to Chris Packham's interference in general licensing. They and the rest of the corvid family are partly responsible for the decimation of song birds in the UK.
The rspb try to control them but fighting a losing battle.

Corvids and song birds have coexisted for millenia. Its human impacts, particularly in forestry and agriculture, that have decimated songbirds.

tiptoptoemaytoe · 22/04/2026 03:09

Bloody hell- I had to google crow grudges 😱😱😱

AIBU to feel guilty for not stopping a crow?
AIBU to feel guilty for not stopping a crow?
Doone22 · 22/04/2026 07:26

Hallamule · 21/04/2026 09:53

Corvids and song birds have coexisted for millenia. Its human impacts, particularly in forestry and agriculture, that have decimated songbirds.

You can hardly avoid human impacts without removing people from the planet - our entire countryside is a managed landscape - and has been since humans existed - if you take predator control out of the equation you remove the balance. You can of course leave everything to to return to the "wild" but such a thing doesn't really exist anymore and its the managed landscape has far greater biodiversity than any rewilding

politicsdomyheadin · 22/04/2026 07:31

You should’ve stepped in.

WarmLilacHiker · 22/04/2026 11:26

jellyfish798 · 20/04/2026 15:08

Never heard of this in nearly ten years living in a rural area. Farmers were much more concerned about unleashed dogs, thieves, and sinkholes on the sheep farm!

Maybe it's more a small rural area of Scotland issue ... We're not going to be worried about thieves or sinkholes!

Ileithyia · 26/04/2026 08:45

AliceNotInChains · 20/04/2026 09:38

Just seen a crow attacking a black bird nest down our driveway, all the black birds where dive bombing it and it didn’t care, it managed to pull a baby bird out of the nest, crow and baby fell onto driveway and crow was them divebombed by around 7 blackbirds 😱 it was throwing the baby around in the air, it was awful. I stopped watching but I’m assuming it got away with the baby. Now I feel guilty - I could have gone out and stopped it but I didn’t - it’s nature isn’t it 😞 would you have intervened?

Crows are corvids, birds of prey similar to kestrels, falcons, owls etc. It’s brutal to see them steal baby birds from nests, but there would be no point intervening as the baby would die of shock (and probably internal injuries) even if you did manage to put it back in the nest. There’s also an element of Darwinism here, the nest was obviously not in a good spot, too accessible to the crow, so mummy blackbird needs to choose a different site next time. Sad, but as others have said, it’s nature, and baby crows need to eat too.

boatyardblues · 26/04/2026 08:49

Disturbia81 · 20/04/2026 09:53

For some reason I thought they only ate carrion, I love crows and never seen that side to them. But nature is nature

A jay emptied the great tit’s nest in our neighbour’s garden a couple of springs ago. I know because it stopped on the wall across from our kitchen window to rearrange its prey. It returned every 5-10 mins until it had emptied the nest. 😔

Ileithyia · 26/04/2026 08:56

jellyfish798 · 20/04/2026 15:08

Never heard of this in nearly ten years living in a rural area. Farmers were much more concerned about unleashed dogs, thieves, and sinkholes on the sheep farm!

This is kinda true, if a sheep gets stuck on its back crows will eat its eyes. (But they don’t attack mobile, healthy sheep or lambs) It’s not malicious, the eyes are the softest easiest part to eat. I grew up on a farm and have seen it happen, I might check with my mum, but I have a vague memory of having a one-eyed ewe due to a crow.

I’ll probably get flamed, but foxes are far more destructive than crows, they’ll kill far more than they'll eat, decimating chickens, and killing small lambs, they are not the cute puppies that the media portrays them as. Farmers try to control fox populations for a reason, crows are only a risk to newly sown crops.

Tryonemoretime · 26/04/2026 15:26

Thinking of changing my name to Crowscomingafteryou.......

crowscomingafterYOU · 26/04/2026 16:45

Tryonemoretime · 26/04/2026 15:26

Thinking of changing my name to Crowscomingafteryou.......

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