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to be fed up with neighbours' bedtime toddler running routine?

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juststoop · 19/04/2026 10:11

Every single evening, the neighbours next door seem to try and tire out their toddler before bed by letting him run around the house screaming. I don’t mean a bit of noise, I mean full-on running laps with the volume getting louder. I can hear them encouraging him to run faster.

It happens every night, at the same time and the noise carries straight through the walls. It is not just footsteps, it is the shouting and high-pitched screaming that goes with it.

I did mention it to them once and they said that they do it on purpose to tire him out before bed, like it was some kind of clever routine. Basically they weren't going to stop.

I get that toddlers are noisy and I am not expecting silence. I wish it would stop.

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juststoop · 20/04/2026 14:52

hellomylov3 · 20/04/2026 14:29

Gosh some people have little to complain about!

Gosh some people have no idea of the lives of people from one post on mumsnet!

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Midnights68 · 20/04/2026 14:54

waterrat · 20/04/2026 14:33

The noise of a noisy child - for about an hour at day - is part of neighbourhood living.

I have had ALL sorts of neighbours - some really unpleasant/scary/stressful. Children are one of the better noises!

I've had heavy metal at top volume/ weight lifting while shouting abusive slogans (!) - parties/ karaoke in the middle of the day from drunk people/ genuinely frightening incidents / uptight young people who complained about my baby crying.

I am not saying you have to like it or that you can't have a polite chat with them to let them know you find it stressful (i would say they would be better off taking him for a little walk!)

but - yes our neighbours can bother us - and I would personally suck this up.

Yes, I agree with this. I’ve had neighbours who, on being asked to keep it down after hours of noise at 2am, called me a fucking cunt and started deliberately jumping on and throwing things on the floor (they were in the apartment above) - so I think that colours my view.

BauhausOfEliott · 20/04/2026 14:57

YANBU.

If it's any consolation in a grim 'it could be worse' type of way, my neighbours' youngest child does this most nights from about 9pm right through to about 1-2am.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 20/04/2026 15:01

They are only little and won't be doing it when they are 16.

Or next year, likely. Have you asked your neighbours whether they could keep the screams down a bit? Hasn't the toddler gone to bed by about 7pm anyway?

juststoop · 20/04/2026 15:03

BauhausOfEliott · 20/04/2026 14:57

YANBU.

If it's any consolation in a grim 'it could be worse' type of way, my neighbours' youngest child does this most nights from about 9pm right through to about 1-2am.

That is a longer than the toddler next door. How do you cope?

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 20/04/2026 15:05

AmIReallyTheGrownup · 20/04/2026 14:24

Actually it’s the usual advice you’re given for poor sleepers. Rough and tumble play is good for children who need more sensory input - it discharges tension and helps them wind down for sleep. Not all kids are cut from the same cloth when it comes to sleep.

Ha, yes DD2 still goes all giddy, silly and chatty when she's really tired then drops (and is 17 now!) Probably a bit quieter (mostly) than when she was two though.

oldshprite · 20/04/2026 15:27

google black metal. blast on full volume.

BauhausOfEliott · 20/04/2026 15:34

juststoop · 20/04/2026 15:03

That is a longer than the toddler next door. How do you cope?

How do you cope?

Through a combination of gritted teeth, loud TV and headphones. But it's not ideal.

Whosthetabbynow · 20/04/2026 16:16

Usedoccasionally · 20/04/2026 14:31

this child is being taught it’s ok to make a load of noise and be inconsiderate - it won’t change , the child will get older and larger and louder . I’m afraid I agree with you and you need to address it again .

Yep. You do exactly what you like and fuck the world around you. Too much of it.

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