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What are your thoughts on homemade clothes?

137 replies

ClothingDilemma · 18/04/2026 19:59

My mum has recently retired and taken up sewing. She’s absolutely brilliant at it and we’ve come to an agreement that if I pick patterns, she’ll buy them (as she can reuse them) and I will buy the fabric for her to make the clothes for me.

I am really keen as it seems such a sustainable and fabulous idea. Clothes that are made to measure (so they’re more flattering) and no waste or fast fashion. It also works out to be a lot cheaper than purchasing at a high street store!

My partner, however, thinks it’s a stupid idea and I’ll just look silly.

YABU - it’s a bad idea.

YANBU - it’s a fabulous idea

OP posts:
Bristolandlazy · 19/04/2026 16:22

Your partner is an idiot, your mum sounds brilliant. My daughter likes making her own clothes and I'm proud of her.

Fabric land in Bristol is brilliant. They've got a website, it's a bit of a rubbish website but they're very reasonably priced.

SarahAndQuack · 19/04/2026 16:42

CaptainMyCaptain · 19/04/2026 16:19

Except in my long experience it is much cheaper. I'll leave it there now and just carry on making my cheaper clothes.

I'm really not disagreeing that you find it cheaper! I'm not sure why you keep on about it. I'm just saying we need to compare like with like and not de-value people's time and effort (including people making cloth and clothing of all types). It's really not meant to be critical and it seems a shame to get stroppy about it on a thread that's mostly enthusiastic for the OP's lovely mum and her plans.

FruAashild · 19/04/2026 17:08

I think it's OK for handmade clothes to be more expensive than high street clothes. We have lost sight of what clothes really cost, we buy clothes made from cheap plastic fabrics that are sewn by people working in sweatshops in poor countries and are destroying the world with all the fast fashion we buy. If the cost of the time it takes to handmake the garment is more than the cost of a similar item on the high street then the issue isn't the handmade item, it's the high street and we should be questioning that, not the people who chose to make their own clothes because they enjoy it.

SarahAndQuack · 19/04/2026 17:11

FruAashild · 19/04/2026 17:08

I think it's OK for handmade clothes to be more expensive than high street clothes. We have lost sight of what clothes really cost, we buy clothes made from cheap plastic fabrics that are sewn by people working in sweatshops in poor countries and are destroying the world with all the fast fashion we buy. If the cost of the time it takes to handmake the garment is more than the cost of a similar item on the high street then the issue isn't the handmade item, it's the high street and we should be questioning that, not the people who chose to make their own clothes because they enjoy it.

YY, agree so much!

Likewise, new cloth should cost money.

Whenthemorningcomes · 19/04/2026 18:20

You have inspired me @ClothingDilemma

I used to sew a lot and loved making clothes for me and the kids. I realise now, with the benefit of some distance, that I was REALLY good, but just took it for granted. I stopped about 15 years ago, but at the time I had been sewing extensively for 25 years. I even made friends wedding dresses. I look now at things I made then, and the quality is just miles ahead of store bought.

It would probably take me some time to get back into it again, but I think I will. I told myself at the time that things had just become too busy between work and family, but actually I now think it was because I had started to need glasses but hadn’t realised.

Comtesse · 19/04/2026 18:45

You partner is an idiot. If someone knows what they are doing handmade clothes can look brilliant.

ClothingDilemma · 08/05/2026 08:38

I’m back with an update! I’ve made some trousers which (I think) could pass as shop bought. I’m now running before I can walk and coming up with my own pattern ideas 🤣

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Sweetpea232 · 08/05/2026 09:18

Re cost, I’ve just made a jacket to wear for my son’s wedding. Im not a very experienced sewer and not very confident.

the pattern was a free basic online pattern, just front, back and sleeves.

i made it up first in duvet fabric from a charity shop and used that to adjust the free pattern to fit perfectly - it’s amazing how much fabric you can acquire, often brand new, by looking in the bedding section of charity shops. I have a stash of pure cotton duvet covers and sheets with metres and metres of nice fabric for £1-£3 each, ideal for making toiles.

Once I knew it fitted i made it up a second time properly, again from my charity shop duvet stash, adding a lining and trying out some alterations to the sleeves and collar until I was happy with it. This gave me a perfectly useful casual jacket as well as confidence to start cutting my ‘expensive’ fabric.

and once it was adjusted perfectly, I finally made it in my proper Japanese fabric, knowing it was going to fit and look just like it was supposed to,

The first try took an hour or so to put together, the second maybe three hours as I fine tuned the fit, and the final jacket another three hours.

so the only real cost was a couple of meters of nice fabric, everything else was from a stash acquired very cheaply.

And I can now reproduce this jacket as often as I want knowing it’s tailored exactly to my size. No ‘one shops 12 is another shops 16’, or ‘fits at the waist, gapes at the neck’ issues to deal with.

An adjustable dummy altered (and padded!) to fit my size exactly was invaluable though, so I could work on it without constant putting on and taking off.

TenTenTenAgain · 08/05/2026 09:39

@ClothingDilemma that's fantastic. Are you happily share a picture of your work?

TorturedParentsDepartment · 08/05/2026 09:43

Just beware of shit AI generated patterns (especially on the likes of Etsy).

I have a colleague (well she's retired now) who is the most incredibly skilled seamstress - to the point she would come in wearing an immaculately tailored blazer with colour contrast piping and pockets and lining and everything and then chirpily comment that "oh it was a pair of curtains from the charity shop"

WannabeMathematician · 08/05/2026 09:58

ClothingDilemma · 08/05/2026 08:38

I’m back with an update! I’ve made some trousers which (I think) could pass as shop bought. I’m now running before I can walk and coming up with my own pattern ideas 🤣

Congratulations! It’s so good to wear your own clothes!

GoldMoon · 08/05/2026 10:56

Being able to read a pattern and sew is a great skill , and I'm in awe of anyone who is able . Lucky you .

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