Right, I am an HR Advisor and work in a charity who are parry of a wider group. Each charity has their own standalone HR but when there is absence etc then I am asked to help out.
So I am helping out at one charity and popped in to see Director on my way out and to say hi (i have worked with him in past so dont know him hugely but didnt want to just leave).
He offered me a tea, I accepted and then we just had a chit chat. He kept talking which is a bit of a joke between everyone as a quick chat could be hours. But I wasn't ready to just go home as it was some day and I needed some friendly chat and a cuppa.
Anyway, after chatting I noticed time was really running away. He kept talking and I felt it was rude to interput and say I had to go but it was getting ridiculous at 7pm! So I did cut him off and said that its late. I need to go now. He apologised and took my cup to go clean it. He then said he would let me out as reception would have left and locked the front door. On site, there is an uncall house he sometimes stays at. He lives an hr away.
He walked out room. Turned back, and said, its getting late, i dont think I'll go home. Do you think its late for me to go home or should I stay??
I said, what have yoh told your wife, is she expecting you home? He said yes, I said, its only hr, go home. He said okay.
The next day I was telling my coworker I stayed quite late etc. I told her the exchange and she said he was probably wanting me to stay too and he was flirting with me. I am not sure if thats what happened. I then told my partner to see and he thought it was weird. What do you think? I am asking as if its likely he was, I will keep my distance.